Marcin MikoΕajczak
Please Help!
I haven't posted on here in years, but I am currently homeless and looking for some help. I don't have a community irl (if I did, I wouldn't be homeless or jobless let's be real) so I'm reaching out to the few resources I do have to help me out during hard times. If you cannot contribute, please consider sharing. Every new pair of eyeballs helps.
Here's also a link to my Chuffed Campaign if you would rather share that instead. Thank you for even taking the time out to read this.
βyou put that cig out, you can hold herβ
After having time to digest and after reading some interesting posts, I came to the conclusion that I hate the fact that they buried Bobby in Minnesota (I still think he is alive. I will always think he is alive, canon can't hurt me. Or him. )
On the surface it sounds like such a lovely gesture. Laying him to rest with his kids. But under that surface, it is anything but.
Because except for those three graves there is nothing and no one left for him there. No one living to mourn him and visit him. Everyone living who loves him is in LA or nearby. And by burying him in Minnesota they effectively said that his first wife and his biological children are more important than the woman who gave him a new reason to live and the kids he found in LA. That those three graves are more significant that the people he met after his loss who became his friends and family. Who depended on him and who he depended on. That those blood relations are more important than their grief. And that is such a KR thing to do and it pisses me off to no end.
There is more to family than blood and the whole fucking show is about finding and choosing a family beyond what you were born into. And yet, they keep on insisting that DNA is what makes the world go around.
Can't the reverse be said ? That by burying him in LA you're ignoring his 1st family? The loss and grief he experienced over his 1st family is what brought him to Athena in the 1st place. I think she knows that, and also recognizes she would want to be put to rest next to her children as well.
I don't think Athena, her kids or the 118 would resent her choice because they don't question Bobby's love for them. It's not tied to a burial plot. Bobby didn't choose to leave them, and I believe that given the choice he would have grown old with Athena, May and Henry.
Also, am I not understanding the depth of how important a grave location is to some ? Idk, maybe it's because my family doesn't have family plots. We just burying our loved ones close by their homes.
Graves are not the only places people go to be close to lost loved ones.
And all Graves end up forgotten at some point. I don't remember Bobby visiting his 1st family. If he did, it wasn't often.
Not trying to argue, I'm just confused.
Dreamers by Anne Dewailly
Silas Onoja
Athena has to go home to her temporary apartment filled with rented furniture and sleep alone. She has to wake up the next morning in a world without Bobby Nash. She has to plan a funeral for another man she loved and thought she was going to spend her life with. She has to do it all alone because heβs gone.