geniusoflove
people are the most interesting thing in the world im obsessed w everyones weird habits and funny stories. the average person is so fucked up that its funny. like no one on earth is normal n u should make it ur job to see why
getting that august feeling (things that have ended endlessly are ending again)
Steve Harringron in season 1 of Stranger Things is the most character. He did some bad stuff and immediately went "Aw, beans. That wasn't cool. I better go apologize" at which point The Plot he'd been blissfully unaware of for the entire show immediately tried to eat him.
A secret to happiness is letting every situation be what it is, instead of what you think it should be, and then making the best of it.
you can literally feel your brain become fully developed at age 25 btw. i was dumb as shit before then. i still am but in different ways
all i’m saying is the le creuset signature dutch oven in fig would make me normaler
she could fix me
not all of it is bad i think….…. we are going to be okay i think.
legit the best advice i can give you: feed your friends
any time someone is in any kind of crisis or upheaval, offer to feed them. tell them they don't have to choose what it is if they can't make decisions, just ask about allergies and preferences and tell them you're just gonna make food happen at their house.
friend having a baby? delivery gift certificate to order food to the hospital after the kid shows up.
someone's relative passes away? offer to make them dinner.
buddy gets laid off? ask if you can order them lunch.
pal stuck in a depressive episode? offer to drive them to fucking mcdonalds, if that's what they want.
people in crisis are tired and sad and angry and the last thing most of them are doing is thinking about feeding themselves. so if you have the ability or time or money, providing that is always, always a good move.
legit i do this all the time, and it is 100% always appreciated. i have taught all my friends that when something happens, we feed each other. it makes people feel extremely cared for, and I cannot recommend it enough.
immediately discussing your past with a new therapist is trauma dumping and is actually toxic because you don’t know if your therapist is mentally ready to receive such heavy information ahahahahhaha no but can you imagine actually arguing this i think it’ll be on tiktok within the year
posted august 23 2021
i too wish i was not the cassandra of my age
It really says something about how society treats children that today I told a 13 year old I was proud of her hard work and she nearly cried into my shoulder.
renniequeer
This was followed by me telling her and her sister that I thought their stories about D&D were really fun and creative, and them both being flat-out shocked that “anyone actually likes listening to us ramble.”
Like. Y’all. These kids should not be surprised that adults will actually listen to them and engage with them. This should not be a weird outlier.
Please be nice to children and treat them like people????
