you I want to sleep all the time but you leave me restless and unable to sleep I cried so hard last night my eyes were swollen shut this morning I haven't been eating much, how could I I haven't been myself, the happiness I wake up with each day is dulling you I'm sorry mommy I know I'm making you sad you
There is no definitive way to learn to love yourself. There is no plan containing steps that you meticulously follow, with self love and confidence promised after 21 days. Self love results from the most minuscule actions: acknowledging that you look good, unfollowing that girl who’s “perfection” and causes mentally exhausting comparison, or eating a salad followed by a huge cookie because it’s what you’re craving. Stop apologizing for your appearance, accept the fact that who you are, not what you look like, defines you.
You are allowed to take up space. You are allowed to have a voice. You are allowed to say that you look good and post that selfie. Do not shrink yourself for others’ insecurities. Confidence is not the same as conceitedness, and do not let people threatened by the fact that you are comfortable in your skin lace your journey to self love with cries of vanity and narcissism.
Remember that not every day will be sunshine and smiles. You will have days where you loathe every inch of you, but on those days you will tackle the world anyways because you have flaws but those flaws are what make you beautiful, even though society has told you that your imperfections are there to be fixed.
Self love is not something that you accomplish and never think about again. You have to choose every day to love yourself. It may seem like an impossible choice, and it may seem like this world is against you. But be radical, take the leap, and watch your life change, in both the biggest and smallest of ways.
#ICONIC
I SAAAID I WASNT BEING RACIST
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my favorite kind of people: people who take pictures of you when they think you’re doing something cute or beautiful — like driving with the windows down, laughing as hard as you can, walking down the beach — then show you it, like they’re proud of a picture they took of you
the world needs more people like that ^
How to Pack Luggage?
Where the hell are you going that you need so many clothes?!
conventions
Hopingforbestgettingworst (via hopingforbestgettingworst)
and like the moon, she had a side of her so dark, that even the stars couldn’t shine on it. she had a side of her so cold, that even the sun couldn’t burn on it.
How can I trust
A word you say
When your favourite pastime
Is to watch me break?
The Stories They Tell (via slamthiscrap)
