I had a realisation this morning about Pedro Pascal and the world's current obsession with him. So hear me out. It's good I promise.
I was scrolling through Insta and saw this post from a woman whose account is all romance and stuff with her boyfriend. And she was talking about how he intentionally made himself a safe space for her and how that actually makes her want him sexually more and how freeing it is for her as a sexual woman. Relationships with guys often feel transactional, they do the dishes because they want sex later, or massages always end up in sex, or whatever. By taking away that pressure and transactional nature you feel safe enough to express your desire more and whenever it hits instead of feeling like you have to because he initiated a transaction. The fluff, or even the crazy smut relationships that people write fanfiction about, these fictional guys are often written as safe spaces.
And that's where Pedro comes in, he feels like a safe space, like he would do a good thing for you without anything expected in return, like he would enjoy a cuddle and kiss without any pressure, he would defend yours and anyone else's honour at the drop of a hat. He's a very safe feeling guy. He respects people, he loves enormously, everyone who meets him says he's so lovely and sweet.
And THAT, is what people all over the internet are going crazy horny for. Because you ask people outside of it all and it's like oh he's not that attractive blah blah blah, but to those who have watched his interviews, gotten to know him through social media etc, he is such a safe space and that makes us fucking feral for the guy.
Ok, essay over. These are just my thoughts spurred from one realisation about relationships and just what a beautiful soul that man is.