Everyone should aspire to a cat’s understanding of healthy relationships

-they are vocal about their emotional as well as physical needs (alerting you when they need affection or entertainment in addition to when they need food), demonstrating an excellent example of self care and open communication

- they can enjoy being in a space with you while you’re each doing your own thing, demonstrating the healthy boundaries and separate interests

- they also like learning about what you’re doing and being involved in your hobbies (e.g. sitting on your laptop, cuddling while you read a book or knit a scarf or play a game) 

-they consistently enforce their boundaries. first with nonverbal communication, then verbal (hissing/growling), then violence (scratching/biting) when needed, demonstrating that it’s 100% appropriate to defend your bodily autonomy by any means necessary, even against those you love and depend on. 

-they demonstrate the importance of ongoing consent by respecting their ability to change their mind during physical affection and stop at any point

let me sleep in ur stupid t-shirts and hold ur dumb hand u piece of shit

child: *is passionate about absolutely anything*

parent: gotta insult it

AAAAAAAA PLAY WITH SOUND AGAIN OMG MY HEART

Puns with @woundedvoodoodoll

Buy hundreds of notebooks, fill them only with the word “honk” written millions of times, so if one day you die they will be forced to suspect you were possessed by a clown

Fuck nudes, send me s̑̓͏̣̮͖͙̖̼͍̦ţ̸͇̘͇̤̤̰ͥ͆͢r͈̙̆͆̎ͤͭ͂̽̀̀ã̡̖̻̟ͧi̴̸̩̟͙͇̪̯̙̮̇̄ͬ̉́ͭ̈́g̨͇̠̳̤͓̼̦̬̭̊͛ͪͬ̀̒ͭ̉͜h͖̟̫̑̎͘t̠̺̤ͤͤ̕͜͡ ̲̓ͤͤ̍ͩ͞ţ̶̙̥͚̗̱̍o̱̻͙̭͍͔̰̱̚̕ ̝̱̥̟̼͈̱͈̙̉͊ͩ͐͗ͯḥ̵̶̭̲̖̹̫ͥͤ̎̌ͦ̓͑ͩe̶̘̬̳̳̞͚͉̖͒ͭ͊̊l͎͙̝͉͓̽ͤ̀͢͞l̷̩͎͙͓̝̏̇͝ͅ

My friends : some people are so childish

Me: * putting Hello Kitty stickers on my face * I know right, so sad.

!!!!!!

this is your reminder to go drink some water!!!! 

i don’t want any of you hoes getting dehydrated on me. 

reblog to remind your thirsty ass followers.

growing up autistic / growing up gaslit

I.

this is the first lesson you learn: you are always wrong.

there is no electric hum buzzing through the air. there is no stinging bite to the sweetness of the mango. there is no bitter metallic tang to the water.

there is no cruelty in their laughter, no ambiguity in the instructions, no reason to be upset. there is no bitter aftertaste to your sweet tea, nothing scratchy about your blanket.

the lamps glow steadily. they do not falter.

II.

this is the second lesson you learn: you are never right.

you are childish, gullible, overly prone to tears. you are pedantic, combative, deliberately obtuse. you are lazy, unreliable, never on time.

you’re always making up excuses, rudely interrupting, stepping on people’s shoes. you’re always trying to get attention, never thinking about anyone else, selfish through and through.

it’s you that’s the problem. the lamps are fine.

III.

this is the third lesson you learn: you must always give in.

mother knows best. father knows best. doctor knows best. teacher knows best. this is the proper path. do not go astray.

listen to your elders, respect your betters, accept what’s given to you as your due. bow to the wisdom of experience, the education of the professional, the clarity of an external point of view.

what do you know about lamps, anyway?

it’s not fair

i’ve noticed a problem within the ed community. for the most part, we are all GREAT at spreading love & kindness & positivity. but there are some little things that we aren’t very mindful of and that we just don’t really think about

when a skinny person posts a body check or pic of themselves they get lots of love and notes, everybody reblogs and comments, saying “goals” and “omg ur so pretty” and “beautiful!” And they SO DESERVE THAT. they’re beautiful, so beautiful and they deserve love for the progress they’ve made.

but if a non-skinny person posts a body check, they get barely any notes and the comments they do get are told to “keep going” and “you’ll get there soon” and “this looks like me right now i hate it” type of things

NO. they need to be told they’re beautiful, that they look amazing, that they are goals, that they’re so pretty and that they’re perfect the way they are!! they’ve made progress, whether extremely visible or not. they are valid and deserve the same love as anyone else. we say we’re accepting and loving of all shapes and bodies, but this is something we all do subconsciously and don’t even think about it.

let’s change that. send positive energy to everybody of all body types. keep sending love to the really skinny people, send love to the overweight, send love to average weighted people. your all amazing & perfect so let’s vocalize it more 😛😛🥰

Reblog if its ok to message you during this holiday season incase Im feeling lonely or out of place during family events because no one should be alone on Christmas

reblog if you’re a rotting corpse

Happy holidays to all my clowns and frogs!! 💕

there’s not really much discussion of child neglect on here so i guess i have to do it

p l e a s e don’t shame neglect survivors for not knowing “basic” things like how to eat a balanced diet, when to go to the doctor, how to drive, etc. you know these things (usually) because a caring adult taught them to you. we didn’t have that. we often enter adulthood knowing jack shit about how to take care of ourselves. we know we’re missing information, and we feel so fucking lost.

it’s okay to, if you have a friend who’s experienced neglect, try and help them learn how to take care of themselves. saying things like “hey, do you think you could try to eat at least one vegetable per day?” or “that infection looks pretty bad, do you want to go to a doctor?” is genuinely helpful. but belittling us for not already knowing these things is completely unproductive and unnecessarily cruel.

don’t be a dick to survivors.

psa if ur abusive or manipulative or do any toxic behavior to fit ur “yandere aes” to actual people in your life you’re not being cute. you’re being outrageous garbage to fulfill your day dreams and it’s not acceptable. please get help if you cannot control it or fear you might do it. if you are doing it within your control- stop. just stop. unfollow me if you think that this is in any way right. i don’t condone it. thanks. :-)