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@her-thoughts

She/her
When someone loves you they will always lead you back to yourself, to the home of your soul, to the colors of your heart. They will remind you to look inside, and embrace everything you are because that's what they fell in love with, and  they will protect and cherish it even if you forget to.
e.v.e.

Love should not feel like a drama movie. It shouldn’t be in constant turmoil; it shouldn’t be full of ups and downs. It is not supposed to hurt more than it makes you happy. The feeling of bliss should be long-lasting and not something that happens once every month after days of fighting. You shouldn’t have to fight to make someone love you with their whole heart and to give you respect. Love shouldn’t be burning you. The unending emotional misery is not a part of real love that you have to put up with - you don’t have to put up with abuse to be loved. Relationships can hurt, but love is supposed to feel good at its core. It is supposed to make you feel good and safe, not scared it will leave you at any second. It isn’t supposed to feel sharp in your hands when you hold it. It isn’t supposed to make your heart torn.

The right person will know how to hold your love. The right person will choose you just as deeply as you choose them. You will not have to quiet the way you care, you will never feel like you are too much. You will not have to beg for the love you deserve. One day, you will be met where you are. One day, you will be someone's favorite thing, and you will not be confused — you will not feel like you are fighting for someone who isn't fighting for you. One day, you will understand that it never mattered how tightly you held on to the wrong people, how intensely you tried, because the right people were always going to find you. The right people were always going to stay.

Bianca Sparacino

I want to be in bed with her. I’m not talking about fucking then passing out. No. She’s better than that. I’m talking about just laying next to her. Rolling over and finding my way to her body. Holding her tight protecting her from any bad dreams she has. Finding her hand in mine like an uncontrollable attraction even in our sleep. Kissing her forehead as she lays her head on my chest. Feeling her heartbeat as she’s soundly asleep in my arms. Intertwining our bodies in our unconscious states. Just being connected like one. I just want to be in bed with her.

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You deserve a calm love with somebody who is good for your mental health and nervous system.