It's almost that time of year fellas

making funny posts is just a symptom of a greater problem

Experts have weighed in

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this year im taking care of myself

Trump comes to tumblr and instead of banning him, tumblr staff simply turns post editing back on and sets us loose like a horde of rabid dogs

if she's your girl why is she shocking me like an electric eel

"Vote for whoever is the cutest"

WHAT ARE THE ODDS???

If Bella had asked

Bella @ Emmett after hearing the combo names

Let Bella rear end Edward’s Volvo 2k18

Let Bella rear end Edward’s Volvo 2k19

Let Bella read end Edward’s Volvo 2k20

Let Bella rear end Edward’s Volvo 2k21

Let Bella rear end Edward’s Volvo 2k21

likes to charge, reblogs to cast

you’re right and you should say it

The language of white privilege is reflexive. White men don't steal, loot, or invade. They carry.

I would like to wish everyone an uneventful new year

May we live in very uninteresting times

Make bored great again

The type of the mother I’m trying to be. Not just encourage bodily autonomy, but reward displays of it, even when it might make someone else in the room uncomfortable.

I’ve made so many people uncomfortable in supporting my daughter’s personal space. People will try to hug her, she’ll sometimes say “No, thank you” and the adult will look at me to make her do it, but I just say “It’s ok honey, you don’t have to hug anyone you don’t want to.” It makes people irrationally huffy, making me feel even more justified in supporting my daughter’s choices. Creeps.

I legit had to mom-voice some random woman with a “she said no!” when she tried to force a hug on Madison. (who was not very good at verbalizing to people she didn’t know/trust at the time)

She replied, “I just want a hug, it won’t hurt her.”

Me: She. Said. No.  

There aren’t many things more important than letting my daughter know that I have her back when it comes to something like this. 

I work with five year olds and I had a very long talk with them about permission and that your body belongs to yourself and no one else. “Even if you want to hug your friend, you need to stop and ask if it’s okay and if they don’t want you to touch them, you should respect that choice and not do it.” they were like “cool” and then every time after that they had no problem asking their friends “can I give you a hug?” Or “can I hold your hand?” Very politely. If their friend said no, they shrugged and went on with their life. They even started asking me if they could hug me or if it was okay to hold my hand when they were sad. And I always ask when they need comfort “do you need or want a hug?” If they say no, I ask “okay, let me know what we can do as a class to help you feel better. Quiet time? Do you want a stuffed animal? Sit on the couch? Do you need some time alone?” They verbalize what they need and they become aware of their own autonomy and their ability and power to say “no.” Just because someone is an adult does NOT give them the right to hug a child who has said “no” or “no thanks.” Teach then that they own their own body, and no one else is in charge of it. Teach them the power of NO.

^^^^^this is so important

Whenever a kid refused to high 5 me for whatever reason, I make a point to say “thank you for stating your boundaries”.

My husbands family get so offended when my stepdaughter doesn’t want a hug. I just tell them “no, she said she doesn’t want one”. They often try to force her to hug them or just grab her. It starts young, and they learn their body isnt their own.

When I first met my stepdaughter, if I asked for a hug, she wouldn’t say no, but she’d go into a protective stance and just wait. She was waiting for me to violate her boundaries. I told her “you don’t have to give me a hug if you don’t want one. You’re allowed to say no”. It took a while, but now she’s happy saying no.

Children have a right to boundaries as much as an adult does. Don’t violate a child’s boundaries.

It means a lot to me, for reasons I won’t go into, that you’re teaching your stepdaughter that. We need to teach more kids about this, and for that matter, need to teach adults to respect kids’ boundaries. 

Very important to tech both, children AND adults!

just two good bois sharing a shell together 

And they were ROOMMATES. (oh my god they were roommates)

This might be the best thing ever filmed.

I’ve seen the gif, but it’s even better with the context of how little time it took.

This is an accurate representation of 2020 so far

uterus culture is forgetting all the weird symptoms that come along with your period every month and wondering why you’re feeling some kind of way until you Realize

Why do I feel cranky and weepy and want to stab things, and my joints hurt and I’m eating All The Food?

Whatever could it mean? I wonder, as a person who has been menstruating for the last 20 years.

This is why werewolf preparedness makes no sense.