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@itsenougghtokeepmegoing

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Using a remote controlled vibe in a public library, telling you to keep quiet or you're gonna regret waking up this morning. Slowly turning it up until you're dripping on the floor and begging me to drag you into the back room and fuck you until you forget your name. Once I think you're actually ready to have your guts rearranged, I turn it up to it's max setting and carry you into the back room while you're a melting, soaked, whiny mess in my arms.

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malusokay

Little things to feel more girly

  • Buy yourself some cute loungewear, so you feel pretty even when at home. <3
  • Have a light, signature scent that you can wear all the time!
  • Make a playlist of songs that make you feel confident, and play it in the background when doing things at home.
  • Genuine kindness and good thoughts will shine through your face, giving you a loving and welcoming aura.
  • Having fancy tea parties and overdressing with your friends for fun.
  • Try exercises that help improve your posture! Especially if you sit for many hours a day, try some yoga or pilates.
  • Have weekly self-care days, do extended skincare, face mask, take a long bubble bath, and do your hair.
  • Trim your hair regularly so it stays soft and silky. <3
  • Buy a big, fluffy scarf to keep you warm in winter!
  • Write letters to your friends and decorate them with hearts and doodles.
  • Dress to impress... Yourself!!
  • Buy clothes that make you feel pretty even if you're just going for a walk, to the grocery store or to sleep. You deserve to feel beautiful.
  • Make sure to eat balanced meals, so you glow from the inside. :)
  • Find a make-up routine that works for you and makes you feel beautiful. I'm really liking the heavy blush!!
  • Surround yourself with pretty things. Buy yourself some flowers, look for adorable decor, print out pictures you like and make your space comfy.
  • Find a proper morning/night routine that works for you! Little self-care rituals to make you feel better <3
  • Going for long dreamy walks to clear your head and reconnect with nature.
  • Look for pretty jewellery when going on trips or vacations, keep them as a reminder of your time there and collect truly meaningful pieces. <3
  • Find things you love doing in your free time instead of mindlessly scrolling online. Something engaging but also relaxing!
  • Cuddling up in a big fuzzy blanket, reading a book and listening to soft piano music.
  • Complement people if you notice something about them that you like, it might make their day!
  • Keep your lips and hands moisturized.
  • Don't speak badly of yourself.
  • Bake cute cookies and decorate them as a surprise for your friends and loved ones.
  • Say 'I love you' to the moon and stars before going to sleep. <3

As always, Please feel free to add more suggestions in the comments!

✩‧₊*:・love ya ・:*₊‧✩

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𝘛𝘩𝘰𝘶𝘴𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴 𝘫𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘰𝘯 <33

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Tips for Improving your Self -Esteem

The following suggestions may be helpful for a person who finds that they are struggling with low self-esteem:

1. It starts with a decision to be your own person. Don’t live your life to please, or to impress, someone else. 2. Try and grasp the fact we’re different and have different goals and values … And don’t be swayed by other people who criticise your dreams. 3. Don’t compare your path or journey to someone else’s journey as we start from different places and face different challenges. 4. Be kind, understanding and patient with yourself. Accept that failures and mistakes are part of everybody’s life. Also, choose to frame mistakes as learning opportunities. 5. You need to root for yourself, and seek to be your own best friend. Don’t denigrate yourself – in public, or when you’re alone. 6. Remind yourself a weakness can become a strength, in time. It takes patience effort – but, eventually, things change! 7. Make a list of what you’re good at, and keep adding to the list. Also, note the strengths that others see, and comment on, as well. 8. Treat yourself with respect and praise the things that you do well. Don’t write them off as “nothing”, or as being “no big deal”. 9. Find ways to dissipate and channel negative emotions. Don’t allow them to dictate the way you start to see yourself. 10. Spend time with those who like you, and can see your worth and value … And, ignore those who attack you, and would like to see you fail. 11. Choose to stand up for yourself, and value being more assertive. Also, decide to start to set and then enforce appropriate, healthy boundaries. 12. Admit your mistakes - then learn to laugh at yourself. It helps remove the pressure and the stress of “being perfect”!

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questions I think would be fun to be asked

  1. what are 3 things you’d say shaped you into who you are?
  2. show us a picture of your handwriting?
  3. 3 films you could watch for the rest of your life and not get bored of?
  4. what’s an inside joke you have with your family or friends?
  5. what made you start your blog?
  6. what’s the best and worst part of being online/a creator?
  7. what scares you the most and why?
  8. any reacquiring dreams?
  9. tell a story about your childhood
  10. would you say you’re an emotional person?
  11. what do you consider to be romance?
  12. what’s some good advice you want to share?
  13. what are you doing right now?
  14. what’s something you’ve always wanted to do but maybe been to scared to do?
  15. what do you think of when you hear the word “home”?
  16. if you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
  17. name 3 things that make you happy
  18. do you believe in ghosts and/or aliens?
  19. favourite thing about the day?
  20. favourite things about the night?
  21. are you a spiritual person?
  22. say 3 things about someone you love
  23. say 3 things about someone you hate
  24. what’s one thing you’re proud of yourself for?
  25. fave season and why?
  26. fave colour and why?
  27. any nicknames?
  28. do you collect anything?
  29. what do you do when you’re sad?
  30. what’s one thing that never fails to make you happy/happier?
  31. are you messy or organised?
  32. how many tabs do you have open right now?
  33. any hobbies?
  34. any pet peeves?
  35. do you trust easily?
  36. are you an open book or do you have walls up?
  37. share a secret
  38. fave song at the moment?
  39. youtuber you’ve been obsessed with and why?
  40. any bad habits?