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As of May 19 2023

Happy settler Saturday, We’re a queer, plural, disabled Indigenous system preparing to flee our abusive house within the next few months

We could use some help with travel costs, supplies, and some leftover money to replace things we had to leave behind since we don’t know if we’ll be able to get them back.

We have a permanent place lined up to stay and people we love and trust to help care for us once we’re there. It’s just a matter of cost to get there and buying some things like underwear, plain t shirts, a heart rate monitor, medical ID bracelet, burner phone, power bank for main phone, and a few other things we are lacking.

The situation at home has become extremely unstable and we’d like to leave sooner rather than later. We will likely be staying until June for our SSI hearing as long as things stay mellow, but it’s a matter of how much we can take mentally right now and we are quickly approaching limits, especially without access to therapy.

Any bit helps, please reblog

And a funny meme we made to keep it light

reblog to bonk the person you reblogged it from with a hollow cardboard tube

There's faggot shit happening in the abandoned megastructure

non-it/its users need to get their shit together fr

ok time to elaborate.

earlier today i was talking to someone and i mentioned one of my friends, and said 'yeah it was saying-' and before i could finish my sentence she interrupted me and went "it?" as if i'd misspoken. when i said "yeah, it said-" she looked at me as if i'd like insulted her or something and went "why are you calling your friends its? don't you mean they?"

i pretty much just went "nevermind" because that's not worth it (and no i'm not misgendering a friend for someone else's "comfort" like wtf) but the issue is

this. happens. every. time.

you tell someone else you use it/its? they look at you like you're fucking insane. 99% of the time they will refuse to use your pronouns because it's "offensive" to them (yknow what else is offensive? purposely misgendering me when i literally just told you my pronouns). when you talk about a friend who uses it/its pronouns, 99% of the time the other person will try to like. correct you or stop you even though they don't even know who you're talking about.

"well they/them is gender neutral too so just use th-" no. my pronouns are it/its. they/them is not it/its. they/them is misgendering.

"but it's gender neutra-" okay and? if dude said he uses he/him and you used they/them that's misgendering. why is it okay when it's it pronouns?

"but it's offensive to refer to people as-" bitch i am literally referring to myself as it/its. i am telling you directly in plain words that these are the pronouns that make me comfortable. i don't give a fuck what you think of them they are my pronouns

at this point i settle with they/them because i'm just done having people look at me like i said a slur when i tell them what pronouns i'm comfortable with.

@ girls stop apologizing for your appearance. “sorry I’m not wearing make up today”, “sorry my hair is a mess” like who cares if you go out looking like a gremlin you don’t have to be pretty 24/7 and you don’t have to apologize for not putting effort into your appearance yall are still valid 

My ability to proofread increases by 1000% after I hit “Submit”.

this is often because when you’ve submitted something (like fanfiction to ao3) it will be in a different font, size and framing than in your word processor. The text will look different in the new environment so your brain stops skipping what looks familiar (like a typo that has been there since the beginning).

So, tip: revise your work in a different font and size. I guarantee you’ll catch more typos and mistakes than otherwise.

For all my writers (ones I follow and the ones that thankfully follow me)

i miss when bots had urls like "jenny0047194" or "s8znmia802ng". i just blocked one with the url "evilpond" and i think it is really fucked up that they are able to take these wonderful urls away from all of the real people who might want them

the new pornbots’ url game is INSANE. complicit-rotting and warmmourning you would have done numbers if you were real

discovering the queer country scene has honestly been so healing because most queer musicians i've seen recommended for years i just couldn't really connect with because it wasn't the sort of music i listened to or had investment in and with queer country it's like. yes. this is the language i speak in. this is Fuck You, I Belong Here Too, not just as a queer person in the country but as a rural person among (sub)urban queers, and saying it with a laugh. when will my hometown take pride in me, goddamn it

Drop the list!!

FIRST: rachel holst does the adobe & teardrops blog as well as the rainbow rodeo newsletter & zine. look into the black opry also, there are plenty of black queer country/folk/americana artists & there is a lot of collaboration between them and other queer country/folk/americana musicians

my personal list:

redraw of a character i made when i was 7 :)

If this breaches 20k and my shitty egg becomes a collective tumblr blorbo and I have people in my notes screaming for his blood vs people saying he's an innocent little egg what did he ever do to you and then I get off topic people yelling at me about food waste I will find you and I will make you suffer just as much as he does.

Hey I wouldn’t say this is an emergency per se. But my province is currently On Fire (look up Alberta wildfires) and the air quality is like. Bad… and only getting worse every single day.

This was the air quality yesterday

And here is it today.

It’s also been literally raining ash and outside is visibly foggy / hazy out.

You’re free to double check all this info yourself and look up Edmontons air quality. Anyways. Due to all of this we are heavily wanting to get an air purifier, since the air is Not Great. My husband has to go out often to get us groceries and we can’t drive (gotta bus) which leaves him inhaling a lotta shit. We wanna get this one off Amazon which is only $100, so a good one or two donations can get me to this goal.

I’d appreciate any help, and my commissions queue is basically Empty so you’re free to commission me rather than donate!

https://ko-fi.com/paradoxproductions

don't cry. millions of fags all across the world okay?

ok someone gifted me the commissions open badge, but now fun thing about those badges, you can only display one of the types of badges at once, so it's either check marks or open commissions for me

i mean thats kinda how the world works isn't it

hey don't be sad handsome butches in glasses ok?

I just looked through OP's blog and every single poll is a popular m/f ship vs. reylo (with similar results). I don't understand.

There was an actual bracket, but reylo got obliterated in round one, and after the poll was done, someone suggested it would be funny to do a "bonus round" where every tournament contestant is pitted against reylo to see how many ships, if any, reylo can beat

I hope it's none.

It is beating exactly one of them.

there is no wrong way to be nonbinary! live deliciously, gender rebels!

elect me president and I promise to kill you horribly 

you prommy????? 🥺🥺😅🫨👍

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