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а смерти всё ещё нет, ребята

@kittoforos / kittoforos.tumblr.com

ros. they/it/он/она/iel. weird but with it. 27. white. usian.

It's so important to remember that tumblr is bad. Has been bad. And will likely remain bad for the foreseeable future. And that is vital to our survival. If Tumblr was a good website that worked, it would get turned into a corporate hellscape like every other site. It's so important that Tumblr is broken and poorly run and impossible to effectively navigate. It's all that's keeping us safe.

tumblr management know we feel this way though. They’ve just added trackers to sharing urls/links. The first step to targeted advertising, yay!

don’t get complacent about the possibility of tumblr becoming a corporate hellscape

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remember that ANY text in a link after a ? is only tracking information and can ALWAYS be safely removed

Quick summary of the (I think) easy way I've been getting around this now:

  1. When you copy a link (form your dashboard, not from their page), it'll come in the format https://at.tumblr.com/[blog name]/[post number]/[tracking junk] (brackets are just for show, don't include those!)
  2. Delete the tracking junk. That's anything after the post number.
  3. Replace the "at" before tumblr.com with [blog name]. Replace where [blog name] used to be with "post" (no quotation marks).
  4. Your final format should be https://[blog name].tumblr.com/post/[post number]
  5. Share the link! It should go directly to the post and not route through any app store or tracking nonsense.

Hope this helps someone!

cant believe we live in a reality where getting a silly iced drink can set you back 7 dollars. it's like they want me dead

at my job we have to go through a training program that teaches us the library of congress classification system, and when i was first being trained my boss started to boot it up and she gave me a really anxious and guilty look and said “listen, i’m really sorry in advance, there’s nothing i can do about this, just…. just try to get through it” and i was like lol what’s she talking about and then the program loaded and i was greeted with a deliriously funny-looking photoshopped wizard with glowing eyes pointing at some intro message like “AH YES, JUST AS THE PROPHECY FORETOLD… APPRENTICE, YOU COME AT A TIME OF MOST DIRE NEED… YOU MUST LEARN OUR WAYS” and my boss just looked at me helplessly and was like “i’m so sorry. it’s like two hours long.”

thankfully it wasn’t an elaborate fever dream and i have found screenshots

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It’s absolutely precious and I love it beyond words!

Pride asks for fun:

  1. Which labels do you use?
  2. Do you like to use the term queer for yourself? Or just LGBT, etc?
  3. Which pronouns do you use?
  4. Are you “out” to your family and friends?
  5. Are you “out” publicly?
  6. (If you’re out) do you wish you came out sooner? Later? Or was it the right time?
  7. Are you the “token” queer person in your family?
  8. Describe your gender without using any words traditionally related to gender:
  9. When did you realize you weren’t cishet?
  10. Something that gives you gender euphoria (whether you’re cis or trans):
  11. Favorite (or just one you love) piece of LGBT media?
  12. Name some queer artists/bands or songs you like most:
  13. Do you choose to reclaim slurs, why or why not?
  14. How do you think other factors like neurodivergency or upbringing have impacted your identity?
  15. How has your identity changed over time?
  16. Do you attend Pride in person every year?
  17. Have you ever attended Pride in a big city/ large metro area?
  18. How old were you when you got to attend your first Pride? Who did you go with?
  19. Do you feel safe and accepted in your local community?
  20. Do you feel like you “fit in” with the queer/Pride community overall?
  21. What message would you give to your younger self?
  22. How do you usually celebrate Pride month?
  23. Do you prefer loud parties or quiet?
  24. Do you practice any religion, if so how does it play into your LGBT identity? Do you feel welcomed by your spiritual community?
  25. What queer discourse frustrates you the most?
  26. How do you feel about the term partner rather than husband/girlfriend/etc?
  27. What gender-neutral terms for yourself or others do you use (i.e. joyfriend)?
  28. Do you experience both romantic and sexual attraction? Do you experience them the same across any gender(s) you are attracted to?
  29. Are you currently partnered, or if not are you interested in having partner(s)?
  30. Are you monogamous or polyamorous?
  31. Post a pic in your pride gear (or it can just be a selfie or anything else lgbt):
  32. Do you do arts and crafts? Post a pic of a project you’ve done:
  33. What about your LGBT identity do you feel proud of/ want to recognize/celebrate?
  34. What are you needing most right now (what would make your life easier or more fulfilling in regards to existing as queer)?
  35. Anything else you want to ask during Pride:

Okay so I moved states awhile back which means I had to redo getting government aid for food and insurance and such and I actually started the process quickly and was almost done but apparently (can’t make this shit up) my current ID has my birthday misprinted and my birth certificate is all the way back in my home state (very very far away) and so the lady had to call the social security office to get it worked out and, well now it’s been weeks and still no word. I’ve tried to call in the in between period and have trouble getting ahold of the office. Anyway, while I work out the ebt I would have fucking had already (and continue to lack psych meds cause I lost the insurance I at least had in the last state I lived in) any financial help/donations would be greatly appreciated. PayPal is lilakat.connolly@gmail.com/Venmo is @Chara-Haze/ and cashapp is $CharaHaze. Hopefully they get back to me soon, cause I literally was going to get my ebt card THAT DAY before the birthday misprint crap

what if i began recording what i’m reading every week on here so i can look back at it and not feel like i’m just sitting around all summer? let’s try it—

first week of june:

Between Men: Male Homosocial Desire in English Literature (Eve Kosofsky Sedgwick, 1985)

Metamorphoses in Russian Literature (2000, ed. Peter Barta)

Mafarka le futuriste (1909, Filippo-Tommaso Marinetti. English trans. 1998, Carol Diethe and Stephen Cox)

Class Struggle Unionism (2022, Joe Burns)