Oh the homophobia is strong with this one! There’s always one or two who really go the distance with justifying their hate and giving them attention is really not a good idea.
But here’s the thing: Clarke threatened to kill her in front of her guards.
Lexa thought she was protecting Clarke, bringing her to Polis, and she was angry that Roan brought her in trussed up like a turkey, but then Clarke spit at her and said she’d kill her. This was not what Lexa had intended, but she’s also playing a bigger game.
There was no way Lexa could have let Clarke’s threat stand in front of her people. Of course Clarke was locked up. In the nicest room in the tower and not at any point forced to do anything Lexa wanted (besides keeping her from the Ice Queen’s clutches because Clarke had been made an unwitting pawn in their feud). Clarke stood up for herself throughout, she resisted and she persisted. She’s no one’s victim.
Lexa and Clarke were both encouraged by others to kill one another. Clarke was given the means to do so.
Lexa laid her cards out on the table, she was honest with Clarke, but her actions were out of anxiety: she was losing control of her coalition and the Ice Nation had an army on her doorstep. Clarke called her out, Lexa gave it back, Clarke put a knife to her throat and Lexa completely surrendered herself. As Titus pointed out, Lexa “elevated” Clarke. Lexa saw Clarke as the better of the two of them. Stronger.
Yes, Clarke is suffering. She is traumatized. She’s tired. She wants none of this. But Lexa does understand her. She knows Clarke would do anything to protect her people. Lexa wants the Sky people to join the coalition to help strengthen it, and to offer them protection from the Ice Nation threat. She wants Clarke’s people to be her people so that she and Clarke are never on opposite sides again. She is out of her mind in love with Clarke. She’s not trying to fuck her up further. Everything Lexa does from there on is in service to Clarke (and her people).
Titus knows this, Titus don’t like it. He’s our POV character on this relationship. He sees how Lexa regards Clarke and he sees her death in it.
Lexa isn’t without arrogance, but tell me how many villainous captors get on their knees and pledge their loyalty then actually follow-through? Is it so hard to believe Clarke wasn’t actually stupid or naive and stayed in Polis because it was what she wanted? This person’s argument is that Clarke has no agency thanks to Lexa manipulating her while Clarke suffers from PTSD.
To re-phrase: Clarke is a helpless child being manipulated the evil lesbian.
Yeah, that’s a completely homophobic take. She’s welcome to have it. But it is hateful and homophobic and seeks to influence others into that point of view.
Clarke and Lexa’s relationship was written as a tragic romance because some straight people thought the gays would love it. Lexa is literally written as the flawed but noble warrior queen whose love for Clarke gets her killed (well that, and walking into a bullet the first time she decides not to knock on Clarke’s door first).
The only time Clarke ever behaved like someone with PTSD afraid of her captor, was with BeIIamy Blake. She’s never stood up to him. In the scenes at Arkadia, after the massacre, BeIIamy is growing unhinged with his desire for genocide. Clarke sees it and she treats like an animal about to strike. He abuses her trust, captures her and drags her off to a man who probably would have killed her.
After that, her relationship with BeIIamy is very much like a lot of women around violent men: she’s always quieter around him, doesn’t question him, and on more than one occasion he not only continues to abuse her trust until she finally clocks him after the Madi/Commander situation and gives him a single call-out on Sanctum for his sanctimonious behavior.
Theirs is not a love story and has never been presented as one.
But coming from a fandom that found strangulation and cpr on a dead person sexy, seeing Clarke as a victim is entirely appropriate…so long as her captor/abuser is one BeIIamy Blake.
Oh, and did this person forget there are at least two times Clarke tells someone she loved Lexa?
It’s such a well-known thing, she’s frequently taunted over it at least once a season.