TEMS Me & U

Coco

different type of pretty

let’s be clear, intimacy isn’t just sex. it’s mental check in’s, date nights, conversations, forms of affirmations, the small simple things

bye bye

LIFE ADVICE FOR YOUR TEENS AND EARLY TWENTIES (and probably beyond but I haven't made it much farther than that so far):

people are saying do it scared, but you also gotta do it alone. you'll miss out on so much you want to do if you wait til someone will do it with you. do it scared and do it alone.

when susan sontag wrote “I must change my life so that I can live it, not wait for it”

i love tumblr because there's always someone who knows how to express what i feel better than me

Do what’s best for your soul. Fuck anything else.

being a good person is just my character. its who i am. i don’t fight fire with fire. i move with grace and so with confidence i have faith that my God is able to see all and know all. so with that being said. rotten fruit falls by itself. i don’t need a lick back or one up you when God is involved.

1. Say no.

2. Cancel plans.

3. Watch less news.

4. Stop following accounts that trigger you.

5. Stop following people IRL who stress you.

6. Set Rules.

7. Do things that make you happy and relaxed.

8. Change your mind.

9. Honor your boundaries.

10. Put your needs first.

11. Spend less time with negative people.

12. Talk to someone.

13. Spend time away from electronics.

14. Text back later.

15. Walk away.

16. Take deep breaths to stay calm.

17. Not over do it.

18. Take Breaks.

19. Read or watch things that make you feel good.

20. Let others know if you're stressed.

21. Spend time on hobbies you love.

22. Forgive yourself.

23. Let yourself have a bad day.

24. let go

when I was younger, I used to think true love was tumultuous and intense. but now, I feel like real love is gentle. passionate in a soft, sweet way. not fireworks and drama, but a love that’s like coming home, the breeze on a still summer day. a balm to the aches of the world.

being in ur 20s the week of ur birthday brings around its childlike, euphoric excitement and confusing, earthshattering grief for what has happened and for what is yet to come. life is beginning but life is also ending. life hasn't fully been lived, but i feel like i've lived a thousand lives. idk the prettiest sexiest most beautiful girls will always cry and endure a cycle of rebirth on their birthday szn

Prioritize ease. Prioritize alignment. Prioritize peace. Prioritize discipline. Prioritize privacy. Prioritize healing. Prioritize mindfulness. Prioritize processing time. Prioritize good sleep. Prioritize your mental health. Prioritize yourself.

i am nothing without my connection to God. it’s not religious. it’s deeper than.

Make sure you travelling... sometimes U gotta see more to be more

in a room full of art, i’d still look at myself in the mirror