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Ay Yooo

@jkolsposts

Black, 25, queer
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kosherdyke

Please Help Struggling Transfems Stay Housed!

Hi everyone, we're 3 disabled trans girls and rent is coming. Our lease has just rolled over for a new year and with it has come a price hike! On top of this we have an electric bill that is doubly high due to ac usage because of the heatwave, and top of all of that our ebt was severely cut and does not even begin to cover food for the month.

We are going to be $600 short for all of these bills!

The aqi for our area is consistently above 100 lately due to the northwest being on fire. Please, help us pay our bills so we don't lose our housing during these dangerous times? Thank you all 💙

Venmo: @nakam1492

Cashapp: $kosherdyke

Paypal: melancholyinsomniac@gmail.com

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kosherdyke

$0/600

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kosherdyke

$165/600

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kosherdyke

$220/600!

Help Two Trans Lesbians Recover From a Medical Crisis

Since Tumblr finally deigned to give me this blog back, I'm remaking this post because we still need money, and everything we've just been through these last few weeks has both of us at our wit's end.

You can read the previous posts here and here.

To summarize: My wife and I have struggled to make ends meet for the last couple of months. I've been searching for jobs with no luck.

At the end of July, my wife was hospitalized because she had a double-digit number of blood clots in her legs and lungs that could easily have been lethal if they hadn't been caught early.

We've had to prioritize things she required after being discharged (blood thinners, compression socks, painkillers), which was a massive unexpected blow to our already strained economy and means we haven't had the money to pick up our other medicine (including our hormones) or go shopping for groceries.

Please, we're rapidly running out of food to eat. If anyone is capable of helping, even just by sharing this post, we would both be incredibly grateful.

$0 / $400

$25 / $400

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veshunya

Um hi y'all!! It's been a long time!! I am unfortunately here with a need for assistance and bad news again. Last year my mom got diagnosed with aggressive breast cancer; after a year almost to the date, and after a wonderful summer where we thought she was doing so much better, she went to the ER and they found it had moved to her brain. She currently has stage 4 brain cancer. This week we will know for sure about palliative care for her, but it could be anywhere from days to weeks before she passes.

My wife and i very thankfully are about to go see her (the first time they'll be meeting my mom, actually) next week. Unfortunately it costs a lot of money to get a passport and get everything together!!! We have to make a drive 3.5 hours one way to have an emergency passport issued for my wife. The passport and fees are $225; coupled with gas and food and buying cat supplies for when we're gone, it's about $300 all together. I get paid literally next week but as this was truly the most devastating and surprising news I've ever gotten, so i was a little unprepared

Anyway if anyone could throw spare change my way, we would really appreciate it. I know it's a really big goal and is a lot of money, but really anything is super helpful and I'm grateful to anyone who's made it this far lol

Here's my stuff if y'all want!

C*shapp: $vvles

V*nmo: @vvles

I have personal and legal beef with paypal lol but also i can provide that. Also thanks 🩷

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antifas

cats when they finish their food so there’s no food left because they finished their food and now there’s no food (0 food bc they finished it)

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guu

8/19/23 URGENT!! HELP NEEDED

so while i was trying to work today in the heat, the car broke down. it needs a new alternator which is GREAT... bc we just replaced it AND the battery last month. the part we need wont be available for a whole week so, i could really really use some help, since my job is delivery driving, i'm out of work until it's fixed.

i'm a cripple with kids to support as i also look for a different job. unfortunately this all came at the Worst Time Possible, since i need to cover insurance, tags, THIS MESS, and rent.

when i have the spoons to finish my art comm sheet, i'll link it, but i am taking commissions on my [ art blog ] or my [ art twtr ]

v*nmo: kashebu

0/1,200

im ashamed i have to ask for so much, but tysm in advance, pls b00st!

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guu

20 / 1200

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guu

( commission sheet is done! ) you can DM me here or there

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guu

542 / 1200

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guu

8/19/23 URGENT!! HELP NEEDED

so while i was trying to work today in the heat, the car broke down. it needs a new alternator which is GREAT... bc we just replaced it AND the battery last month. the part we need wont be available for a whole week so, i could really really use some help, since my job is delivery driving, i'm out of work until it's fixed.

i'm a cripple with kids to support as i also look for a different job. unfortunately this all came at the Worst Time Possible, since i need to cover insurance, tags, THIS MESS, and rent.

when i have the spoons to finish my art comm sheet, i'll link it, but i am taking commissions on my [ art blog ] or my [ art twtr ]

v*nmo: kashebu

0/1,200

im ashamed i have to ask for so much, but tysm in advance, pls b00st!

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guu

20 / 1200

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guu

( commission sheet is done! ) you can DM me here or there

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guu

42 / 1200

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socalgal

haha hi again i have a post going around but so far ive only gotten a ten spot and i need to fill up my tank so i can uber ppl tonight and get back home safely

c*shapp: $eltigerpuncher

p*ypal: paypal.me/LaurenMcMullins

v*nmo: @Lauren-McMullins

Help Two Trans Lesbians Recover From a Medical Crisis

Since Tumblr finally deigned to give me this blog back, I'm remaking this post because we still need money, and everything we've just been through these last few weeks has both of us at our wit's end.

You can read the previous posts here and here.

To summarize: My wife and I have struggled to make ends meet for the last couple of months. I've been searching for jobs with no luck.

At the end of July, my wife was hospitalized because she had a double-digit number of blood clots in her legs and lungs that could easily have been lethal if they hadn't been caught early.

We've had to prioritize things she required after being discharged (blood thinners, compression socks, painkillers), which was a massive unexpected blow to our already strained economy and means we haven't had the money to pick up our other medicine (including our hormones) or go shopping for groceries.

Please, we're rapidly running out of food to eat. If anyone is capable of helping, even just by sharing this post, we would both be incredibly grateful.

$0 / $400

Some people my age want to be the ~punk badass queer elder~ so bad but will brag about hating children. How are you gonna be a queer elder when you call kids “snot nosed brats” and whine every time they’re in your line of sight? How do you expect the next generation to look up to you when you don’t even like them? 💀

Someone in an autism facebook group I'm in just asked "How am I supposed to earn enough to make a living without burning out?"

Someone replied: "You're not. Even neurotypicals can't right now in the system designed for them. We're the canaries in the coalmine. When we start failing, they know something is wrong."

People keep saying, "Oh, everyone thinks they're neurodivergent now!" or they'll say it's the foods or chemicals or whatever other nonsense they've fallen for, but to me the answer is so obvious?

We've gotten to a point that more and more people are being left behind by the system, making it so that neurodivergent parents who could get by fine *enough* in decades/centuries past are bringing children into a world that cannot and will not attempt to accommodate them. There's nothing in the water and people aren't faking, it's just that this is no longer sustainable or livable and of course people with disabilities will be hit first and hit the hardest. There aren't more people with it, it's just harder to go through life without being aware that you're not functioning the way your peers seem to be able to.

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momorenger

hi i hate to make a post like this, but i just recently became unemployed (my old job cut my hours down to literally nothing and it just wasn't worth it when almost all my money was gonna be going to ubers to get to work) and I could use a bit of help keeping my wife and I afloat while we both job hunt. Just enough for some groceries for a couple weeks. If you can't d0n@t3, b005t1ng is always appreciated

VNM0/CA: noisewitch

PP: click here (ignore my deadname)

raised: $0 / $300

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momorenger

raised: $20 / 300

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momorenger

my wife got a job interview for friday (yay!) so anything rn would be very helpful considering our phone bills are due soon and we also need new work shoes (ours are beginning to fall apart especially my wife's)

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momorenger

shortening this bc it was getting long + to add the interview my wife had didn't pan out so unfortunately we could use any help we can get rn (gonna bump it up a bit bc we've got like 30 dollars between the two of us collectively at the moment)

raised: $175 / $400

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momorenger

i haven't gotten any donations the past couple days and I'm really scraping together crumbs at this rate, please help out if you can...

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momorenger

raised: $245 / $400

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momorenger

raised: $252 / $400

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guu

8/19/23 URGENT!! HELP NEEDED

so while i was trying to work today in the heat, the car broke down. it needs a new alternator which is GREAT... bc we just replaced it AND the battery last month. the part we need wont be available for a whole week so, i could really really use some help, since my job is delivery driving, i'm out of work until it's fixed.

i'm a cripple with kids to support as i also look for a different job. unfortunately this all came at the Worst Time Possible, since i need to cover insurance, tags, THIS MESS, and rent.

when i have the spoons to finish my art comm sheet, i'll link it, but i am taking commissions on my [ art blog ] or my [ art twtr ]

v*nmo: kashebu

0/1,200

im ashamed i have to ask for so much, but tysm in advance, pls b00st!

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guu

20 / 1200

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guu

( commission sheet is done! ) you can DM me here or there

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guu

42 / 1200

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greelin

my dark twisted secret is i always use my turn signals whenever possible because i believe they were included in vehicles for a reason. i’m a bit of a freak this way. a weirdo

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greelin

many funny and true things going on in the notes. but also

what the hell is going on up there.

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greelin

if you’ve been following me for 4+ years i’m certain you could make a chart of every character i’ve gotten attached to and it would tell you more about me than any therapist’s notes ever could. but we don’t have the time for that. there are other things at hand. do not even worry about it. next exhibit. we’re moving along. we’re walking

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greelin

“i’m noticing.. a pattern—” well stop noticing. close the book. Put it away. step outside and have a cigarette or something. close your eyes. it’s not worth it