“By this time next year I will forget your face but for now you’re all I see in a crowded room.”
— 21 word story
my mom said “going back to an old relationship is like rewatching a movie and expecting a different ending to happen” and that hit me hard
It’s weird how a year ago I would have done anything to get a text from you. Now I get them but I wish they would be from someone else. It’s crazy how you can stop loving someone you thought you would always love. You will always thing the person you like at that moment will be there forever, but eventually you will move on and wait for someone else to text or call. It takes time but time will heal you no matter what.
You might miss your ex, but get with him again after some time and you will realize that everything was different while being in love. You won’t regret that you moved on forever.
I had woke up one day and felt that I needed to let myself know that, my life…is much more important than the one I was trying to have with him.
That was the day that I began to love myself instead.
-s.w
5 Concepts of a Breakup:
Heartbreak:
The initial feeling immediately after a breakup. Your fear has become a reality. You feel you will never love again. And you long to hold that person again.
Sadness:
You cry about every little thing that reminds you of them. You stop in your days distracted by memories of them. Your sensitive, and find it hard to complete everyday task.
Anger:
You are mad at yourself for something that wasn’t your fault. You think of things in your mind that could of prevented the breakup. You feel like the world has screwed you over and you just feel like screaming at everyone and leaving everything behind you.
Resentment:
You become angry with the person. You tell yourself you were too good for them and they didn’t deserve you. You hope they begin to miss you and will never be happy in another relationship. You finally see what was there fault and want them to see everything they did wrong as well. You hate them for making you go through so much.
Strength:
You realize that you don’t need them. You believe in yourself and become optimistic about finding love again. You begin to look forward to building a new relationship, and you feel strongest for overcoming so much and learning a hard lesson.
Remember that being in love blinds you, and it will take you to start falling out of love to realize that the breakup was not your fault, and that you deserve way better. But always remember you can find love again, everyone deserves to find their true love, and you most certainly will if you are patient and believe.
bl-letters-i-never-sent
“I hope one day 5 years from now you stumble across me when I’ve grown out of you and finally then after not seeing me for all this time it will break your heart.”
— (via bl-letters-i-never-sent)
i stopped counting,
the nights i cried for you
the times i told you that i loved you
the words i wrote for you
the dreams i had of you,
the days i spent missing you
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i stopped counting,
3 months ago
uptional
“You’ll never find the right person if you never let go of the wrong one.”
— unknown (via frequents)
“It shattered something inside me that hadn’t been broken before.”
