Nonsexual domming...where you see how I get frozen and overwhelmed with indecision and responsibility so you simply tell me what to do.
Stop working, go eat.
Stop cleaning, go shower.
Treat yourself, order this particular food.
Go get this certain snack.
Show me what you worked on today!
Take a ten minute break.
Wow, you did all that??
Put that away and go to bed.
You're doing great, you've done enough for today.
I'm proud of you! Let's celebrate🥂
Come here, Darling.
Come sit on my knee.
Bury your head into my shoulder.
I'm here.
I'm here.
I've got you. You don't need to worry or think about anything for the rest of the night. Just let me hold you.
It's been an overwhelming day, hasn't it?
Just cuddle into me. That's all we'll do, all night. Then I'll get you into bed and you can get some rest. I'll deal with everything.
Everything's okay.
You're with me. I'll protect you.
I love you.
Because of this below...
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I need someone who no matter what happens during the day, no matter who I have to deal with, what I have to suffer, what frustrations I deal with at work or with those who cause me pain, I know that at the end of the day I come home to them. It doesn’t need to be romantic, and I wouldn’t solely rely on them of course. No individual deserves to be the sole reason a person marches forward. But I need someone that when I fold into their arms at night and wrap myself around them, feeling the weight of their breath filling their chest just as it does mine, as I accept each shift of the body as we both find our comfort in each other’s hold, I feel as if it was worth reaching the end of the day just to feel safe for a moment. Just a simple hug, and suddenly I am home.
I love little intimacies. A hand on the thigh, a kiss on the forehead, seeing something you know they'll like and getting it for them, being in a crowded place and catching eachothers eye across the room and smiling. telling them to text when they made it somewhere safe, kissing them before you leave for work even if they're sleeping. Oh, I just love that we have the capacity to intimately know others and share precious little moments with them.
Having someone match your wit or your weirdness without hesitation is actually so fucking comforting and fun.
significant other who works out with me so we reward each other with a kiss after every set <3
stopping what you’re doing to feel them push into your touch 💓
when they’re between “too much” and “more, please” and their mouth hangs open so you start again softer and slower 💖
when they tell you to ease up so you switch to a touch that is more tender in some other place and cherish them and tell them how good they’re being 💕
when you look up to them as you start doing something new and they give you that little nod and a guidance, like “be gentle”, “not too fast” 💗
asking them to beg for something they feel tender about when you’re doing it for the first time so you’re sure they truly want it and are not just going along with it 💝
all the little moments that are exploratory and center your partner’s pleasure and give them agency over what you’re doing even when you are in a more dominant role ❣️❤️🔥❤️
great fucking sex, a good laugh, partner in crime, epic conversations, a friendship, honesty, unquestionable loyalty
having someone in your life who thinks you’re interesting enough to talk to every day, knowing that you are worth their time, is honestly one of the best feelings ever
Aftercare? You mean like marrying her and giving her the world? Showing her that true love exists?
thx for putting up with my insanity, sorry i lured you with the cuteness. it was intentional
bf that plays video games 🤝 gf that plays video games with him
