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what do you think about trans autism and trans severity
support right to exist as most true self and self label (...) not include : radqueer and transid , people on purpose misuse disability words . these do end in boundary broken , people hurt , and speak over .
detest .
know very very well what is like for people not believe have problems , for desperate want and need words . and not think bad thing try look for those words ... see communities , learn strategies from people . not need be in community to still possible benefit ...
… but , still might not be part in community even if do benefit , OK ? things that help people with intellectual disability can help almost anyone , because means to be clear with what say , in words that not high complicate .
and . just because do not get what really need with less severe disability ... do not mean people would take serious for need more .
because can not communicate right , caregivers and doctors overlook important gwydion problems for years . ignore cavities in teeth , because did not listen or even try look when say see orange . for years , assume talk about stain . but actually teeth decay . just happy have miracle dentist .
and when get appendicitis ( not chronic thing , but fatal if ignore ) , ignore for so long that not safe have surgery , because did not listen what try communicate and treat like constipation . so still have appendix , and could get appendicitis again .
people would not treat better . people would gladly talk about how much is burden on money and time , even when sit right there . would not treat like anything more than decorative object , pure sweet angel need to baby constantly without ever ask what really want , or , wild animal that need shame and tame .
for people identify things like " trans severe " really do understand how much hurt that people not care , not give time and help . but ... just would not be better magic fix , if suddenly become severe disabled , sudden magic gain intellectual disability or level 3 autism or anything .
life would be worse . this is guarantee . not to say need be happy with get no help already , but , that need more help do not mean would actually get .
trans people who are anti t4t make me so sad. because beyond just not knowing what being t4t means, the fact that they believe that t4t is just being a chaser is indicative of a deeper issue, being that cis people have ingrained the idea that we are unfuckable and unloveable, disgusting by nature, and that anybody who would voice attraction to us, a step further, ONLY CHOOSE TO DATE TRANS PEOPLE, would be a pervert with a disgusting fetish who wont see them as equal.
thats not what t4t is.
t4t is the rejection of the idea that we are inherently disgusting, just because we are in the eyes of a cisnormative society.
t4t is the understanding that we are safer and stronger together as a community than apart.
t4t is seeing your trans boyfriend try on clothes from your old boy wardrobe that you hated growing up but now your least favorite shirt is your favorite because its the perfect shade of red that brings out his eyes.
t4t is teaching your trans girlfriend that has been scared to do her own makeup how youve learned from other trans women, who learned from other trans women, who learned from other trans women.
t4t is doing your testosterone shots together and kissing each others sticks after you put the bandaid on.
t4t is holding the door for your trans girlfriend and showing her the chivalry she didn't get from her dad growing up, but its ok because you can show her now.
t4t is being on the phone with your partner who just came out as trans/nonbinary after seeing you, YOU, live your truth, and them asking you to help them find a new name, the perfect name for them, and you hope theyll carry that part of you forever.
you are trans and that is beautiful. your transness is beautiful. trans love is beautiful. dont let ANYBODY make you feel unworthy of sex or love. THATS what being t4t means.
transphobic music fans be listening to he or she might be giants
There was a cute girl wearing denim on denim next to me in the art museum elevator and as soon as the door opened she made a beeline for a giant abstract painting of a woman with her titties out.
how i send the message to lesbians in my area
DAVID ATTENBOROUGH: and so, after many days of arduous travel, we reach at last the heart of the forest. this untamed wilderness threatens to swallow the unwary. and there, among the trees and vines, with careful planning and just a bit of luck, we can spot the fabled white maoist. no, i don't know what the fuck it is either. my mutuals on tumblr are always talking about it though. look at its distinctive coat pattern. i'm sure it has some compelling political insights to share. if we just approach it carefully [SNAP! SIR ATTENBOROUGH STEPS ON A TWIG. STARTLED, THE ELUSIVE WHITE MAOIST TAKES OFF THROUGH THE UNDERBRUSH.] son of a goddamn bitch! we're not gonna catch it. leave it, leave it. we're going home. turn off the camera, who cares. i fucking hate this job. my theory reading group is gonna be furious. i said i would bring back its pelt! this new 6'3'' trans girl just joined and i really wanted to impress her... i wish i'd listened to my father, david attenborough the elder. in my boyhood, he would take me fox hunting, because we're british, and he would always say to me: "try to keep your text posts short and punchy". they're gonna uninvite me from swingers night!
baristas deserve 100 dollars per hour
there's a whole culture of mostly white women whose entire personality is "Don't talk to me before I've had my coffee or ill kill you" and a barista's job is to deal with those people before they've had their coffee
….But he is right…. That’s a cuttlefish….
it’s not a cuttlefish
imagine continuing to mansplain squid to a squid scientist after being called out for mainsplaining squid to a squid scientist
I have a hard time asking for help especially for things for myself, but this is help for my little Frigg.
I’ve been working with my vet for over a week to try and get her turned around but she’s not improving. I’ve researched and have reached out to multiple knowledgeable cat friends who have been incredibly supportive and an invaluable source of help. Thank you all, I hope one day I can repay your kindness.
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After a week of vet visits, bloodwork, subcutaneous fluids, medications, lots of vomiting, syringe feeding, further elevated white cell counts, her normally 6lb little body has diminished to 4lbs.
Yesterday’s vet visit warranted X-rays and the findings were not favorable for her little GI tract, possibility of an obstruction and a high risk of necrotized bowel.
She doesn’t have much body weight left to to sacrifice and the decision was made for immediate emergency surgery. Which begins at 2pm 8/11/2023
I’m fortunate to have a vet that has a special heart for sphynx and other hairless breeds and the estimate of costs for the procedure is not over the top expensive. I also have a wonderful relationship with the vets at this clinic and they are willing to give me a week from today to pay the bill. This has however hit me at a time where I need some help, especially after a week filled with vet visits and medications… this hurts. I’m embarrassed to be in a position to have to ask, but it is lifesaving for little Frigg.
If you feel it in your heart to help me with this, I would be eternally grateful. Any donation would be a tremendous help.
My PayPal is linked down below, for anyone who’s going to send their love and support please consider sending it through friends and family as we would like to avoid fees as much as possible. 🙏
🦋💗ANY size, no matter how small, Donation is a tremendous help! 💗🦋
Please join me in praying the surgery will be successful and we can begin the road to recovery and healing. 🙏
It breaks my heart to see how underrated pigeons are. The fact that we had literally domesticated them, making them absolutely dependent on us and now that we've abandoned them, we treat them poorly when they try to coexist with us. It's our responsibility for how they have adapted, how they can't build nests and how they try to find food wherever we are. Please be nice to pigeons
Feel uncomfortable going to Cheesecake Factory when it’s so under the watch of the eye of Sauron
I made this post in 2016 and it got 3 notes, suddenly people are interacting with it. What is happening how did you even find it
That’s tumblr babey
tumblr users be like
[Video description: an animation in which a white dog with a heart shaped spot around its eye sniffs and then licks a very round white bunny. The bunny is shocked and wipes its nose. Sparkles come out as the bunny does so. End description.]
I decided to be kind and add an answer between once or twice and annually.
Bonus question, how many of you as kids started to figure out the wealthy kids based on all your classmates who went to Disney every year and you never went once? I think I figured it out by 8.
