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Aftercare. 💙✨
I know most people know what subdrop is, but for the few who don’t I’ll explain.
Subdrop is what happens to your body after you’ve drained your brain of all the hormones and chemicals that it released during a scene or session.
Meaning, after you‘ve come down from your high, you start to feel mentally and emotionally attacked from what just happened. You start to think all these bad things about yourself and how someone normal would not find what just occurred pleasurable in anyways.
That’s why aftercare is important. Showering your sub in compliments,food, cuddle sessions. Just stuff that will make them feel like you care and that you don’t judge them for enjoying what they like.
Another thing, I’m positive that most people don’t know is what topdrop is. It’s the same as subdrop but it affects doms/dommes.
I know some people will be like- “Doms/dommes don’t go through that, nothing like that bothers them.” That’s where you’re wrong.
Remember we’re all human so no one is exempt from feeling used or feeling disgusted with their actions even though they shouldn’t be.
Not many know this but being a dom/domme is exhausting. A good top plans physical punishments or sexual scenes down to the T so their is no room for accidents and after all that planning and executing said plan they sometimes feel bad for doing what they did or even feel used in a sense.
That’s why aftercare is important for both parties. Show them that you care and that you appreciate what they did. Reassure them that they didn’t hurt you in a bad way and that they only did what they did to help you grow. ASK👏 THEM👏 IF👏 THEY’RE👏 OKAY👏!! Especially right after a session.
That can be the difference between showing that you care or not.
AFTERCARE IS A NECESSITY FOR BOTH PARTICIPANTS!!👏💙✨

Absolutely unacceptable that I don’t have a cute girlfriend to kiss and cuddle and watch movies with.

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zerstorend

do you ever get in those moods where you don’t know how to feel and everything kinda feels mixed up and you’re just sitting there alone in your room trying to figure out what the fuck is wrong with you

Parents wonder why we’re all suicidal when we didn’t even ask to be here.All they do is yell at us for everything but as soon as we start to stand up for ourselves they tell us to shut up.The whole world as been tell us how we aren’t smart and we talk back.We hate ourselves because we can’t speak on anything without getting silenced from everything.

pixie-therapy-deactivated202002
I was out with you, going shopping or something. I kept challenging you on everything, breaking all of the rules I could. You Pulled me down a small alleyway and pushed my back up against the wall. You put your hand out and said one word "Panties." I wasn't ready to give in. "No, Daddy." You leaned in closer, your lips nearly touching my ear, "Ah, you just need a little attention, is that it?" You kissed my ear and then down my neck and let your hand slowly move up the side of my body. Your fingers first trailing up my thigh then around my hip, over my ribs and breasts, finally your hand gently grazing my collar bone and wrapping around my neck. My body went mostly limp against you and I moaned a little. You laughed to yourself. "Mmm that's it little one, I'm sure you're nice and wet for Daddy already." I moan again, getting weak knees against you. You laugh a little again. I'm falling into it and you can feel it. You know that in a few moments I will be putty in your hands. And then you stop. Take a small step away from me, put your hand out and Demand "Panties, now." I start to whine a little, still in a daze