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Barbara Kruger
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Having someone in your life with depression and anxiety means being prepared for any and all episodes.
There are going to be days where they’ll want to lay in bed all day. Lay with them. Bring them their favorite drink.
There will be days where you’ll be out socializing, but at any given notice they’ll start shutting down and want to go home. Watch for these signs, remember them like the back of your hand.
There will be days where they’ll be so fragile, and anything can break them. Hold them in your arms while they cry about something that they remembered from years ago, even if they swore they moved on. Do not try to explain to them they need to stop living in the past, now is not the time. Just hold them and show them they are loved.
And lastly, there will be days where they will want to be alone and not speak to anyone. Yes, this includes you. Understand this, understand when to give them space. Understand nothing is in spite of you.
Just, understand.
Please be an understanding boyfriend, girlfriend, friend and family member of those who struggle. We need you to be. (via aestheticacid)
Do NOT blame suicidal people for wanting to die
- They can’t help it.
- They are in a kind of pain you can’t even imagine.
- The last thing they need is more guilt.
- They trusted you enough to tell you, don’t guilt trip them.
- If you don’t know how to help them, please ask a professional for advice.
- It takes much strenght to survive suicidal thoughts. They are strong but they need help and support.
- It is NOT their fault, nor yours. They just need support.
- Suicidal pain is exhausting and they only want to rest. Try to understand, not blame them.
- They need professional help.
- They are not selfish.
- They are ill.