ASCENDANT signs indicate SOCIAL compatibility (the impression you give others/ the “face” you put on when confronting the world)
SUN signs indicate TEMPERAMENT compatibility (how your personality interacts with others under stimuli/changing environments).
MOON signs indicate EMOTIONAL compatibility (how you relate/ connect/ empathize. This is internal and may not be necessarily obvious).
MERCURY signs indicate INTELLECTUAL compatibility (how you communicate and share thoughts).
VENUS signs indicate ROMANTIC compatibility (how you love/ receive love. What you idealize and fantasize for in relationships).
MARS signs indicate PHYSICAL compatibility (the personality of your aggression. how you interact physically or sexually).
JUPITER signs indicate IDEOLOGICAL compatibility (how you react to each other’s beliefs, values and opinions).
SATURN signs indicate LONG-TERM compatibility (how your relationship may develop and be sustained over time).
One of my new favourite quotes of one of my friends is this:
“Unintentional abuse is still abuse. And unintentional manipulation is still manipulation. Even if you mean no harm, the harm is still done, you know.“
She posted this under a video of someone with BPD saying “Oh, it may seem like abuse, but it’s unintentional.”
“Who can remember pain once it’s over? All that remains of it is a shadow, not in the mind even, in the flesh. Pain marks you, but too deep to see.”
— Margaret Atwood, The Handmaid’s Tale
Palo Alto (2013) - dir. by Gia Coppola

