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theawakenedstate
Forgive yourself for not being at peace. The moment you completely accept your non-peace, your non-peace is transmuted into peace. Anything you accept fully will get you there, will take you into peace. This is the miracle of surrender.

Eckhart Tolle  (via saras-vati)

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I decided to create a masterpost that would help you with what you are struggling with. Hopefully any of the links below will help you! Reminder; You’re going to be okay. What you are going through will pass, just remember to breathe. 

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Distractions;

Here are some distractions to help keep your mind occupied so you aren’t too focused on your thoughts. 

Sleep issues; 

 Uncomfortable with silence; 

Anxiety; 

Sad, angry and depressed/depression; 

Isolation and loneliness; 

 Self-harm;

Addiction; 

 Eating disorders; 

 Dealing with self-hatred;  

 Suicidal; 

 Schizophrenia;

OCD;

Borderline personality disorder; 

Abuse; 

 Bullying;

 Loss and grief; 

(Other loss and grief)

 Getting help; 

Things you need to remember; 

  • - Don’t stress about being fixed because you’re not broken.
  • -Remember to remind yourself of your accomplishments. Tell yourself that you’re proud of yourself, even if you’re not. 
  • - This is temporary. You won’t always feel like this. 
  • -You are not alone. 
  • -You are enough. 
  • -You are important. 
  • -You are worth it. 
  • -You are strong. 
  • -You are not a failure, 
  • -Good people exist. 
  • -Reaching out shows strength. 
  • -Breathe. 
  • -Don’t listen to the thoughts that are not helping you. 
  • -Give yourself credit. 
  • -Don’t be ashamed of your emotions, for the good or bad ones. 
  • -Treat yourself the same way as you would treat a good friend. 
  • -Focus on the things you can change. 
  • -Let go of toxic people. 
  • -You don’t need to hide, you’re allowed to feel the way you do. 
  • -Try not to beat yourself up. 
  • -Something is always happening, you don’t want to miss out on what’s going to happen next. 
  • -You are not a bother.
  • -Your existence is more than your appearance. 
  • -You are smart. 
  • -You are loved. 
  • -You are wanted. 
  • -You are needed. 
  • -Better days are coming. 
  • -Just because your past is dark, doesn’t mean your future isn’t bright. 
  • -You have more potential than you think. 
  • - Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth.

Please remember to look after yourself and know that you are more than worth it and you deserve to be happy. Keep smiling butterflies x

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regainingmydreams-deactivated20
With addiction, you figure out how to lock the tiger in its cage and keep it there. With an eating disorder, you have to figure out how to take the tiger out and walk it three times a day.

Tennie McCarty (eating disorder expert)

Or 5 or 6….

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aorarchived
There is no right way. What works for one person may not work for another. What works at one time in your life may not work five years later. It’s important to honor all the paths you’ve taken, the cures you’ve tried, the efforts you’ve made, and to let go of them when they stop assisting your growth.

Geneen Roth (via anatomy-of-recovery)

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Anonymous asked:

Do u have any tips on how to suck dick good? I wanna have my man shaking lol

frenchkissthepvssy answered:

Every guy likes different things. I personally do the following:

Kiss the tip and flick it with my tongue. Flatten it out and lick it from the base to the tip and then curl my tongue around it and move downwards again. Once I’m back to the tip I take it into my mouth and suck it while I swivel my tongue back and forth on the bottom of the tip (drives my boyfriend crazy). Then I start bobbing while continuing to move my tongue side to side and swirl my tongue around the tip before I go back downward and quicken the pace while stroking him tightly with one hand and playing with his balls with the other.

Hope I helped 💓

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orphicangel

Halsey - Hold Me Down

“hold me down, throw me in the deep end, watch me drown knock me out, sayin that I want more, this is what I live for.”

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purplebuddhaproject
It’s dark because you are trying too hard. Lightly child, lightly. Learn to do everything lightly. Yes, feel lightly even though you’re feeling deeply. Just lightly let things happen and lightly cope with them. I was so preposterously serious in those days… Lightly, lightly – it’s the best advice ever given me…So throw away your baggage and go forward. There are quicksands all about you, sucking at your feet, trying to suck you down into fear and self-pity and despair. That’s why you must walk so lightly. Lightly my darling…

Aldous Huxley, Island  (via purplebuddhaproject)

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rainbowtwo

Practicing With Strong Emotions

‘When you touch a hot stove, as soon as you become aware of the pain you immediately pull your hand away. You don’t let it rest in the burner in order to explore the pain. In the same way, we stay present with strong emotion only very briefly at first. The instruction is : short moments again and again. Rather than trying to endure prolonged exposure to intense feeling, we touch in for only two or three seconds, then pause and breathe gently before touching in again. Or we might simply stay with the troubling feeling for five or six minutes and then go on with our day, more in touch with our emotions and, therefore, less likely to be dragged around by them.’

- Pema Chodron, Living Beautifully with Uncertainty and Change.

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SPRING FOWARD

Since I last posted, I’ve made sure to keep myself busy with projects, friends, and coffee shops. I want to try to have a much better outlook on life and appreciate what I have and what I’m truly blessed with. Want to really get myself to have a busy, yet fun summer.

I enjoyed myself with coffee shop trips with my friends and being out in Los Angeles. I tried a little place called Dinette, in Echo Park. It actually used to be a “mom and pop” place that made amazing burgers. But this new location fits the newly “hipster-flooded” Echo Park. Little pricey, but a fun treat for once in awhile. I even visited the “Bates Motel” art installation off of Sunset Blvd. Originally the Sunset Pacific Motel, this motel is painted completely white by Vincent Lamouroux, including the palm trees around it. It’s a strange and vague art installation, but a very unique sight to see in Los Angeles. 

One of the best events I got to partake in recently was the Lana Del Rey concert at the Hollywood Bowl. Now, I am a huge fan of hers and have been trying to see her for literally a couple years now. I was a little hesitant seeing her live, since her debut live TV performances were not that great. But she blew me away! She did an amazing job, was genuine with her fans (to the point she took five minutes to take photos with the people in the front), and looked amazing. I had far-ish seats, but saw her perfectly. Love her even more now!

Even though work is stressful, I’m putting effort into enjoying myself. If that means working on my room decor or going to a 90′s themed party, I just want to have fun. Hope you all have an awesome day!

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quotemadness
Some day sooner or later our passion would have cooled — inevitably — it’s the way with everything human.

Gustave Flaubert (via quotemadness)

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purplebuddhaproject
Don’t look for peace. Don’t look for any other state than the one you are in now; otherwise, you will set up inner conflict and unconscious resistance. Forgive yourself for not being at peace. The moment you completely accept your non-peace, your non-peace becomes transmuted into peace. Anything you accept fully will get you there, will take you into peace. This is the miracle of surrender

Eckhart Tolle (via purplebuddhaproject)

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quotemadness
Autumn finally arrived. And when it did, I came to a decision. Something had to give: I couldn’t keep on living like this.

Haruki Murakami (via quotemadness)