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Heather Lynne

@heatherlynne-patd

Color my life with the chaos of trouble. 5°21°16 •|Michigan|•
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I’ve always been fascinated by How beautifully people say That they miss someone The French say “Tu me manques” Or “You’re missing from me” The Portuguese use the word “saudades” Which is the love that remains, After the person is gone The Spanish say “Me haces falta” Or “I feel the lack of you” The Indians say “मुझे तुम्हारी याद आ रही है “ Or “Your memories keep coming back to me” And the English say “I miss you" Like you’re the bull’s eye, And I’m a dart. I almost hit you, Almost, but not quite. I miss you. Like you’re a train, And I’m running late. I almost catch you, Almost, but not quite. I miss you. Like you’re the sunset, And I blinked. I almost see you, Almost, but not quite. I miss you. Like you’re you And I’m me I almost ask you to stay Almost, but not quite. You’re gone, And I miss you.

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I need my man to kiss every inch of my face and to tell me how much he loves me so I can get through the day

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Everyone: What do u do Me: *opens my dramatic 2am cellphone notes* I’m a writer actually

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And there will be nights when your life will fall apart and no one will notice the mornings you spend putting it back together.

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boils
Sometimes, crying is the only way your eyes speak when your mouth can’t explain how broken your heart is.

D.S  (via boils)

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I swear y’all be asking for relationship advice like: 

Hi, my man has no job, lives with me rent free, doesn’t cook, doesn’t eat pussy, his balls stink, he drank all the Minute Maid Fruit Punch and put the carton back in the fridge, he cheated on me twice with my mama and he don’t like Beyoncé anyway the other day we got in a fight the other day and he called me a bitch, what should I do? 

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“i think i have o.c.d. because i keep my room really clean”

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“they ran out of cake-pops at starbucks i’m so depressed”

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“i stayed up till like 3 am i swear i have insomnia”

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“ugh my parents are so bipolar”

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“i can never pay attention in class i think i have a.d.h.d”

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“omg i’m so retarded”

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Ways to Love Yourself 1. Know yourself You cannot love someone you don’t even know. 2. Accept that you have strengths and weaknesses. You have skills and problems. Do a SWOT Analysis (strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, threats) of yourself if you want but remember, opportunities and threats are external. You don’t have control over them. But you can use your strengths and improve on your weaknesses, both of which are internal, to handle the external. 3. Disliking certain things about yourself is normal. That gives room for improvement. Improve. Don’t be lazy and choose the path of self loathing. 4. Forgive yourself Understand that making mistakes is the way to grow. If you hadn’t fallen on your bum a couple hundred times you would have never learned to walk. If as a baby after one fall, after one mistake of breaking something, you would have decided to just sit in the corner and never try again, you would still be sitting there with the broken pieces. Don’t do that. Learn from your toddler self. Get up. And the only way you can do that is by forgiving yourself. 5. Accept that as of now you do not love yourself. Lying to yourself won’t eventually lead you to believe it as the truth. Lying to someone you love is not a way to love them. 6. Disregard what others say about you. So much of the good and bad they tell you really has more to do with themselves; their mindset and mood, their motives and interest. Don’t let people fill in blanks for you. That won’t lead to a happy ending, it won’t lead to a story you can call your own. 7. Be patient with yourself, be kind. Being hard on yourself is a really stupid thing to do. It isn’t productive, it isn’t one bit effective and it is completely unnecessary. 8. Discard the idea that you are breakable. Reject the concept that someone can leave you broken. They can hurt you, yes and they can cause you an immense amount of pain but they cannot break you. You aren’t made of glass. Give your cells a little more credit. Give your heart a little more of it too. 9. When you realize that the grass is greener on the other side, don’t draw up plans to ruin that grass or come up with a way where you can camp on it and abandon your own grass. Instead, take a trip to the shop to buy some fertilizer and tend to your own grass. Upskill yourself constantly. 10. Learn new things. Invest time and energy in things that interest you.You didn’t learn to play piano in school but always wished to? Who said there is an age limit. In most cases the saying, ‘it is never too late’ stands absolutely true. 11. Look yourself in the mirror. You can admire or just observe. Look into your eyes. Look at your reflection. Just look. Have a see in what’s inside. Don’t look away. Have the courage to see the truth. 12. Spend time with yourself. Buy yourself flowers if flowers are what you love. Don’t wait to meet the right person to do the things you always wanted to. Go star gazing, skinny dipping. Solo travel. Do whatever you want to and can. Write your future/past self a letter. Cook yourself a meal. Buy yourself some ice cream. Click goofy selfies. 13. Learn to accept compliments. Be graceful. All you have to do is say ‘thank you’. And please don’t feel the immediate need of returning the compliment. You don’t always have to give when you get. Especially when you don’t really have anything to give. A ‘thank you’ and a smile are more than enough. 14. Learn to be okay in silence. The voices in your head? They terrorize you, I know. But trust me, they go away. They go away if you face them. There are no demons in your head. These are just echoes of your fears and insecurities. Listen to them. Breathe deep. Know that they are weak. Face them head on. And then ask them to leave. 15. Accept your body. However it is or it isn’t. It has accepted you in every possible way. Accept it and see how it accepts you even more. Accepting doesn’t mean not changing something that you can in a healthy way. It only means that your love is unconditional. Your love is whole. And that is the only way to love yourself. Wholly.
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bearzerky

i can’t wait until october when there’s no sun outside and everything is cute colors and it’s cold and there are terrible horror movies on tv, my power is at its peak then

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lyjerria

your standards should be high for both your friendships and romantic relationships. everyone you surround yourself with should have qualities you actually admire.

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