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Nevertheless, She Persisted.

@kitten1618x

— Mother, Wife, Writer —
Probably fan-girling Jonsa, Bethyl & Sidlotte
~Author of several Bethyl & Jonsa fanfics~
Anonymous asked:

How did you come across Jonsa?

I have to admit my answer isn't very unique.

I started reading the books after I started watching the show. Very inconsistently, mind you, as did I take a lot of gaps through watching the show. The mythology, interconnected history and politics of ASOIAF in the books always drew me more than the show - even if I would change things about it. The characters seemed more fleshed out too but it's written in such a meta way of making the reader a historian trying to piece together biased accounts that you really don't have to read it all at a go.

Despite my innumerable issues with GOT, season 6 was a revelation to me in terms of Jon/Sansa. I second guessed my entire existence and reading comprehension while watching it 😅. I thought it was just Kit and Sophie's chemistry and while that was definitely part of it, structurally it just felt deliberate - politically and even scene framing wise. I didn't understand why they were being made to parallel previous or current romantic or romantically coded relationships.

So I did what most people did, I googled if there was book evidence for my sanity and found blindestspot's "The Case for Jon and Sansa" essay (written in 2013) as a starter and I dug more and found more. The original outline showed GRRM was certainly not opposed to notion of a romance between Jon and a Stark sister-but-actually-cousin. The whole Tyrion angle also felt like it had been pushed to Sansa's storyline and it seemed like Jon/Arya if it happened would be a bit too much like Jaime/Cersei as mirror images. Jon/Sansa had the much required distance. Their reunion on screen was just as the thread on From Pawn to Player (written in 2012) said:

"Sansa and Jon are, as far as I can tell, the only two Starks we never actually see interact in "present" time, and I don't think that's a coincidence from a literary standpoint. Everything we know of their past interactions comes via someone's reminiscences, so each is present in the other's life, but only in the past, never in the present. If Jon and Sansa meet in the future, it will doubtless come across to readers, in a very real way, as their very first meeting. Given the changes they've both undergone since their last meeting, that type of dynamic makes a certain amount of literary sense"

a few reminders because i’m tired and angry

  • fandom is a hobby, not a form of activism
  • adult women aren’t inherently creepy for being in fandom and having hobbies apart from raising babies and doing taxes
  • the vast majority of people pushing back against the worrying trend of instigating harassment over fictional characters and relationships aren’t incest supporters or pedophiles, actually
  • liking a m/f ship doesn’t make someone a dirty heterosexual invading your space
  • preferring gay ships doesn’t make you ‘’woke’’ and good
  • no one owes you a disclaimer that they are a good person who recognizes that their favorite fictional villain’s actions are evil and that they don’t condone those actions irl
  • liking a fictional villain is in no way comparable to advocating abuse/murder/genocide/etc and you’re a fucking idiot if you believe that
  • just because a woman is attracted to a fictional villain doesn’t mean she’s promoting toxic relationships or going to end up in a toxic relationship. assuming women can’t tell fiction and reality apart stinks of internalized misogyny 
  • some rando’s a/b/o fanfics have none of the level of influence that popular tv shows and movies spreading propaganda have
  • no one owes you a detailed description of their traumas and mental health problems
  • abusive relationships are not the same as enemies to lovers ships
  • y’all need to chill the fuck out over people, relationships, actions and events that don’t actually exist and learn how to enjoy and discuss them like normal people
  • fandom is a hobby, not a form of activism

feel free to add more

THE WAY I SPED TO HIT REBLOG-

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honestly that "it costs 0 dollars to be kind" bullshit is bullshit. it does cost things to be kind. it costs time. it costs energy. and it isn't always easy and it isn't always natural. it costs so much to be kind, sometimes. but that's the whole point. if being kind were easy, or simple, every single person would be an angel. but they're not, and the world isn't easy and simple. so no, it does cost something to be kind. but it's worth it anyway.

JAILBAIT is now available in ebook + a visually accessible paperback (double-spaced, 12pt georgia font, formatted so as to provide a comfortable reading experience for a wider audience)

[synopsis + proof copy images under the cut]

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Anonymous asked:

I feel like a terrible Jonsa fan for even having to ask this… but what is the Pact of Ice and Fire? 😅

WHAT

Anon, you are not ready for this.

Shortest version:

Prince Jacaerys Velaryon flies to Winterfell, and secretly marries and beds Sara Snow, Lord Cregan Stark’s bastard sister. This led to the Pact of Ice and Fire.

It was agreed that the firstborn daughter of Prince Jacaerys would be fostered at Winterfell, and eventually marry Lord Cregan’s son and heir, Rickon Stark.

Try to remove a lot of the noise, and break that down to its simplest interpretation.

The Pact of Ice and Fire, where a fostered Targaryen, living at Winterfell, eventually marries the Stark heir.

The Pact of Ice and Fire has yet to be honoured.

Are you screaming? You’re screaming, aren’t you?

Longer versions:

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Useful Writing Resources II

Like the last one of these I did, this is a long list of resources for writers to use. Use them wisely:)

*** = Separate List Of Resources Pertaining To That Specific Subject

Productivity & Writer’s Block

Character Development

Fantasy & Miscellaneous

Description

Plot

Generators

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i'm never getting over the fact that romance as a genre, as the HIGHEST selling genre, exists largely because straight women fantasise about being loved and treated kindly by men and men constantly make fun of this because they think it's just that unrealistic that they could cherish women and that women are stupid in the first place for wanting such an impossible thing

Modern fandom went awry when people stopped learning how to avoid content that upsets them and instead starting actively seeking it out.

I mean this in the kindest, most loving way possible, but babes you'll be so much happy when you stop focusing on what other people are doing and instead focus on what you like.

You'll never be able to stop people from liking what you hate, and the best way you'll find any peace of mind is properly utilizing blocking, blacklisting, and muting tools. Take it from someone who used to run a shipping discourse blog, fandom is supposed to be what you enjoy, stop focusing on things that upset you.

AND a race one since the most affected regions will be Africa, Asia and Oceania

as a friend pointed out, this headline makes it sound like supply will be dwindling. supply is fine. people will be *priced out*.

this is fucking MURDER.

insulin has been mass produced (from animal extracts) since -1923-. slow acting insulin has existed since the ‘50s, and ‘human’ genetically engineered insulin (derived from E. coli bacteria) has existed since 1982.

insulin treatment for diabetes is not some new or ‘unproven’ treatment. according to beyondtype1, “Humalog rapid-acting insulin came on to the market with a list price of $21 a vial in 1997.” adjusting for inflation, a vial these days should cost about $34 at most. instead, it costs over $300. there is NO reason for it to be steadily gaining in price to the point that diabetics are unable to afford their lifesaving medication, other than the sheer inhuman greed of pharmaceutical manufacturers.

let me reiterate: life without insulin (for Type 1 diabetics in particular) is a slow and painful death sentence. the ability to treat diabetes is a relatively modern phenomenon that has allowed countless people to live full, healthy lives. we should be expanding full covereage and access to insulin to diabetics the world over, and it should be FREE.

Have y’all heard about Open Insulin Foundation?

We’re a team of biohackers with a variety of backgrounds, and skills, and relationships to insulin and diabetes from many cities and countries around the world, including Oakland, California; Baltimore, Maryland; Paraiba, Brazil; Dakar, Senegal; Yaounde, Cameroon; and Puerto Rico. We’re working to develop the first practical, small-scale, community-centered model for insulin production to make insulin accessible to all. We envision a world in which communities in need have local sources of safe, affordable, high-quality insulin, and where people living with diabetes and their communities can own and govern the organizations that produce the medicine they depend on to survive. 

What We Do

We are creating an open-source (freely available) model for insulin production that centers on sustainable, small-scale manufacturing and open-source alternatives to production. We are developing protocols to produce short-acting (lispro) and long-acting (glargine) insulin, working on developing open-hardware equivalents to traditional production equipment, are researching sustainable regulation pathways to bring our insulin to the public, and are building capacities for local, small-scale manufacturing.

How Do I Participate?

Our work would not be possible without the support of volunteers, interns, and community advisors. We welcome people of all backgrounds from all over the world to bring their enthusiasm, time, connections, and experiences, both in life and in work. Our volunteers promote us on social media, build equipment, run experiments, write reports and blog posts, facilitate meetings, connect with other organizations and groups, meet with experts in the field, run virtual events, and contribute in designing tools, resources, and methods of all sorts.

Potential Partners

We welcome collaboration with other groups that share our mission―community labs, academic institutions, patient advocacy groups, and NGOs.

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Your donation will help us get closer to our goal. With a healthy financial situation, we can pay for lab supplies, acquire lab equipment, recruit scientists, and pay for consultation fees for regulation and manufacturing experts.”