Reminder that micropenis jokes are inherently intersexist, and as an intersex person (this used to say woman but I feel I was simplifying my identity for the benefit of others) with a pseudo-phallus/micropenis it really fucking hurts to hear people use my body as the short hand for "crude", "uncouth", "violent", "lacking", "of poor character", and nearly any unpleasant trait imaginable.
It hurts me, it has never not hurt. Stop.
Also every single cis man with a micropenis is intersex, trans women with micropenises are intersex too, as is anyone born with a micropenis or clitoromegaly or who naturally developed one, and trans people on testosterone with micropenises hear your vitriol. You have always been punching down.
Small dick jokes aren't ok, big dick jokes are just small dick jokes in mirrored text, it's all just body shaming.
(edited 23 May 2023 to be more inclusive of a variety of experiences/bodies, original post was a personal rant that despite being untagged got popular by surprise.)
Friendly reminder that this is the preferred version of this post. There is a shorter version circulating again that doesn't accurately reflect my identity as when I wrote it I felt safer not verbalising my entire self.
