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love yourself

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It’s going to hurt
It’s going to hurt when you realize it’s not me
It’s going to hurt when it stops being us
And it starts just being me
And then you
I’ll only know a time in my life of what it was like with you and what it’ll be like after
And it’s going to hurt when someone asks me about you and I’ll only have memories and maybe your favorite color will change and you won’t tell me
So I won’t know
And my best friend will say “do you miss him?”
And I’ll lie and say ‘no’ so it hurts less
But I’ll miss you every day
I miss you now and you aren’t even gone yet
And I’m going to try to enjoy it because it’ll be a memory soon and I hate looking into the future
But everyone leaves
And everyone includes you.

Will she be prettier than me? Will she love you more? If it’s not me, then who?

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Fall in love gently. Remind yourself that you are the longest relationship of your life. Remind yourself that you are a child of this universe and that you are worthy of happiness. Fall in love with the way you feel things deeply. The color of someone’s laughter. The texture of someone’s kindness. The nostalgia of going back to places that caused you so much pleasure and pain. You are an old soul trapped in a body that’s slowly, slowly decaying. You are a traveler of both the outer world and the inner world. Fall in love with your failures. The events that shaped you into becoming who you are today. Embrace your shortcomings for they serve as a lesson in your formless memory. Forgive yourself for everything that is causing you so much pain. It is a brutal process, and you must get through it. Self-hate can only generate more worry in your life. Let it go. You don’t have to carry it forever. Fall in love with your body. Romanticize it. The freckles on your face are constellations. The heart-shaped birthmark right behind your hips. The positive aura of your gummy smile. The way that your body is working hard to keep you alive like electricity lighting up a whole city on a cloudless night. Fall in love with your existence. The little things that make you who you are. The poetry that you write. The instrument that you play. The way you put your makeup on as you face another challenging day. These little things that make you who you are come from the way you express your being. Fall in love with yourself until you finally feel like home.

Juansen Dizon, This Is How You Should Fall In Love With Yourself (via juansendizon)

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I got my heart broken and I survived, I failed 3 courses in university and graduated, I got rejected in the very first job I applied for and got promoted yesterday, I went through hard times with my family but then two years later, we laughed our hearts out over lunch, The closest friends disappointed me several times but I made new friends and loved them with all my heart. I did it once, I can do it again.

I NEEDED THIS SO BADLY

This. This everyday. I need this everyday.

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“When should you let go?” She asked, with her chin rested on her palm. “When the ‘I love yous’ stop sounding like ‘I love you’,” I answered, “When they begin to sound very much like, ‘I’m sorry’.”

Lukas W. // Forgotten Words #163 // I love you but I’m sorry (via somepiecesofmyheartandsoul)

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I just hope you don’t stay gone.

Don’t leave this world to me.