will i ever get used to the fact that a large and influential social movement is based around the concept of “i want to be a thing, and say i am that thing, so i am that thing” and people are just like sure yeah that makes total sense

And better yet, “I experience the ultimate oppression because some people tell me I’m not really that thing.”

Furthermore, "that thing does not exist because I noticed that I am fundamentally different from people who actually are that thing"