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The Sweet Blog of Hella Dwes

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NOW WITH EXTRA HELLA Hello, this is the newer blog of Dwes, you may remember me as this punk. This is my newer blog 23 | Female | USA | Personal and fandom blog | Married to tumblr user shslfeels

I need feminism because most men’s restrooms still aren’t equipped with baby changing stations. As someone who was married to a man who had sole custody of his young son, I’m hyperaware that feminism means EQUALITY, not female superiority. Feminism should and does support a man’s right to be as much of a parent to his child(ren) as any mother is allowed/expected to be.

This is a constant problem for Mr. Tea and myself. We’ve got twins, so even though I can change one kid on the change table in the ladies’ room, he’s left standing sort of awkwardly in the lobby with a messy child while I change one, come back, and get the other.

Nobody’s suggesting that men aren’t parents, so the lack of change tables goes well beyond ‘gender role reinforcing’ and straight into ‘ridiculous’.

My dad actually almost got kicked out of a mall once for changing my brother in the womens room of a mall. The only reason they didn’t call the cops on him was because the ladies in the room supported him.

I’d never even considered this but I support it

I feel like this might make too much sense for some people.

Wonder why we don’t hear MRAs complaining about this…?

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I would like to welcome you all to my super special self-care masterpost for all of you super special cuties out there! Unfortunately, it’s common to dislike ourselves and feel a little lower than usual. When that happens, it can be very difficult for us to acknowledge our worth! But never fear my darlings, because here are many ways to look after yourself, even if you’re feeling a little down. Best wishes and lots of love! ♥♥♥

Dealing with depression and feeling suicidal

Dealing with self harm 

Dealing with loneliness and break-ups 

Dealing with anxiety and stress

Dealing with bipolar disorder/ manic depression

Dealing with hallucinations and schizophrenia 

Dealing with eating disorders

Dealing with anger 

Dealing with insomnia/sleep deprivation 

Dealing with sexual assault and abuse

Dealing with domestic violence and abuse 

Helplines:

Learning to love yourself and be happy

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Dealing with substance abuse

Substance abuse/alcoholism helplines
  • US: National Drug Information Treatment and Referral Hotline: 1-800-662-HELP (4357)
  • US: Alcohol Abuse and Crisis Intervention: 1-800-234-0246
  • US: National Cocaine Hotline: 1-800-COCAINE (262-2463)
  • US: Al-Anon/Alateen Hotline (for friends and family) 1-800-344-2666
  • UK: Drinkline: Nat’l. Alcoholism Helpline: 0800 917 8282
  • NZ: Alcohol / Drug Helpline: 0800 787 797AUS: Alcohol & Other Drugs Information Service (ADIS): Freecall 1800 131 350
  • Australian helplines 
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Source: deathshands

Iceland; I salute you.

but by buying the tickets they are in fact supporting the preacher. he basically got all their money without having to give his sermon.

The tickets were free, you just had to reserve them. Then they reserved all of them. So it was just a huge “fuck you” to that guy. Super rad!

ah, thank you! i didn’t know it was free

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but actually tho

There are very few pictures of my childhood. Film was expensive and I was an ugly child. Instagram that lunch and your dog doing the thing. Go for it.

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