hey, shoutout to non-passing trans boys/mlm who:

-constantly have to deal with being misgendered

-have long hair!! (either bc theyre in the closet or by choice)

-have big hips/a large chest and feel like they can never pass

-are unable to transition currently (either because of financial or family situations)

-feel like they’ll never be seen as a man

-have high pitched “feminine” voices!

-get told theyre just straight girls

-feel like theyll never be accepted

-are scared theyll never find a boy who loves them

I promise that things will get better for you!! you’re just as much of a boy as any cis dude, and in time you will be able to transition and you will find a boy who loves you!!!

A Note To Autistic Boys 💕

[note: this includes trans boys, non-binary boys and boys who aren’t sure if they’re boys]

Your stimming is not obnoxious or intrusive. It is just your way of expressing your emotions. Don’t feel guilty about it.

When you infodump to a girl or a femme, you are not mansplaining. You’re just infodumping, a beautiful thing. It isn’t unfeminist to infodump.

Your traditionally masculine special interests do not contribute to toxic masculinity or male privilege. They’re just your special interests.

Your traditionally feminine interests do not make you a “sissy” or a girl (this one goes especially to trans boys). They’re just your special interests.

You are not being “disruptive” by talking loudly, not understanding neurotypical social skills or excusing yourself out of class. These are just things that some autistic people do. It doesn’t make you any less valid.

You are not inherently violent or aggressive by avoiding eye contact (especially MOC). It’s just an autistic trait, that neurotypical society may demonize but still isn’t inherently negative.

Don’t make anybody feel that you aren’t strong, beautiful or good, because I promise you, you are 💕

[anybody can reblog this, whether you’re an Autistic boy or not]

Gosh aren’t trans people just grand. Trans boys are very handsome and outstanding. Trans girls are very beautiful and amazing. Enbies identifying as trans are incredibly attractive and incredible. Shout out to trans people!

um no offense but if ur trans and havent physically transitioned or dont want to

its okay to think your body is cute. its okay to like your body. its your body. u are cute and i love you.

Reasons fat/chubby boys are gr8:

♡☆♡☆♡

@trans guys

ur face? thts a mans face

ur arms? manly as fuck

ur hair? omg rock it dude thats some boy’s hair right there

ur nose? wowwwoow thats a Boy’s Nose

ur legs? ive never seen legs that belong to a man more than urs do.

ur feet? Manly Af Feet !!!!!

ur hands? those are some man’s hands wow

ur eyes? man eyes!!!!!!!

ur lips? manly as HELL dude wow

ur ears? MAN! EARS!

ur chest? holy FUCK dude thats a MAN CHEST

ur butt? butts transcend gender, but u transcend butts. your butt is a man butt.

shoutout to trans guys

mid-transition trans guys don’t get nearly enough recognition on this site. it feels like all trans guy positivity is either geared towards pre-everything Soft Boys™ or towards ‘fully transitioned’ cis-passing men, so here’s a shoutout to all my in-betweeners.

here’s to the guys who are out but aren’t respected.

to the guys who are on T but still don’t pass.

to the guys who work out but don’t see any results.

to the guys who have binders but still don’t feel flat.

to the guys who have the right legal name but the wrong legal sex.

to the guys who still aren’t sure which bathroom to use.

to the guys who are impatient about their patchy facial hair.

to the guys who are insecure about how their top surgery scars are healing.

to the guys who feel stuck in the gray zone between ‘boy’ and ‘man’.

to all the trans guys waiting, it’s okay. you are worthy of respect.

I hope all gay trans boys find a bf in 2018

Some of my favorite boy things™

When they stretch their arms up and their shirt raises so you can see a bit of their tummy When you can see their binders under their tank top/shirt/hoodie/whatever Face stubble Side burns When they have long hair they must tie up in order to keep it out of their face while theyre doing something Boys with long hair in general When you can see their boxers from under their shorts When theyre so smol they must stand on their tip toes to kiss you When theyre so tol they have to bend hella down to kiss you Long eyelashes When they have squishy tummies, thighs, arms, etc. The smell of their cologne When you’re cold so they give you their hoodie/jacket and you get to steal it Their messy, soft hair Their *insert amount of time* on T update When they roll up their sleeves How happy and calm they get when you pet their hair Their soft moans when you make out with them or do other things to them When they run their fingers through your hair as they kiss you The dark circles under their eyes Their freckles Their grayish blue eyes When they’re the big spoon The way you can backpack (be the big spoon even if you’re smaller) them When their chests are soft and you can use them as a pillow When they actually know how to fuckin kiss When they’re really loud and rough sounding most of the time but when talking to you alone have a really soft and calming voice Their deep voices Their high pitched voices Their voices When as soon as you ask them to stop touching/hitting on you for any reason at all they step off How warm they are How cold they are How handsome they are How cute they are How gorgeous they are How they are I just Love boys So much

(Also yes of course this goes for trans boys, nonbinary boys, cis boys, all boys. If you are any type of boy I love you and this goes for you)

‘if you’re a trans guy why are you wearing a bra’ listen my dude, unsure if you know but the day I came out as trans my breasts didn’t immediately retract into my body. they continue to exist. and wearing a binder - no matter how well it fits - for hours on end day in day out becomes unbelievably uncomfortable. wearing a bra as a trans guy doesn’t make you a Bad Trans™. can we stop putting expectations on trans people to perform to the Good Trans Person Standards and being terrible to them when they don’t. other words, can people mind their own fuckin business when it comes to other people’s bodies and what they do with them lmfao

this goes for giving trans women shit for not shaving too. there are a hundred and one reasons why someone may choose not to shave or not be able to. people empower cis women for not shaving (which is perfectly fine and great) and in the same breathe shame a trans woman for not choosing to shave. don’t force a higher standard of presentation onto trans people, especially when those presentations are rooted in stale expectations of gender.

PSA

Support boys. Support bi boys. Support gay boys. Support pansexual boys. Support ace boys. Support aro boys. Support trans boys. Support all boys.

This user is anti-TERF, reblog if your blog is against trans exclusionary radfems

shoutout to my fellow boys who get periods & have a menstrual cycle

i know people like to refer to it as a “girl problem” but that doesn’t make you any less of a boy

You Are Trans Enough:

Even if…

• You tend to present toward your assigned gender just because it’s easier that way

• You don’t always feel like or think it’s worth it to correct people who misgender you

• You aren’t out to your closest family, friends, and/or S.O(s)

• Sometimes you are perfectly comfortable presenting in line with your assigned gender

• You don’t feel dysphoria everyday

• You didn’t start to notice/acknowledge your trans identity until later in life

• You aren’t ready to use the bathroom where YOU feel most comfortable

• You pass as cis and you’re okay with that

• You aren’t binary trans

• You are still working to discover who you truly are

YOU. ARE. TRANS. ENOUGH.

chubby/plus sized boys? so good. so so good. 10/10 boys. they deserve all the love in the whole entire world. i love chubby boys.

hey did you know if you’re a trans boy then you looked really handsome today and you’re super amazing? sorry i don’t make the rules that’s just the way it is

all trans boys are handsome as fuck

•pre-hrt? handsome! •post-op? dang! •poc? stunning! •chubby? wonderful! •long hair? dazzling! •trans boys in general? all boyfriend material!