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“A high percentage of parents with disorganized / disoriented infants have histories of unresolved childhood trauma, such as the early loss of a parent, abuse, or witnessing of parental violence (Lyons-Ruth, Yellin, Melnick, & Atwood, 2005)… Their infants are often alarmed and frightened by their intense expression of fearful emotions: ‘Frightening behavior on the part of the still-traumatized parent should lead to a disorganized/disoriented infant, since the infant is presented with an irresolvable paradox wherein the haven of safety is at once the source of alarm’ (Main & Hesse, 1990, p. 180).”

— Douglas Davies, Child Development: A Practitioner’s Guide, Third Edtion (via disabledbyculture)

kot w pustym mieszkaniu / a cat in an empty apartment - wisława szymborska

“We are all suffering from the loss of a sense of time. We were left only the place and an attachment to the place. Ruins of temples, ghosts of gardens and houses. If we lose our ruins we will be left with nothing.”

Zbigniew Herbert, from The Selected Poems; “Report from a Besieged City,”

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MY HEART

The second to last gif you can tell they know what’s going to happen and they’re about to burst from the cute innocence of it

I’m losing my fucking mind.

oh my god

my favorite part is that the guys just go along with it in spite of confusion/misgivings because they don’t want to miss out on stickers.

My favorite post

“It’s a bit annoying sometimes but she call us handsome when we do and I don’t hear that very often” OH MY GOD

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the hero we need

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When women help men be better without passive aggressiveness or cruelty, it’s a beautiful thing… because it’s how we did it for years and years.

Why are women always expected to take care of grown ass men like they’re children. These men are pathetic.

She’s doing it of her own free will, and made it very clear to these dudes that the dnd sessions would stop if THEY didn’t take care of THEMSELVES.

She wasn’t expected to do jack shit. It was a choice SHE made to DM for this group, and it was a choice THEY made to better themselves because they enjoyed having her as a DM, as well as having someone show them basic human decency and treat them like fellow human beings.

She did this because she actually gives a damn about outcasts and socially awkward people and people who suffer from mental illnesses such as anxiety, depression, and autism.

But I wouldn’t expect you to understand that.

depression tips™

  • shower. not a bath, a shower. use water as hot or cold as u like. u dont even need to wash. just get in under the water and let it run over you for a while. sit on the floor if you gotta.
  • moisturize everything. use whatever lotion u like. unscented? dollar store lotion? fancy ass 48 hour lotion that makes u smell like a field of wildflowers? use whatever you want, and use it all over. 
  • put on clean, comfortable clothes. 
  • put on ur favorite underwear. cute black lacy panties? those ridiculous boxers u bought last christmas with candy cane hearts on the butt? put em on.
  • drink cold water. use ice. if u want, add some mint or lemon for an extra boost.
  • clean something. doesn’t have to be anything big. organize one drawer of ur desk. wash five dirty dishes. do a load of laundry. scrub the bathroom sink. 
  • blast music. listen to something upbeat and dancey and loud, something that’s got lots of energy. sing to it, dance to it, even if you suck at both.
  • make food. don’t just grab a granola bar to munch. take the time and make food. even if it’s ramen. add something special to it, like a hard boiled egg or some veggies. prepare food, it tastes way better, and you’ll feel like you accomplished something. 
  • make something. write a short story or a poem, draw a picture, color a picture, fold origami, crochet or knit, sculpt something out of clay, anything artistic. even if you don’t think you’re good at it.
  • go outside. take a walk. sit in the grass. look at the clouds. smell flowers. put your hands in the dirt and feel the soil against your skin.
  • call someone. call a loved one, a friend, a family member, call a chat service if you have no one else to call. talk to a stranger on the street. have a conversation and listen to someone’s voice. if you can’t, text or email or whatever, just have some social interaction with another person. even if you don’t say much, listen to them.
  • cuddle your pets if you have them/can cuddle them. take pictures of them. talk to them. tell them how u feel, about your favorite movie, a new game coming out.

From the shell The song of the sea Neither quiet nor calm Searching for love again My love

SONG OF THE SEA (2014) Dir. Tomm Moore

                        The Faerie Queens (Literary and Heroines)-Series 1

1. Stanilaus Soutten Longley (1894-1966), “Autumn”

2.  The Snow Queen by Edmund Dulac

3.  The Cailleach, Gaelic Goddess of Winter by Florence Harrison

4.  “The Wild Swans” by  Susan Jeffers

5. Christina Rossetti, Poems (1910) Illustrations by Florence Harrison

6. Annie French, “The Briar Maiden”

7. Annie French “Flora”

8.  Il Pentamerone (The Story of Stories by Giambattista Basile) - The Flea by Warwick Goble

9. “Shakespeare’s Comedy of The Tempest with illustrations by Edmund Dulac” (1908)

10.  Edmund Dulac illustration in Rubáiyát of Omar Khayyám

Love me and eat me. Possession, Andrzej Żuławski // Tanaka Mhishi, Literary Sexts // Hélène Cixous, Stigmata // Jennifer’s Body, Karyn Kusama // Postcolonial Love Poem, Natalie Diaz // Killer, Phoebe Bridgers // Bones and All, Luca Guadagnino // Famous Last Words (An Ode To Eaters), Ethel Cain // Hannibal, Bryan Fuller

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I can’t understand people who say that childhood is the happiest time of one’s life. It certainly wasn’t for me. Maybe that’s why I don’t believe in a childlike paradise or that children are innocent or good by nature. I remember my childhood as an interminably long and sad time filled with fear. Fear of the unknown. There are things I can’t forget. It’s unbelievable how powerful memories can be. So very powerful.
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LOVE ENDS.  (DOESN’T IT?)

scenes from a marriage (2021) / vacation, florist / passing (2021) / two slow dancers, mitski / the umbrella academy (2020) / right where you left me, taylor swift / fleabag (2019) / so busted, culture abuse / west side story (2021) / night so long, haim / euphoria (2019) / supercut, lorde / normal people (2020) / cartwheel, lucy dacus / schitt’s creek (2020) / spring, angel olsen / la la land (2016) / hold no grudge, lorde / hustlers (2019) / soft spot, claud / in the mood for love (2000) / goodbye until tomorrow, the last five years

les mis: takes place over 15+ years

phantom of the opera: at least 3 months

hamilton: 28-ish years

wicked: between 2 and 5 years

west side story: just a really stressful 48 hours for everyone involved

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probably everyone thinks this already but when Benoit Blanc said "it's a dangerous thing to mistake speaking without thought for speaking the truth"

I would die for this man

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this has been on my mind for a while and I feel like this would horrify sleep deprived Sasuke light eyed people, am I right?? (I am a sinner myself)