Hey if this gets read by the real owner, you seem to have been hacked. If this is read by the pathetic spammer hacker, go fuck yourself with a pineapple.
Thank you, this is the real owner. I don't use tumblr anymore but I was fortunate enough to get a notification about your message. I've changed my password and hopefully they will leave my account alone. Thank you so much for letting me know. I hope you have a lovely day :) xx
Mark Ruffalo + Spoiling things
I watched Avengers Assemble today.
character in a fight scene: *restrains their opponent by pinning them against the wall by their wrists*
me:
car rides by yourself.. with loud music… are good for the soul.
“see, that that’s why we, uh, keep our cocktails neat. pretend you’re abroad, on vacation someplace exotic, but no mojitos. josie just throws mint in the beer.”
chris evans, the love of my life.
Forever our captain.
fyi: i’m sorry i haven’t been posting as much as i normally do, some of my mental health problems have returned (don’t worry, nothing too bad!) and my university is keeping me busy, but know that i am here, i do intend to post every day and i hope that i’ll be back up to speed soon:) xx
What do I do if I really want to come out and I feel like I might burst if I don't but I'm not sure how my parents would react? I know they wouldn't hurt me but they might try to fix me or ban me from sleepovers with girls or send me to my pastor. I don't know. Maybe they'd just be disappointed... idk what should I do.
If you want to, I think you should do it. You can’t control how others will react, but if you feel comfortable with your decision, I think that you should do it. I personally came out to my family even though I knew they would not react well to it, but I felt that I was prepared for that kind of reaction. Don’t feel pressured to come out, but if you really want to, I would go for it! And if your family don’t react well, know that myself and I’m sure others on tumblr, and perhaps your friends in real life, are here for you and support you. x
Me: *gets an extreme urge to be creative/productive* I should stop browsing tumblr and do this thing before I lose motivation
Also me: *keeps browsing*
Hey can I dm you for advice with my boyfriend? You are one of my favorite blogs but I don’t wanna intrude unless it’s cool
Of course you can! Message me anytime and i’ll get back to you asap. Thank you so much! :) x
I am a gay teen. My dad has expressed he would be cool if I were a lesbian. However I’m still kinda scared to come out to him because he is pretty sexist and fetishizes lesbians. He’s stated that he’s not ok with gay men because it’s “disgusting” but lesbians are fine because it’s “pretty and appealing”
Trigger warning: Homophobia
I know exactly how you feel. This is exactly the same problem I faced with my own dad. My dad is very liberal and when I was 16, I ended up coming out to him because he seemed to be pro lgbt. He was so accepting of my sexuality, that at first I was completely overjoyed. However, over the years I realised that he wasn't actually okay with it at all. He was just fetishizing it. I have had many arguments with him about it (the last one being two days ago). For example, he would say things like "make sure you remain a feminine lesbian. I don't think I could cope with a butch daughter." and "Lesbians making out are so sexy" and "at least you're a gay girl, not a gay guy. Can you imagine if your brother was gay?" and "whatever you do don't cut your hair or wear suits" and "you better date a feminine girl. I don't want some butch chick coming to family dinners". The comments were awful and I would cry about it all the time, because I enjoyed wearing androgynous outfits and dating butch girls. the homophobic comments made me think that he actually wasn't as okay with it as I'd originally thought. But even though my dad says these things, I felt a tremendous relief coming out to him and I wouldn't undo that if I had the chance. Does the stuff he says upset me? Absolutely. Do I let it get to me? No, definitely not. fuck what he thinks. I'm going to stay true to myself and ignore his blatant homophobia. All lesbians are valid and we don't exist for the entertainment of male homophobes with a fetish.
I would still recommend coming out to your dad, but if he says anything homophobic or fetishizes you in anyway, please dont let it get to you. You will feel a sense of relief for coming out to him, but don't feel like you have to fit into his "ideal image" of what a lesbian should or shouldn't be. If he doesn't accept you for who you are, that's his problem and his alone. However, don't feel like you have to come out. You should only do so if you want to and not because you feel like you should. You should do it in your own terms and only if you feel comfortable in doing so. if you do decide to go ahead with coming out, know that I am here for you if you need someone to talk to and I wish you the best of luck. Xx
I laughed too hard at this
SO did I
PAHAHAHAHA!!
LUPITA NYONG'O in Tom Ford at the 2018 Governors Awards
An actual goddess
She is beautiful
She looks so good Jesus Christ
