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@lazytechsupport / lazytechsupport.tumblr.com

old enough thanks, bi, they/them or it/its rats, electronics and furry neurordivergency icon by Roxy of cyansorcery.com

Hello everyone, here is an Important Life Announcement.

Last week, without warning, @lazytechsupport and I lost our home. The flat directly next door had a devastating fire and is now nothing but ash, our building is blocked off and declared an unsafe health hazard full of smoke, ash and asbestos, and we are homeless until it is declared habitable again, possibly in six months. My partner and I are safe, but we are bereft, frightened, and obviously unsure about the future.

Luckily we were out when it happened, we’ve been told there are still salvageable items from most apartments, but we won’t even know what they might be or what our flat looks like for at least another month, when we may be let back in - once - briefly to recover some possessions. We’re currently living in a small hotel and trying not to despair too much. We have our laptops, a few changes of clothes, and most importantly each other. We’re alive. We’re okay. It’s going be okay. 💜

PLUCKY YOUNGSTER: oh no, it’s due tomorrow! what’ll i do…
KAZUMA KIRYU: mm? what’s wrong, kid?
PLUCKY YOUNGSTER: we’re learning about the ocean in class. i was supposed to write a report on the benthic zone, but… i fell behind.
KAZUMA KIRYU: (the benthic zone, huh? …lotta people interested in that, lately.)
PLUCKY YOUNGSTER: please, mister… could you help?
KAZUMA KIRYU: (not good for a bright young kid to fall behind in his studies… school’s the stepping stone for success in life.)
KAZUMA KIRYU: sure, kid. what do you need?
PLUCKY YOUNGSTER: you will? great! if you could just go down there and tell me what it’s like, that would be a great help!
KAZUMA KIRYU: ah.
KAZUMA KIRYU: (well, a promise is a promise.)
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For all my fellow oversharers out there.

As a chronic people-pleaser, this is my advice for success.

Offer as little as possible. Be terse. Get rid of all those exclamation marks and tidbits about why you want to take a sick day. State your needs clearly and concisely without reason. Start saying “No, I’m unable.” more often. Say Thank You only when the other party deserves it.