my love languages are biting, being annoying and boobs
The worst part about regaining weight you lost is feeling like a balloon with too much air and being able to feel every ounce of fat on your body.
Am I the only one that feels like my ED gives me a purpose?
“When you are attracted to people, it’s because of the details. Their kindness. Their eyes. The fact that they can get you to laugh when you need it the most.”
— Jodi Picoult (via thoughtkick)
found this
“The most important thing in all human relationships is conversation, but people don’t talk anymore, they don’t sit down to talk and listen. They go to the theater, the cinema, watch television, listen to the radio, read books, but they almost never talk. If we want to change the world, we have to go back to a time when warriors would gather around a fire and tell stories.”
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banish the idea that platonic love is a lesser form of love
if you go through life not investing in your friendships the same way you invest in romantic relationships, you will always be looking for love, feeling lonely, completely blind to the love all around you
friendship is not a lower level relationship. it is not a lesser form of love.
“People tend to forget to tell each other how much they love or miss you or need you, and even if they do remember, sometimes they’re just too shy, too scared, too certain it’s the wrong thing to say or the wrong timing. But it’s not. It never is. Say it before it’s too late. For all we know, it could all be different tomorrow.”
— just say the word before it’s too late / n.j.
Hand holding during sex, that’s that good shit
“So, do it. Decide. Is this the life you want to live? Is this the person you want to love? Is this the best you can be? Can you be stronger? Kinder? More Compassionate? Decide. Breathe in. Breathe out and decide.”
— Meredith Grey (via perrfectly)
there is soooo much beauty in being a good person
it won’t be like what you imagined. maybe you get the road trip to the beach with coffee in your hand and the radio playing, maybe you don’t. but happy shows up. it’s in a 2 AM game of jenga with your new college friends. it’s curling up for another marathon of netflix. it’s meeting the person who will be your best man at the wedding. it’s 4:45pm in the library when the girl in the study coral across from you quietly whispers “i’m going to set everything on fire” and then turns to you and asks if you wanna take a break for dinner (say yes, she’s very nice and you both need a moment away from the stress). it’s the mornings they have omelettes and in good books and in a puddle that looks cool. it’s sometimes picturesque, but more often it’s full-belly laughter at stupid things on the floor of your friend’s house while in the background someone is debating the best way to win settlers of catan.
i know it gets dark early now and the tired is setting in and everything sort of feels blank and hazy and you want to spend ages staring at walls thinking of nothing
but happiness will find a way in. it will be small moments. look for them.
Highkey don’t wanna tell anyone what’s going on in my life ever
it hurts when you know you have nice clothes, good sense of style and actually can dress nicely but you're too fat to wear cute outfits so you just walk around in oversized clothes looking like a trash bag
“People say I love you all the time - when they say, ‘take an umbrella, it’s raining,’ or ‘hurry back,’ or even ‘watch out, you’ll break your neck.’ There are hundreds of ways of wording it - you just have to listen for it, my dear.”
— John Patrick
don’t you just love how mental disorders are basically buy one get seven free
not to sound fucked up but i will never be completely at peace until my outer appearance is satisfactory to me
relationships are about the little things. buying your girlfriend's favorite snack at the gas station even if she said she didn't want anything because you know it'll make her happy. making an absolute fool out of yourself just so you can hear her giggle. laying at the top of the stairs with your head hanging down so when she comes home at 11pm and enters the dark stairway she'll think you're a scary monster. it's the little things
“It gives me strength to have somebody to fight for; I can never fight for myself, but, for others, I can kill.”
— Emilie Autumn, The Asylum for Wayward Victorian Girls
“I liked the idea of living in a city- any city, especially a strange one- liked the thought of traffic and crowds, of working in a bookstore, waiting tables in a coffee shop, who knew what kind of odd, solitary life I might slip into? Meals alone, walking the dogs in the evenings; and nobody knowing who I was.”
— Donna Tartt, The Secret History


