My Escape

no meme caption this is just me

Pam’s Art Exhibition // The Office

You messing up the whip" 😂

BRUCE I’M WEAK

Camilla ate the whole damn bag

lmao this nigga is the animal whisperer

I think he got a show on the Animal Planet now like for real he got the touch

she hungry as hell

😂 I love this so much

THATS DOPE AS HELL!!! What’s the name of the show!

never forget when Beyoncé’s camera man started doing her choreography

I blow on it but underestimate how hot it is and hashafashasha anyway

hehehehe

sometimes you say or do bad things while you’re in an awful mental place. sometimes you say things that are rude or uncalled for or manipulative. and i’m not going to hold that against you. mental illness is hard, and no one is perfect. but once you’re through that episode, you need to take steps to make amends. you need to apologize.

“i couldn’t help it, i was having a bad episode” is a justification, not an apology.

“i’m so fucking sorry, i fucked up, i don’t deserve to live, i should stop talking to anyone ever, i should die” is a second breakdown and a guilt trip. it is not an apology.

when you apologize, the focus should be on the person you hurt. “i’m sorry. i did something that was hurtful to you. even if i was having a rough time, you didn’t deserve to hear that,” is a better apology. if it was a small thing, you can leave it at that.

if you caused significant distress to the other person, this is a good time to talk about how you can minimize damage in the future. and again, even if it is tempting to say you should self-isolate and/or die, that is not a helpful suggestion. it will result in the person you’re talking to trying to talk you out of doing that, which makes your guilt the focus of the conversation instead of their hurt.

you deserve friendship, and you deserve support. but a supportive friend is not an emotional punching bag, and mental illness does not absolve you of responsibility for your actions. what you say during a mental breakdown doesn’t define you. how you deal with the aftermath though, says a lot.

This is the most carefully-nuanced discussion of this I think I have ever seen. Thank you for writing this.

having time vs. making time. there’s a difference.

This was literally the funniest one. Even He couldn’t help but laugh.

I love how He is capitalized as if Drake Bell is God

2015 absolutely drained me. I need abouta 2 year long nap, see you in 2017, folks. don’t fucking vote for trump 

um. good morning and what the fuck 

She’s so broke

who

the girl reading this