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I suspect humans are the only animals that know the inevitability of their own death. Other animals live in the present, humans cannot. So they invented hope.

I’M THINKING OF ENDING THINGS (2020) | dir. Charlie Kaufman

"vote blue no matter who" rhetoric is there literal exact reason why there's no true leftist party in the US and why we've been steadily moving farther and farther right for fucking decades

Republicans are openly fascist trash.

Democrats are quietly fascist trash who happily continue the efforts of Republicans and are very comfortable moving farther right with every election because they know they'll always get support because they're the "lesser evil".

Democrats can say or do whatever the fuck they want because they KNOW they'll still get votes. The entire party is literally based around "vote for us because we're marginally less cartoonishly evil than the other guys" and we fucking fall for it every goddamn election.

Politicians exist to SERVE THE PEOPLE. They aren't fucking entitled to our votes just because they have a specific label slapped on them, and the idea that we should vote for someone just because they're a Democrat and might not be as bad as The Other Guys™ is just proof that our system is fucking ruined beyond saving.

It's the same fucking cycle every goddamn election.

1) We get a Republican president who pushes openly fascist policies.

2) We insist that they're evil because they're a Republican and we can never put a Republican back into office.

3) Democrat nominees end up being just as bad but with better PR teams.

4a) We insist that it doesn't matter, that they're in easier to influence, that we can enact real change when they're in office, that we need to vote blue no matter who.

4b) Anarchist and socialist groups end up suffering during election year because people are too focused on rallying behind a politician who will never care about them.

5) Democratic president wins and quietly continues the Republican's policies, but no one cares because they have a great PR team.

6) None of the promised change happens because people become complacent with a "good" president.

7) American politics move further right and the cycle continues.

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“You have the look of a man who accepts what he sees because he is expecting to wake up.”
The Matrix (1999)
Dirs. Lana & Lilly Wachowski
Deadly Premonition - Access Games. Set in the fictional, rural American town of Greenvale, Washington, the story follows FBI Special Agent Francis York Morgan as he investigates the murder of an eighteen-year-old woman, which bears similarities to a series of murders across the country

Revolutionary parenting hack:

If your child is in the middle of some activity and clearly enjoying it (and wasn't supposed to be doing something else instead), DO NOT interrupt them and have them do chores that will "only take 5 minutes or so!"

You haven't asked them to do anything before they got out the Legos, started reading a chapter of their book or painting the complicated picture, or began playing their video game.

As a result of being repeatedly interrupted, they will learn that their presence in public space of the household=availability to do chores, so they will make themselves scarce so you can't find them and order them around. They will also become suspicious of your efforts to engage with them as they play, as they've learned that these pleasantries are a prelude to "Take out the trash", or "move your boots and vacuum the entryway, there's dirt everywhere ".

"But I need my children to help me around the house!", I hear you cry. I understand. Children should not be treated like royalty and left to their own devices 24/7.

An alternative is to give the kids a clearly delineated chore chart and stick to it, resisting the urge to add anything to it. There are some chores that are easier and quicker with two people, though. A (in my opinion) even better option is to divide the child's day into "on-duty" and "off-duty " time. When they're on-duty, you can interrupt them as before, but you have *consulted with your child beforehand * and they understand that during this time they can relax, but they must be ready to jump in and lend a hand.

That way they won't start trying to level up in their video game or break out the clay and make stuff. When they are off-duty, you leave them alone and their only responsibilities are to clean up whatever mess they make at the end of this time.

Also, if they are tearing around the house or whining about being bored, don't make them do chores so they will "have something to do"; this could make the child conflate extra chores with punishment for whining and make them reluctant to help out when you randomly tell them to at other times because they might think they're being punished but they have NO IDEA WHAT THEY DID. And IMO children should see chores as things everyone has to do no matter what, not punishments.

I may seem unqualified to offer parenting advice as I have no kids, but I was talking with my dad today and he said: "I wish you didn't hide from us in your room so much, but every time your mom walked by she'd give you a chore to do, so I can't blame you for that." A kid who hides in their room to play has an entirely different relationship to the family than the child who sprawls on the livingroom floor and excitedly describes the city they are building out of Legos.

And today, in times of Covid I play a complicated game of hide-and-seek with my mother as I try to do my online coding homework and apply for jobs. I am now attempting to turn my bedroom into my own tiny office because if I work in our home office, she'll find me and go "I can't attach this file to my email," and so on.

Children *have* to obey their parents when they are young. But true respect and honoring collective responsibilities is stronger than forced obedience. If you demonstrate to your children that you respect them and their time, they will reciprocate.

Tl;dr if your child is "always hiding in their room", there is a reason for it and setting a regular routine and boundaries will benefit both of you in the long run.