Andy Biersack patron saint of Never Shutting The Fuck Up Ever
every time a fat girl wears a shirt that shows her belly an angel gets their wings reblog if you agree
basically every trans person regardless of their actual gender can be hated and harmed for being a "failed woman" OR a "failed man". this is not a hard concept to grasp society hates us enough to not make sense
all this fucking talk of "stealing" with the queer community. "gays are stealing from lesbians" "aces are stealing from gays" "transes are stealing from everyone" absolutely convinced white queers learned about cultural appropriation and decided it could be applied to sexuality and gender and it became entrenched becuz ppl are fucking obsessed with gatekeeping and exclusionism
besties, we are all in the alphabet soup together. the lines between us are blurred as hell. we are not stealing, we are inspired. our culture is bright and beautiful and a street fair that everyone trades at. quit being so goddamn individualistic and embrace the community. it's the only way we have solidarity
i think the thing abt t4t(4t etc.) sex is that a lot of it is less about the orgasm and more about exploring each others bodies in ways that avoid dysphoria or even alleviate it. completely knowing not only your partners feelings about their own gender(s) but how, if at all, it relates to their body. knowing their anatomy and how you can take your positive vibes about them and reflect it back like a mirror and show them just how much you love/respect/are attracted to them and how unconditional that mutual love/respect/attraction is for them. for me, t4t is so much about understanding that no matter how much a person changes, your love/respect/attraction to them stays the same, or even grows as you spend more time with each other. truly truly i feel t4t is so so so unconditional because no matter if youโre pre-op, post-op, or non-op or pre-hrt, on hrt, or non/post-hrt or no matter how many times you change your gender or labels or pronouns or presentation or how much you experiment with gender nonconformity, that thereโs always always always this baseline of respect for each other
genderfluidity is not a strict or defined thing- i've seen a lot of people questioning whether or not their experience "counts" as a genderfluid experience because it "doesn't seem to fit"- the only "rule" for genderfluidity is that your gender changes sometimes. that's it, it doesn't have to be anything more complicated than that
Itโs fine if you donโt taste like sweet caramel, liquorice, or dripping, liquid cotton candy. Itโs perfectly fine if you donโt taste flowery or of sweet nectarโ You arenโt meant to. You are human. Youโll taste of flesh, of a body trying its best to function and keep your insides safe and clean. Thatโs just reality. You arenโt a character from fanfiction or some smut novel. Chances are, you wonโt taste sweet enough that a person could melt from your taste alone, and that is normal. A bitter, salty, metallic, or similar taste is the sign of a healthy, functioning body. Youโre not apple pie, honey, butter, salted caramel softening on their tongue, sweet watermelon on a hot summerโs day, warm peach cobbler for them to eat whole. Youโre human. Flesh and blood. You will taste like your body. And that is perfect in itself.
And you taste like you. Someone who loves u will also love your taste, bc of all the things it signalizes!
Well said <3
im like if someones deadbeat loser unemployed boyfriend was a girl with a job
hairy tboy ass really does something to me dude. god i just wanna grab it and bite it. nothing else makes me wanna rail a boy more than seein their pretty ass <3
life is so ruthless so i must love you as hard as i can. basically
first it was "men are gonna lose their right to vote and become useless if women are treated equally"
then it was "white people are gonna become slaves if Black people are treated equally"
then it was "straight marriage will become illegal if gay people are treated equally"
now it's "'natural borns' and 'pure bloods' (or whatever the fuck they call themselves instead of cis) are gonna lose their rights if trans people are treated equally"
we need to go back to 2013 tumblr when "more rights for others doesn't mean less rights for you. it's not a pie" was posted everywhere. people have forgotten that.










