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"Help! My son is penis breath!"

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georgie | 16 | new zealand | entp | sanguine | queer | ig:heauxbo
Anonymous asked:

Life update please?

So I randomly logged in for old meme’s sake today (aka bc my girlfriend wanted to laugh at my old self) and I thought I would actually reply to this ask bc hey I haven’t used tumblr for a year, and haven’t used it properly for a year before that. 

Hi random followers I’ve never met! 

I’m almost 18, I’m no longer horribly depressed and terrible (I’m still gay as hell tho ayyy lmao). I spend my free time running long distance and doing lots of extra curriculars, I’m going for scholarships at university, I’m going to move cities next year with my amazing girlfriend of almost 2 years. I have a life now!! Who would have guessed.

I never think about the people that have left me behind that I got caught up with on this blog. I have people to talk to about my problems, I don’t hate myself anymore, and it’s an incredible relief. My life is so vastly different to who I was, and I can barely believe I am the same person that wrote that fateful lonely late night post 3 or 4 years ago now. I guess I’m not. I don’t know, this was kind of random, but I just wanted to say that it does get better, especially if you’re like 13-16 reading this, things will change so much and you will change so much and you can make your life better, it will change- you don’t have to hate yourself forever. There is hope for everyone. I just look back on how young and sad and weird I was and I know now that I’ve grown from that and it’s a good feeling.

So yeah, the georgie of times gone by is gone, replaced with a better, less sad version. Thank you, people of tumblr for the good times, the stupid fucking messages, and all the memes

Peace out Tumblr, see ya never

Help every time I tell my wife shes cute, she says that I’m cute and we end up in a never ending cycle of calling each other cute.

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  • Wake up and open your curtains. Your windows too.
  • Drink some tea or coffee, whatever pleases you. Notice every sip.
  • Have some fresh fruit and finish breakfast feeling full.
  • Stand outside and feel the air. Cool or warm, it will make you feel real.
  • Get some exercise. Yoga to soothe, running to breathe, lifting for strength.
  • Take care of your body. Have a nice shower and pamper as much as you want afterward. 
  • If you’re going to work, remember you have the chance to make anyone’s day or to ruin it. Act accordingly. 
  • Weed out the bad language. It’s only creating tension in your body and mind. Kind words are infinitely more appreciated.
  • Take some time each day to improve your mind. Keep reading that great book. Listen to an incredible piece of music. Practice an instrument or a skill. The progress is its own reward.
  • Pictures will help you remember how wonderful life is. But spend less time on your phone and more time seeing the world face to face. 
  • Go to sleep knowing that you have done well. Tomorrow is there with room to become even better.

-Notes to myself on how to become a better person this summer.

There’s been so many studies on this it’s ridiculous and I think we need to stop focusing on the why and just respect people’s genders and stop forcing gender roles on to people (and I totally see how a TERF could twist this so don’t even try). However, as a genderqueer person I do get a little joy from this. Now we just need someone science-y to point out sex is a construct.