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They/Them. Generally gay shit 

If you’re Non-binary, please remember that like 90% of Legendary Pokemon are genderless

Also it doesn’t matter what you present as/look like.

Super masc? Doesn’t matter, still whatever.

Kinda fem and masc? Sure!

SUPER fem? Stillll genderless.

Demiboy? Demigirl? Transgender? Fabulous!

Really just neutral? You’re epic!

Gender changes from day to day? Well, sorry to say it, but you sound kinda like a god to me!

…. or, maybe, maybe, you just wanna eat disrespectful bigots who trespass on your territory?

you can do that too.

Basically, just - if you’re not cis, don’t be scared. You might not be ‘the norm’, but that just means that you’re legendary.

too many of you, especially people who are not lesbians, judge whether or not someone is butch by their hair and it’s absurd.

not everyone with short hair is butch, firstly. butch is a very specific, lesbian-exclusive identity, and i promise you emma watson is not a butch. the woman you reblogged with short hair but a full face of makeup is not butch. butch is an intricate identity about rejecting femininity and embracing masculinity in a way that puts women at the forefront of your priorities. 

secondly, butch is much more than an aesthetic, and you can have long hair and be butch. i keep my hair long because i’m closeted and self-conscious. i have seen trans butches say that they keep their hair long because it helps them validate their gender. some butches have long hair because it’s important to them religiously or culturally. the idea that long hair is inherently feminine and short hair inherently masculine is a white, western, and i would say relatively modern one.

calling any woman with short hair a butch is ridiculous, and shows a very narrow understanding of butchness and butch lesbians that reduces our identity to an aesthetic applying to a very narrow concept of masculinity, and you need to stop.

Love without Sex

I’m doing a Philosophy paper on Asexuality. Please reblog if you think Love without Sex is possible! I really need the data. Like if you think love has to have sex.

fuuck I accidentally liked it

Do NOT Support ‘Adam’ When The Film Comes Out

I’ve talked about this before on this blog but this is the most disgustingly transphobic and lesbophobic narrative I’ve ever come across. 

CWs: transphobia, homophobia, lesbophobia, corrective rape, voyeurism

The book Adam by Ariel Schrag is being turned into a movie which has been named as one of the most exciting LGBTQ films of the year. You should know before watching that the book is about a cis boy who pretends to be a trans man in order to persuade lesbians to sleep with him.

Yeah… you read that right.

Book plot summary: 

  • boy spies on his lesbian sister having sex
  • boy decides to pretend to be a trans man (gross)
  • i.e. pretends to have a vagina because he thinks lesbians will want him then (he literally wants to fuck lesbians because he watched his lesbian sister have sex wtf)
  • he does get a lesbian to sleep with him, he straps his penis down using ace bandages and uses a strap on.
  • all the actual trans dudes we meet identify as lesbians this basically implies that trans men are not real men (lesbians i.e. women)  
  • another time they have sex again only he uses his actual penis but tells her its a strap on. that’s literally rape, she didn’t consent to an actual penis.
  • he confesses that he’s been lying to her this whole time but she doesn’t break up with him. she even says its okay cause she fantasised about him being “a real boy"
  • that’s a direct quote. massive transphobia. huge. not to mention this is now the “lesbian is cured by dick trope” which is disgusting and that trope leads to real lesbians and bi women being raped to “fix” them. 
  • he leaves new york, they’re long distance. they get in an argument and he calls her a slut and a whore among other things and then she dumps him
  • eventually they get back in touch and she has a new cis boyfriend so yep, she’s been “cured” woo she’s actually straight and he helped her realise that yay (massive sarcasm)

It is deeply deeply transphobic. To imply that our identities are just costumes for other people to put on erases who we are as people. More than that, to imply it is done to trick people into sex is a dangerous lie that literally gets us killed.

It is also deeply lesbophobic. To fuel this narrative that lesbians can be “fixed” by having sex with a man leads to real corrective rapes happening. 

Here is a review of the book by a trans man. I have yet to find one by a lesbian but will edit this if I do.

This book gives out incredibly harmful notions about trans men and lesbians that are used to hurt them in real life. It’s so entrenched in the narrative that I don’t see how the film can possibly be any better.

I do not say any of this lightly. it’s very very rare for me to call out a piece of fiction or for me to decide that a story is unfixable. But this… there’s no excuse for the bigotry in this. 

I’d like to tell people to boycott it but I can’t tell you what to do. So instead I’m going to ask that you share this because it being named as an exciting new LGBTQ film is going to make LGBTQ teens want to see it. And they should know beforehand how hurtful it could be. They should be able to arm themselves with that knowledge.

Don’t make queer kids see this film believing it will represent them only to be exposed to this hatred of their identities. 

Please reblog.

hey! bi people’s terms need more recognition!

  • doe: fem bi girl
  • stag: masc bi girl
  • tomcat: androgynous bi girl
  • mage: fem bi boy
  • knight: masc bi boy
  • druid: androgynous bi boy
  • dove: fem nonbinary bi
  • crow: masc nonbinary bi
  • pigeon: androgynous nonbinary bi
hello,
i’m new to tumblr and don’t have any followers yet, so like or repost if you’re interested in any of these things:
-tøp
-lgbt shit
-youtube
-mileschronicles
-ally hills
-rose & rosie
-triggerwarningrat
-panic!
-mental health
-music
-songwriting
-paramore
-the office
i’m into a ton of other things, but here’s a few😂

Literally all

me seeing purple flowers on a lawn: that’s the prettiest thing i’ve ever seen

me seeing sunlight hit the waves of the sea: that’s the prettiest thing i’ve ever seen

me seeing raindrops sparkle colorfully on a bus stop bench at night: that’s the

Me looking at my girlfriend

haikyuu braincell count

hinata : 4 and they all try Very Hard

kageyama : 1 that he uses to count his change for the vending machine

tsukishima : 50 but one Big Gay one controls them all

yamaguchi : 8, one for every rihanna album

tanaka : exactly one that is responsible for everything and is doing its best

nishinoya : 7, with seperately assigned functions but they fight alot

ennoshita : 80. 40 are screaming “LOOK ALIVE” and the other 40 are vigorously hissing from their naps

suga : one. its on alot of crack and twerking violently

daichi : it started off with a solid 100 but they keep leaving

asahi : 23 but they have synchronised breakdowns

yachi : 1 and its an emotionally unstable bottom that controls all her actions

kiyoko : exactly 3 and two are on sum dumbass juice and the one thats left is trying to save her Reputation but is also too gay to function

saeko : the last braincell evacuated recently but left behind an mp3 player w the lady gaga discography on repeat in there

oikawa : a solid 80 but they’re in cliques

iwaizumi : 4 and they’re all weebs

kuroo : 70 holding a spelling bee competition

kenma : 3 existential millenial braincells that narrate their lfestyle on tumblr

lev : one and its on autopilot now

yaku : 3 angry asian grandmother braincells

bokuto : probably a good 20 but that one cell w the unstable self esteem does most of the outside work

akaashi : exactly 2 and they’re both lesbians

ushijima : one. it enjoys glee.

tendou : atleast 70 but they’re all in extreme disconnect and dont get along much

I always get so fucking mad when I remember that it’s actually a 16-year-old Algerian girl who influenced BOTH Picasso and Matisse. and. No one gives a rat’s ass about her work which was very focused on women and nature. History -or people dare I say- didn’t bother to remember her name because she was a young Algerian woman and no one cares about Maghrebi/Arab women. unlike P*casso & M*tisse who both became legends, almost gods both during their lives and after their deaths, no one knows her.

Her name was Baya Mahieddine.

This is some good stuff 👌🏻

Her name is Baya Mahieddine

Her name is Baya Mahieddine

I don’t know anything about the historical context, but this is good stuff and her name should be known.

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Transgender people

Homosexual people

Bisexual people

Genderfluid people

Asexual people

Pansexual people

Autosexual people

Demisexual people

Bigender people

Agender people

Polysexual people

Straight people

Cisgender people

Straight allies of the lgbtqpiad community

ANYONE

I THINK I LOST A FOLLOWER FOR REBLOGGING THIS WTF

of course 💕💖💘

nothing but love, unless you’re a map/nomap/pedophile/racist/etc

AND POLYAMOURUS PEOPLE

YES

the phrase “curiosity killed the cat” is actually not the full phrase it actually is “curiosity killed the cat but satisfaction brought it back” so don’t let anyone tell you not to be a curious little baby okay go and be interested in the world uwu

See also:

Blood is thicker than water The blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb.

Meaning that relationships formed by choice are stronger than those formed by birth.

Let’s not forget that “Jack of all trades, master of none” ends with “But better than a master of one.”

It means that being equally good/average at everything is much better than being perfect at one thing and sucking at everything else. So don’t worry if you’re not perfect at something you do! Being okay is better!

These made me feel better

Also, “great minds think alike” ends with “but fools rarely differ”

It goes to show that conformity isn’t always a good thing. And that just because more than one person has the same idea, doesn’t necessarily mean it’s a good idea.

what the fuck why haven’t i heard the full version to any of these 

“Birds of a feather flock together” ends with “until the cat comes.”

It’s actually a warning about fair-weather friends, not an assessment of how complementary people are.

I’ve always felt like these were cut down on purpose.

I really like these phrases and plan on spreading this knowledge.

The early bird catches the worm, but the second mouse gets the cheese.

I want to make designs out of these.

Funny how all the half-finished ones encourage uniformity and upholding the status-quo, while the complete proverbs encourage like…living exciting, eclectic lives driven by choice and personal passion.

I’d totally write something about one of these if I had the time!

Wow education

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Touchy girls are my favorite

Grab my hand, I don’t care if you have to take my phone out of it. Make me look, if you want a kiss then turn my head by my jaw. Pull me close, it doesn’t matter wether it’s by my hips or my collar. Like put a hand on my thigh, no motive needed. I’m all over that shit.

I’m all over that shit

Lord please gift me more touchy freidns