Hello, I'm Lavandee and this is my stim and aesthetic blog. I make gifs from videos I stumble across online and share them here. My main is @katiekomics
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That kin feeling when you're four different ones y'know? It's like that sometimes
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The thing that going to therapy has taught me is that labels are labels. You can choose them if they feel right, yes. But there are labels people will assign to you for convenience. For ease of access. To know how they should treat you.
And a diagnosis is one of those labels.
A diagnosis isn't a bad thing automatically but it is a label that's assigned to you so people have a general idea of your symptoms.
You can experience symptoms without a diagnosis. They don't appear out of nothing.
And sometimes a diagnosis is the last thing you want. If you're somebody like me who already has four and counting. Because what will your employer do? What does this mean for your independence in the future?
So don't shit on people who don't fit the mold. They know themselves best.
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Anonymous asked:
i dont think you realize how insulting it is to systems that you support "endogenics"
Hey guess what
I know systems. Systems who fakeclaimed me and others and caused severe psychological distress to the point I was put back into psychiatry/therapy to deal with traumatic stress disorder related symptoms.
I also know systems who are kind. Who are welcoming. Who don't fakeclaim others. And I'm on their side.
hey! traumagen system here! the "endogenic vs traumagenic" debate is an extension of trauma olympics- if you're not "traumatized" enough, you're called out as a fake. it just turns into a show of people trying to prove that they are, in fact, traumatized.
at the end of the day, everyone's better off supporting all types of systems- even endogenics. because guess what! some endogenics may *actually* be traumagenics, and some traumagenics may *actually* be endogenics! you really can't be sure just by taking someone's claim at face value!
when you go out of your way to tell a person that their experiences aren't valid, that they can't express theirselves in the way that works best for them, *you* become the asshole! it's really not hard to just leave people alone.
as a so called "real system" as those chucklefucks would put it I support you in your endeavours and also I love endogenic systems ❤️ I hope systems of all origins and types have a good day
Thank you so much for your support! You have a wonderful day, as well :D
"Insulting to systems" the systems I'm mutual friends with? Those systems? I am not obligated to be a people pleaser. I'll chose who I associate with.
Anonymous asked:
i dont think you realize how insulting it is to systems that you support "endogenics"
Hey guess what
I know systems. Systems who fakeclaimed me and others and caused severe psychological distress to the point I was put back into psychiatry/therapy to deal with traumatic stress disorder related symptoms.
I also know systems who are kind. Who are welcoming. Who don't fakeclaim others. And I'm on their side.
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