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Writer Harrie Farrow

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#Bi Pride. Author of novels, "Finding Bonita," and "Love, Sex, and Understanding the Universe" http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00GMYCWT0#!;Bisexual advocate. @HarrieFarrow, https://www.goodreads.com/author/show/7389539.Harrie_Farrow
The word bisexual had stood out so bright and clear in my head that all else had ceased to exist. Bisexual. I had a word. I understood; it was me… a nice clear label that said it all. I didn’t have to choose. I didn’t have to be not attracted to either guys or girls — a prospect I had found utterly absurd and likely impossible, but had thought was perhaps necessary. Now it wasn’t necessary. Now it was okay to be me. I was not unheard of. Bisexual.“- Jim Landa, bisexual character in bisexual coming of age novel, “Love, Sex, and Understanding the Universe.

My statement, Re: Current Attacks from Rightwing Extremists

It is never remotely okay to harass, target, or use as a weapon, anyone, but it is most especially grievous to target the most vulnerable among us. Only the most morally evil, or those they’ve brainwashed with insidious fearmongering, would ever do this. They don’t care how cruelly they harm, nor how many they harm, nor how much the trauma radiates out from those in the crosshairs and into society in general.

Currently, the bullies are gaining ground in ways and at speeds that have many of us wheeling in dizzying disorientation. Those creating nightmares on hell-bound trains do not care how many people email or call in protest, how many chain themselves to government buildings; they don’t care how many take their own lives, nor would they respond to threats or even violence.

Nonetheless, we must explore and use every nonviolent avenue we still have to block them. And by we, I mean all people of good faith and good conscience. We must support the organizations and individuals fighting the legal and legislative battles. We must also, and very importantly so, gather together to be supportive of one another, and most especially, with those on the periphery reaching out to be supportive, caring, and uplifting of those at the center of the hate and oppression. We must incessantly speak up and speak out, not because the perpetrators will listen, but because their cowardly enablers might, and just as importantly, because those being hurt the most need to hear the care and concern, need to know they are not alone, not forgotten, or abandoned.

—Harrie Farrow 2/24/22

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the book i’ve been waiting for, for like 6 weeks, has finally arrived. and i was unaware that it had won an award for bisexual rep, and it says so on the back of the book and don’t ask me to explain why but i cried about it

writing culture is when you took a break from your wips to write some fanfic, and the hiatus turned into a lot of fics, and now, when you go back to your wips that you took a hiatus from

you dont even write like that anymore