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I love fandoms & bands. I'm goth, punk rock, etc.. I'm bi. Don't like it? Don't care.

If Aphrodite had stomach rolls then so can I

This is veryveryvery important. My wife was feeling down about herself the other night and asked me “why do I look like this?” And I immediately brought up a photo I had taken of a sculpture of Aphrodite I had taken at the Chicago MOMA. I said, “look at this picture. What does she look like?” And my wife very shyly answered “Me…” (Literally her body is IDENTICAL to the sculpture) so I replied “that is the Goddess Aphrodite. THAT is why your body looks like this.”

I very rarely reblog miscellaneous posts but there are some followers of mine who really need to see this.

Oh shit I’m crying thank you

Remember, a lot more of you have the bodies of goddesses than you might think.

BOOM. Love yourself, darlings.

Yaaas! You're body is perfect the way it is. Whether it be super skinny, chubby, plus size, muscular, big breasted, flat chested, have a big booty or not. You are beautiful. You deserve to love yourselves. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

Don’t Tell Girls

“You’re too pretty to be single” Why is one person’s idea of ideal aestheticism A basis for a relationship status And furthermore What is so goddamn shameful or pathetic about being single anyway Is confidence and comfort in being by one’s self intimidating to you

“Swearing is unladylike” Bullshit Swears are only words And these words do not negate my intelligence, or passion, or define anything about me as a person or my character Men are never told not to swear Swear as much as you fucking want

“Your standards are too high! Just give him a chance” No You are invalidating a woman’s right to say no She doesn’t need to explain herself to anyone She doesn’t owe anyone anything Ever Everyone should have standards for themselves, and not feel like they need to lower them to please anyone Or be shamed for leading someone on when they know it would never work Because that happens too

“If you dress like that, boys will get the wrong idea” What idea might that be? That women might actually feel beautiful and confident in their own bodies? Heaven forbid Because obviously women’s bodies belong to everyone else except themselves

“Don’t frown - someone might be falling in love with your smile!” Why Is it my responsibility to always smile no matter how I feel I am a human being who is allowed to experience pain, or confusion, or sorrow, or boredom Men are never criticized for having “resting bitch face”

“Short hair makes you look like a boy!” This is assuming That there is one certain way for “boys” and “girls” to look Not so Some boys have long hair, some girls have short hair, some people who are both or neither also have hair Hair has no gender Humans are allowed to look different from each other and express themselves how they like Gender identity and gender expression are not the same

They aren’t “real” girls because they were born with a penis Anyone is a girl who says they are a girl Stop trying to undermine someone’s identity They know themselves better than you do Anatomy and identity are different, and sometimes separate Why are you so obsessed with other people’s genitals anyway

“You’re going to break a lot of hearts one day” Why would you ever Ever Say this to a girl A young, impressionable girl Breaking hearts is not a compliment, or a goal Coming from someone who has broken at least one From simply being honest and being myself It is a burden - a guilt that has been (mis)placed on my shoulders since childhood I never wanted to be labelled a heartbreaker simply for existing

“You don’t want kids? You’ll change your mind one day” No I won’t Even if I do, one day, that doesn’t make my opinion right now any less valid or deserving of respect Stop disbelieving people about their own life choices Also, having children is not a necessary milestone for a successful or fulfilling life

“Don’t have sex before marriage - boys really want a virginal girl” Sure they do And are boys ever held to that same expectation To stay virgins until marriage? Because as women are shamed for “impurity,” boys are applauded for “experience” I love the smell of double standards in the morning

“You shouldn’t wear so much makeup” The natural look is great The makeup look is great The anything you feel like doing or not doing to your own face look is great Let people do whatever they want to their own bodies Whatever makes them feel good Why do you care

“Selfies are just for attention” Maybe Maybe not What’s so wrong about liking attention What’s so wrong about feeling beautiful and confident in your own skin And wanting to share that feeling with others We were taught for so long to hate our bodies What is so threatening about finally loving them

“Cat-calling is flattering! Learn how to accept a compliment!” “I like your hair” is a compliment “You’re a really talented writer” is a compliment The gross, vulgar things that men shout at women they don’t know on the street Are not compliments They are harassment - meant to imply ownership and dominance and even violence Compliments should not make people fear for their lives walking home Compliments should not actually get people killed

please boost the fuck out of this.

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Personality is much more important than outward beauty, but who am I kidding? Girls like to be told they’re pretty. When they’re complimented on their looks, they may not openly show it, but they really do appreciate it deep down. I honestly think every body shape, size, color, ET AND CETERA, is beautiful. So can we please stop constantly fishing for compliments on Facebook or complaining about our looks? (Guilty of the latter. LOL.) YOU’RE GORGEOUS, GURL. WORK IT.

YEAH, WELL, REBLOGGING FROM MYSELF IS STUPID, AND THIS IS OLD ARTWORK TOO, BUT IT’S RELEVANT I SWEAR. So this anon said she was really depressed she had big boobs and wanted to kill herself. Maybe she was exaggerating, I don’t know. But I really want this blog to help people laugh at themselves and accept their cup size. Please, girls, know that you’re all beautiful, boob-less or not. 

25 Reasons why Having a Daddy is the BEST THING EVER!

1) Free cuddles, kisses, and hugs 😊

2) Daddy always gives the best advice💕

3) He sings me to sleep at night 😴

4) He calms me down when I’m stressed or afraid 😱

5) Daddy takes care of me when I’m sicky 🤒

6) SO MUCH LAUGHING 😹

7) He lets me stay up super late!!! (Even though I always fall asleep) 😋

8) He teaches me right from wrong ✅⛔️

9) Daddy makes me feel super duper confident in myself 😎

10) He makes me cute presents!! Like drawings, notes, letters, songs 😍

11) I can tell him everything and anything 😁

12) He is also a superhero ⭐️

13) And a best friend! 👫

14) And a boyfriend!! 💑

15) Daddy gives me the best advice on anything, he is very smart and knows how to take care of me 😸

16) He loves me for the silly princess/sleepy kitten that I am 😂

17) Helps me with homework 🤓

18) Protects me from anything harmful ❤️

19) He tells the best stories 📖

20) Every word he says makes my heart skip a beat 💜

21) I can trust him more than anyone 😚

22) Daddy never fails to put a smile on my face 😄

23) It’s so nice to be in love!! 💓

24) He treats me feel like a princess 👑

25) He’s taken me on the best adventures in my whole life 😊❤️😊❤️

This gif is transparent. Basically, it’s Ariel’s hair. That means it will take the color of your blog or anywhere you put it at. An example of what you can do with it can bee seen here. Anyways, enjoy!^^

It works. Her hair is purple on my profile! :)

It looks amazing! Lol!

Oh my gosh! It worked! :D

Perfect

Wow… I think yours is by far the best I’ve ever seen…