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i put the bi in lesbian

@lesbidykez / lesbidykez.tumblr.com

• they/them • xe/xem • ze/hir • he/him • it/its •
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introduction

hi guys! my name is teddy ʕ •ᴥ•ʔ
i am white disabled adult (24)
note: my header is a gif, you aren’t hallucinating
my icon uses this butch flag
interests: queer culture, punk + goth culture & fashion, art, animal crossing, musical theatre, d&d, cute things, ponyo, cats, the osemanverse (especially heartstopper), pjo, and disability activism
i wish i could say i tag triggers but i simply don’t have the memory capabilities to remember to do so. if you need to unfollow due to this that’s perfectly fine
this blog supports inclusion, equal rights, and is firmly anti-bigotry
was: teddyhearts -> teddygendered -> fagdykezz -> lesbidykez -> nbsoftbutch -> lesbidykez
sides:
i’m also on:
  • cohost (nbsoftbutch main, tjellis art, our-nonbinary-experience nb ask blog)
  • pillowfort (nbsoftbutch)
minors please filter “#minors dni” if you follow 💞
DNF IF:
general dnf criteria, don’t be a jerk. also, don’t follow if you’re anti-endogenic systems and/or against contradictory identities (ie mspec lesbians/gays, multigender folk, oriented aroace folk, etc)
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Sometimes the rats in my brain come together and start yelling “YEARNING” and in trying to appease them I ask “FOR WHAT” but they are too small so all they can say is “YEARNING” which is a very big word for such a tiny creature, even collectively

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mandyseley

I loved this visual so much I had to doodle it.

ratratratratrat

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wolf-tail

I love how much love and grace children are given in Ponyo.

Ponyo is brand new to humanity. She was literally a fish yesterday. All five year olds are brand new to humanity, even non fish ones.

She and Sosuke are treated with patience and kindness by pretty much all the adults around them, because they're little kids trying to figure out what it means to live in this world.

And they're not demeaned either, or treated like they're stupid. Their decissions are treated by most of the characters, and by the narrative, as being valid and worthy of respect.

Children are essentially small, new people with very little information about the world and deserve to be treated with the dignity and patience they're owed.

Ponyo is a very pro-child movie.

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niidsch

Ponyo (崖の上のポニョ), dir. Hayao Miyazaki, 2008

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elliesbelle

emily gwen, the creator of the sunset lesbian flag that we’ve come to commonly use, still continues to live in poverty.

multi-billion dollar companies have used their design and made profit from it, and yet they have not seen a cent for their creation.

i’ve been friends with emily for years, and i have not once seen them be financially stable the entire time. i’ve seen them homeless, unemployed, starving. right now, they need our help more than ever.

please consider donating to emily’s ko-fi, especially if you’ve used their design to create something and profited from it.

MY FRIEND EMILY DESPERATELY NEEDS HELP RIGHT NOW.

PLEASE REBLOG THIS AND CONSIDER DONATING TO KEEP THEM AFLOAT, EVEN IF YOU CAN’T GIVE TOO MUCH. THEY DO NOT HAVE CONSISTENT AND STABLE HOUSING RIGHT NOW AND NOBODY IS HIRING EVEN IF THEY’RE APPLYING TO JOBS DAILY. EMILY’S BILLS ARE PILING UP AND THEY’VE BEEN PUTTING OFF THERAPY + PSYCHIATRIST + DOCTOR’S APPOINTMENTS BECAUSE THEY CAN’T AFFORD IT.

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Local house witch telling you to please learn basic housekeeping skills.

It’s not your fault if no one ever taught you but YouTube is a magical place and can teach you at your own pace.

Someone asked me what housekeeping skills I’d recommend learning.

Keep in ming that this is not me shaming you, I know you have your reasons, folks. This is just a guy who enjoys clean spaces asking that you start learning now.

Here’s what I suggest as an adult who has lived with other adults who didn’t have housekeeping skills:

First and foremost, learn about all the places in your house that need to be cleaned and understand how often they should be cleaned. the American Cleaning Institute (I guess that’s a thing) has a good article about basic cleaning info. Plus this video on cleaning tips is great!

Learn how to do your dishes. HOT water is the only way to clean your dishes.

Learn how to clean your shower head, especially if you live in a place with hard water. Same goes for your sinks.

Learn how to do your laundry correctly. Even without the whole “separating whites and colors” thing, there are things you need to learn about washing your clothes. Learn what the tags mean, too.

Also, you don’t have to use fabric softener and you shouldn’t use it on towels or any fabric meant to absorb. (Learn about laundromats) And please learn how to clean out your dryer vent, it’s a safety hazard!

Get a disinfecting cleaner for your high-touch areas, especially the gross ones like the bathroom. Just because it doesn’t look dirty, doesn’t mean it’s clean!

Learn how to sweep, mop, and vacuum effectively.

You’ll also want to make sure to change out your home’s air filters.

TL;DR, here are some cleaning videos.

Now these resources are not the end-all-be-all, but I think if you don’t know much about cleaning your space this is a good way to start.