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google what does cheating on your wife feel like

google would you consider this cheating

google would you consider this cheating reddit

google signs i’m the cheater

google i think i’m cheating on my other wife now

OP I apologize in advance for this.

Hey bitch, you’re bold as fuck for posting this and tagging it yucking it up as some cheeky dig at me because Abney cheated on me with you when he went to divorce your demonic ass.

You literally lied to him about being terminally ill and got him to marry you after 4 months for “insurance” then you proceeded to make him do hospice care to hold up your lie and made him bathe you as some perverted trauma bond. You left him after he lost contact with his kid bc of you and said you were a lesbian and have been breadcrumbing him for the 2 years y’all were separated.

Then he dates me and tries to move on bc you ruined his life and his relationship with his child and his reputation. You start this single white female act. Changed your whole Cottagecore aesthetic to mimic me. My style. My mannerisms. My jokes. Posting sonic memes bc I’m a sonic voice actor and you grew up in a CHRISTIAN HOUSEHOLD YOURE LYING ABOUT BEING ETHNICALLY JEWISH AND HAVE NEVER PLAYED A VIDEO GAME BESIDES POCKET CAMP IN YOUR LIFE. Bc you’re fucking insecure and have no personality of your own nothing original or poignant to say all of your “art” is ripped directly from Pinterest and you post Taylor swift lyrics like “woe is me :((“ meanwhile you’re being a psychotic evil bitch and taunting me over social media about fucking up our relationship.

Lol you’re so cheeky! You’re an evil bitch you think you’re so special you had to become me to trick someone you traumatized into cheating with you? You’re pathetic. No one likes you for who you are bc who you are is a manipulative pathological liar so you have a different mask and different story for everyone in your life and it’s clear none of them have ever kicked your ass for it.

I wanna be you, huh? You’re a loser. The second you found out Abney was moving on with me you were so quick to insult me. Call me ugly. Downplay my accomplishments bc you could never be in NYFW. You could never be where I am as an entertainer and artist. You’re sick in the head for trying to bring me down with you.

And since you fucked a month ago on the day y’all divorced, you were either trying to trap him and be another demonic baby mama OR (more likely) you’re just a liar and thought faking a miscarriage would give you sympathy for being a homewrecker. Now I gotta get checked for STDs so I don’t get whatever’s festering in you that you keep trying to pass off as “terminal endo”.

I know you don’t give a shit and are selfish and don’t even care you ruined Abney’s life and my peace. But you’re not lying your way out of consequences anymore.

From the bottom of my heart, I hope you get every bit of negative karma you deserve, “Honey Chava Rubi Gilmore”.

this post was about listening to new music

Update:

Double what the fuck

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anyway q*eer is a slur and privileged liberals made everyone believe its OK to call everyone that cause they watched a Ted talk in 2017. and if you don't know why at this point that's a you problem. look it up. or better yet, go the fuck out and talk to a LGBT person older than 30. unacceptable.

Hi, I'm a queer person over 30. Queer was fully reclaimed before I even hit puberty. Most non-radfem folks in the community will tell you the exact same thing. Making queer back into a slur is a radfem psyop and completely ahistorical.

Litterally every older queer i know is fine with the word or at least has no issue with it being used just not aimed at them. The only people I ever met complaining are kids and radfems

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oh is that fucking so.

cause I live in Central Manchester. one of the gayest cities in the UK.

you know how many times I've been called a queer out of a moving car.

call me a q*eer and I'll show you kids and radfems, fucking entitled shits, the lot of u

Being called queer out of a moving care does nothing to negate anything ive said, sorry ❤

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if you think me being attacked by violent homophobes with a slur, which is a slur, used today as a slur, while perpetuating violence, doesn't negate anything you said you genuinely are a fucked up person, needless to say stupid, and part of the problem I'm talking about. ty for being an example. now never speak to me again u disgusting waste of air.

Hi. As a 30+ year old queer woman...you asked for anecdotes and personal responses. You specifically said to talk to US. And now you seem...upset that a lot of 30+ queer folks have come in here and shared their stories with you.

Yes, some bigots still use queer as a slur. You know what the bigots at my high school called me when they threw rocks at my and my friends at the bus loop? Gay. Lesbian. I grew up with the chorus of "that's so gay" and "ugh is she some hairy man hating lesbian?" And "I don't want that predatory lesbian hanging around here." (That last one came from my closeted high school girlfriends dad..... yay)

All our words can and have been used as insults at some time. To pathologize us or mock us or criminalize us. And all of us deal with that in different ways.

Queer is interesting because it's the word that got moved into activist and academic spaces - WITHOUT it coming into broad mainstream use. Aside from Queer Eye and Queer as Folk, you really don't see it showing up in mainstream use. But Queer Nation and Queer Studies have been around longer than me!

The thing with labels is that only you can chose which ones fit. So if queer doesn't work for you, it doesn't work for you. That doesn't make the people who DO use those words wrong or evil or ignorant or privileged or whatever you want to try to say.

But mostly? Don't tell people to go talk to 30+ year Olds, and then throw a FIT when 30+ year Olds talk back.

30+ queer here. The things I got yelled at me as slurs the most were "gay", "lesbo", "dyke", and "tranny"; the first time it happened, I was 9 years old. We had a block of "Queer Studies" in my high school health & sex ed class in the mid 90s.

If "queer" is upsetting to you, fine; don't use it for yourself. Nobody's saying you have to. But words only possess the power you give to them. Do not tell the rest of us we don't have the right to take weapons from the hands of our enemies and reshape them into armour for ourselves, if we choose.

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I'm in my late 30s and I don't remember any TED talks I watched in 2017, but I do remember 2017 being the year SESTA/FOSTA went into effect in the US and the Apple Store started really cracking down on adult content, particularly queer adult content, which eventually led to Tumblr's pornban in late 2018.

I remember that white radfems started spreading “queer is a slur” rhetoric on tumblr in 2013/14. It coincided with a flood of “think of the children” anti-kink political rhetoric and a general push to desexualize and “purify” queer internet spaces, paving the way for SESTA/FOSTA.

Gay was deemed the more “family friendly” umbrella term.

Everyone conveniently chose to forget that the word "gay" was a slur meaning prostitute back in the 1800s, when "having a gay time" meant visiting a brothel, and then later came to refer to male prostitutes specifically, long before it became a synonym for "happy" in the 1950's.

It again became synonymous with homosexuality and sexual deviance in the 1980s, leading to its re-transformation into a slur in the 1990s and 2000s, before it was eventually re-re-re-claimed in the late 2000s.

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It wasn't until the early 2010s that radfems decided to scrub the term gay of its unsavory history and rebrand it as the "clean, pure, baggage-free, umbrella term."

Similar to how yahoo tried to scrub tumblr of its unsavory history as the former Queer IndiePorn Capital of the Internet, and the Epicenter of the Sex Positivity Movement, and re-brand it as a "family friendly" website.

also like, bud? anything is a slur when yelled at you angrily or mockingly from a moving car of bigots. Someone post the "derogatory pepperoni" comic

I'm still just hurt and appalled that I'm considered An Old Gay, honestly.

Every single queer has been called queer from a moving car multiple times sweetie. I've been called every word from a moving car. That's the queer experience.

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pleaaaaaase y'all the process of having a manufacturing facility declared kosher has nothing to do with a rabbi blessing the food

pleaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaase stop

This touches on something I feel like most Christians (cultural and/or practicing) reaaaaallllly don’t get which is that rabbis traditionally aren’t clergy/priests in the Christian sense.

A rabbi isn’t a divinely-ordained speaker-for-God whose primary role is leading worship. Traditionally, rabbis are experts in Jewish law, practice, culture, history, etc.

A rabbi doesn’t have any sacred/spiritual/magical powers to bless things that any other Jew doesn’t have. (And that’s not how blessing things works in Judaism anyway. It’s an expression of gratitude, not a transmutation or instillation of magic divine power.)

The reason a rabbi is involved is to *make sure everything’s being done correctly.* Because they’re an *expert*.

Not to “bless” anything to fill it with godpowers or whatever.

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Yes yes this.

You call in a rabbi to supervise and make sure that a kosher food production facility is set up properly the same way that you call in a master electrician to check and make sure all the lines are set up correctly. The electrician isn't blessing your production line any more than the rabbi is - they're both there to make sure shit is being done right.

So what you’re saying. Is the rabbi is like kOSHA?

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This made me laugh so hard I wheezed.

Just because one of your chicken eggs hatched a fire breathing dragon people think you’re evil. But you’re still just a regular farmer trying to make a living while dealing with an overprotective dragon, heroes that want to kill you and fanatics who want to worship you as the new Demon Lord.

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The thing you need to know about all of this, the thing that got me into all this trouble in the first place, is that chickens will sit on anything when they get broody enough. Anything. Duck eggs, goose eggs, turkey eggs, lizard eggs, egg shaped rocks, anything. Chickens aren’t smart. If it looks vaguely like an egg, they’ll plant their feathery arses on it and wait.

I noticed that there was a bigger egg under one of the broody chickens, when I checked. Of course I noticed, it was twice the size of the others. But I have geese. I figured it was a goose egg she’d found and stolen. It was about the right size, and I didn’t take it out to check the colour because that particular chicken gets very protective of her eggs. I’ve already got a scar on one hand from trying to get eggs away from her. I didn’t want a matched set.

That was a decision I regretted the moment I went out to feed the chickens and found a little blue-and-silver dragonet’s head poking out from under a very confused-looking chicken. The poor thing kept shifting around and looking under herself in a bewildered way, like she didn’t know what to do next. This particular chicken is a good mother, and she’s raised clutches of ducks and geese without any trouble – she’s even resigned to some of her children swimming – but this was too much. She didn’t object when I carefully reached in and fished out the little dragon.

It was so tiny, then. It fitted in my hand, with its little head peeking out one side and its tail looping around my wrist. Cute, too, with its big eyes and little snout turned up towards me.

That was when I made my second mistake. I decided to feed it before releasing it. Dragons are innately wild creatures, everyone knows that. They can’t be tamed. People have tried. The eggs are abandoned as soon as they are laid, and the dragonets hatch able to hunt, so they don’t even bond with their mothers. So just feeding it a little shouldn’t have been a big deal. It should have gobbled the meat and fled as soon as I loosened my grip on it and it saw the open sky.

It didn’t. As soon as I’d fed it, it fluttered up to a sunny window ledge and went to sleep. I went about my work, figuring that it’d leave in its own time.

By noon, it was sitting on my boot, squeaking pathetically. I wondered if maybe it was confused by the farmyard – they usually hatch in mountains, if the stories are right – so I took it back to the farmhouse with me and fed it again when I ate, then took some time away from the fences I should have been mending to walk it up to the hills. I found it some nice rocks, with plenty of lizards and beetles and suitable prey for something that size. It pounced on a beetle almost as soon as I put it down, and when I left it was crunching happily.

I hadn’t walked a quarter of the way back before something hit the back of my boot. The little dragon was holding on with all four claws, and when I looked down it squeaked pathetically. If possible, its eyes got even rounder.

Listen, you don’t make it as a farmer if you just let orphaned baby animals die. We hand-raise calves and lambs and ponies, set chickens to sit on abandoned eggs, or put them under the kitchen stove or by a fireplace. You don’t make a success of farming if you don’t value every animal. A good shepherd will spend all night looking for one lost sheep. So despite what was said later, it wasn’t just sentiment that made me sigh and pick up the little thing and carry it back to the farm.  I am a good farmer. I don’t let orphaned babies die just because they’re a little work.

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I wasn’t expecting much. Maybe Vader’s baritone with hints of melody. I was *not* expecting it to be a masterpiece, what the fuck, this is a million times better than I was expecting and it’s unironically really good. Turn on that volume button.

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I love the people in the notes going 'uhm actually he was German' because it's made fairly clear by other points in the post that it's not referring to Marx (Marx didn't write about monopoly-capitalism forming into imperialism, and Marx wrote closer to 200 years ago than 100) to the point that, in as much of a Gotcha as it is, it implies they themselves've never read Marx, let alone Lenin.