im still here bicth

brought scolipede to a party with me because i need to bring him with me when i get anxious and i thought people might think it was weird but no they think hes cool as fuck

something ive learned is when you become an adult most of your peers dont give a shit about your more peculiar traits and sometimes they actually like these traits. like yeah i was bullied as a kid for bringing a plushie to school but in my 20s everyone thinks its fine in fact people love my epic scolipede

I bring a sort of "can't read social cues" vibe to every social situation that I can't tell if anyone likes or not

fun fact: in the twilight movies instead of burning up in sunlight the vampires actually jsut sparkle. to learn more look up twilight sparkle on google

Call me impact font the way I make that Bottom Text

they used to beat the shit out of me on clump penguin

how does tumblr even work do you just like talk to yourself until people are like "i like this one"

this is actually exactly how it works

instead of watching the fast and furious you should be meditating on why the earth is so vast and curious

I never understood why "Sucks dick" means "Thing nobody likes" should be the polar opposite "This meal is so good, it sucks dick!" You know? OH SHIT

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2003-2008 Lexus RX 330

when your white mom has to wait in a line for a reason

when i find someone hung af son

your daughter is right there…

so??? throatzilla can’t never be stopped

fuck having a normal lunch i just ate 3 pieces of tortilla with nothing else like hod intended

i don feel good

why is she wearing a dress if shes just gonna let her rodent vagina hang out of it

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i saw a girl on tiktok who put her salt lamp in the dishwasher and didn’t realize it would dissolve, and it’s been on my mind for like 3 days

thank god i screen shot it

the key to not having a terribly destabilizing moral freak out when you detect abusive traits and behaviors in yourself is to not put abusive people in the category of evil subhuman who can never be absolved or forgiven.

possible framing questions for examining your own abusive traits and behaviors:

what roles and dynamics and patterns accompany the times when I am abusive? what did I feel when I exhibited power over someone? what was I protecting or avoiding at the time? if I projected something onto someone, what did I need from the fiction I projected? what do I feel when I think about the level of vulnerability required for appropriate and timely repair work?how much support do I need before I can become capable and resilient enough for repair? how do I ensure that those I have harmed are supported by my adherence to whatever boundaries they set?

not “is this forgivable” or “am I forgivable” or “how can I get (x) to forgive me”

a lot of dismissive responses along the lines of “this is well intentioned but unfortunately I am a monster” and “this erases the existence of actual monsters” and I wanted to craft a second set of follow up questions: