Most straight white men consider women’s and minorities’ desire for recognition (for being seen and heard) as a clear signifier of our vanity and narcissism. But that’s only because that recognition, that right to be heard and seen, is immediately given to them, as straight white men, from the day they are born to the day they die and never in their lives have they had to raise their voices to let the world know they matter.

Dear nblw...

🌼It’s okay if you aren’t sapphic or wlw🌼

🌺You aren’t straight just because you like a different gender than you🌺

🌹If you identify as nblw and nothing else, you’re incredible and your identity deserves respect🌹

okay but aro + ace wlw are so fucking valid and are 100% a part of this community. i love yall so damn much.

Nblm don’t need to be masc aligned or unaligned to be valid!

Nblw don’t need to be fem aligned or unaligned to be valid!

Nblnb don’t need to be unaligned to be valid!

Nonbinary people are not any less valid based on our alignments or lack thereof. Don’t call an enby “basically straight” unless they say that they feel their attraction is that way!

All love and attraction by/involving a nonbinary person is inherently queer, unless said enby says it’s not!

Stop erasing masc nblw, fem nblm, & aligned nblnb!

i’m at the nonbinary. i’m at the lesbian. i’m at the combination nonbinary and lesbian.

nblw doesn't mean "fem aligned" or "practically women" nonbinary people who are attracted to women

It means any nonbinary person attracted to women, regardless of presentation and gender identity

nblm doesn't mean "masc aligned" or "just soft boys uwu" that are attracted to men

It means any nonbinary person attracted to men regardless of presentation or gender identity

It's nonbinary loves woman not "almost woman loves woman"

It's nonbinary loves man not "almost man loves man"

Dumbass gays be like: *yearning* *yearning* *yearning* *yearning* *yearning* *yearning* *yearning* *yearning* *yearning* *yearning* *yearning* *yearning* *yearning* *yearning* *yearning* *yearning* *yearning* *yearning* *yearning* *yearning* *yearning* *yearning* *year

no one:

me thinking about women with deep voices: ❤💞💗💖😍💖😍💖💗💞❤💖❤💖😍💞💗💞❤💞❤❤💞❤😍💞😍💞😍😍💞💗💖💗❤💖❤💖💗💞😍💞😍😍💖😍💗💞❤💞❤💞❤❤💖😍💖😍😍💖😍💖💗💞💗💞❤❤💖😍💖😍💖😍

❤ this post specifically includes trans women & non-binary women! ❤

"OmG rEmEmBeR wHeN YoOoOu LiKeD mEn?!?!?! OmG hOw CrAzY hAhAhAhA!"

Omg remember when coming out of the closet is a terrifying, haunting and potentionally extremely dangerous experience you will never have to go through and I stayed in there for as long as I fucking needed to? How crazy omg Hahahahhahahaokayfuckyouhahahha

newsflash: i will never reject you for your identity. it doesn’t matter if you’re bi, pan, aro/ace, demi, trans (including tucute trans ppl), or anything else. unless your identity revolves around spreading hate and shame to others for their existence (cough cough terfs, swerfs, etc.), i will not reject you for your identity.

remember to treat everyone with respect and acknowledge who they are. hate for each other is not needed in this community. rejection of each other is not needed in this community.

you are loved. you and your identity/ies are valid.

this applies to you even if your flag is not here.