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Varda (הֶא/heh or She/They if you prefer), platonically married, ✡️ tsniut in dress not in deeds😘, intersex queer aroallo. https://www.paypal.me/vardacassar. Androgynos/אנדרוגינוס, a millennial (I'm over 25). mixed (north african/desi/european) disabled wheelchair user, neurodivergent, autism, PTSD. If you're an adult and we're mutuals feel free to message me. If you're that oxford-comma person, you know who you are, don't come near me... I have blocked you so many times.

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Varda's Surgery Fundraiser Post

Edit here: I've recently been fortunate enough to be approved for finance to cover most of my forecast medical expenses, however I will be living very lean to service the loan and interest rates have been volatile so donations to help me get ahead.: End edit.

Hi, I'm Varda (Heh/הֶא, she/they) and I'm fundraising for life-changing surgeries. The TLDR is that I'm intersex and when I was born there were decisions made about me and for me that have been traumatic for my mental health and my body.

I'm trying to raise money to see Dr Hans Goosen (pronounced Gorsen/gauss-en, yes I embarrassed myself), who is the preeminent urological surgeon in Australia who has the specific expertise and experience needed to fix the damage done. Unfortunately he is interstate so the costs include travel and accommodation. All up I am expecting to need $30,000 Australian dollars. As of 24 May 2023 I have raised $681.96 including my own contributions.

I cannot raise this money without the kindness and help of strangers, I live on a Disability Pension which is barely enough to survive on, very little of this will be covered on Medicare as there are no corresponding MBS numbers, and Private health insurers also only pay for procedures that have MBS numbers. The people that tabled the Medicare Benefits Schedule didn't really have intersex people in mind.

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CW: discussion of medical abuse, child abuse, genitalia, sexual function as an adult

Frank explanation of medical history and what needs fixing. I had my gonads removed before I turned one year old. As a child I had a surgery that was supposed to deepen my vagina resulting in scarring and my not having the ability to receive any penetration as an adult. They also tried to relocate the urethral meatus which was abandoned mid procedure and has required multiple revisions as scar tissue interfered with urination.

All of this means that I am prone to injury during manipulation of my genitals because of the scar tissue, this is an extremely upsetting barrier to sexual intimacy. I would like to fix this and be free to enjoy my body.

Please reblog, and if you are able to help please consider donating. I'd really appreciate it.

Love you,

Varda💖

Anonymous asked:

Boy do I hate whenever people just automatically shut me down anytime I talk about birds being dinosaurs. It’s like yeah I know what the fuck I’m talking about. Do you? No, you don’t even care that much about paleontology or zoology. (This is directed at some of my classmates, who are otherwise great people, but they just didn’t even let me speak about birds being actual literal dinosaurs. I just need to get my frustrations out with someone who would understand. I hope you have a nice day.)

I feel this very muchly. like.... this really doesn't have to be such a big deal. everyone fighting against it is a fool.

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Ok ok ok, one time a casual mention of the fact that humans are animals literally ended a friendship.

I have no recollection of the context I used it except that I know it was in the literal "Kingdom: Animalia" sense, she got indignant "I'm not an animal" and apparently joking "well you're not a mushroom or a bush, so we're running out of plausible options" was the wrong thing to say.

She never spoke to me again, I tried reaching out, and to this day it is one of the most confusing interactions I've had with another person.

It's so unfortunate for the strippers that they have such obnoxious neighbours

The "NO CAMPING PERMITTED" chef's kiss... Really hammers home the Salvation Army ethic.

As Jesus once said "get rained on bitch"

Instead of posting your criticisms of homophobia in judaism that are almost always misinformed and antisemitic, if you really want to combat homophobia in Jewish communities, here are some links to Jewish Queer groups that are doing exactly that. By supporting them and listening to them you will be combatting homophobia without risking being antisemitic and also not speaking over Jews

I got all of these from a very quick google search, and there's so many I didn't include. There's literally a wikipedia page for this, although it's not a very complete one.

Like, learn some more about queer jewish communities and what we're doing to combat homophobia and advocate for LGBT+ rights and how we're doing all this before making your little criticisms. better yet, instead of making those criticisms, support these organizations and share their resources, you'll be helping so much more than when you make rants on tumblr that inevitably end up being antisemitic in ways you don't even understand.

so um….looks like Bradley Cooper (goy) has been cast to play Leonard Bernstein, a Jewish man, in his upcoming film Maestro (a biopic about a real Jewish composer). rather than hiring a Jewish actor to tell a story about a Jewish man, they cast a goy…who will be wearing a prosthetic nose.

and if that weren’t enough - they cast Carrie Mulligan, an Irish woman, to play Leonard’s wife…who was a Latina. and Maya Hawke, a white woman who is neither Latina nor Jewish, has been cast to play their daughter.

AND don’t forget that Bradley Cooper grabbed the rights to Bernstein’s music before Jake Gyllenhaal, A JEWISH MAN WHO WAS GOING TO MAKE A BIOPIC ABOUT BERNSTEIN, was able to. we could have had a respectful biopic about a Jewish man, told by Jews. instead we get this.

i…don’t have words to explain how insidious this is. the absolute goydacity to keep a Jewish man from telling this story, whitewash the other people in a true story, and to cast a goy instead of a Jewish person to tell a true story about a Jewish man, and have that goy wear a prosthetic nose. they would rather Jew-ify a goy than cast an actual Jew. i’m disgusted.

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Jake’s movie would have cast an actual Jewish man and Latina woman.

so um….looks like Bradley Cooper (goy) has been cast to play Leonard Bernstein, a Jewish man, in his upcoming film Maestro (a biopic about a real Jewish composer). rather than hiring a Jewish actor to tell a story about a Jewish man, they cast a goy…who will be wearing a prosthetic nose.

and if that weren’t enough - they cast Carrie Mulligan, an Irish woman, to play Leonard’s wife…who was a Latina. and Maya Hawke, a white woman who is neither Latina nor Jewish, has been cast to play their daughter.

AND don’t forget that Bradley Cooper grabbed the rights to Bernstein’s music before Jake Gyllenhaal, A JEWISH MAN WHO WAS GOING TO MAKE A BIOPIC ABOUT BERNSTEIN, was able to. we could have had a respectful biopic about a Jewish man, told by Jews. instead we get this.

i…don’t have words to explain how insidious this is. the absolute goydacity to keep a Jewish man from telling this story, whitewash the other people in a true story, and to cast a goy instead of a Jewish person to tell a true story about a Jewish man, and have that goy wear a prosthetic nose. they would rather Jew-ify a goy than cast an actual Jew. i’m disgusted.

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The bomb was unequivocally genocidal and racist but so was the opposing side of the war and it feels disingenuous if not blatantly antisemitic to post callouts about Oppenheimer without acknowledging that he was Jewish

this is the weirdest fucking ask I have ever received and I am posting it exclusively because I NEED to roast this person's whole thought process. I need to.

"The bomb was unequivocally genocidal and racist-" yes, dropping a bomb on multiple Japanese cities is indeed genocidal and racist.

"-but so was the opposing side of the war" yes, hitler was genocidal and racist. However, you are now engaging in a debate about whether bombing Hiroshima and Nagasaki was "deserved"; whether all of those civilians deserved to die in the name of *checks notes* a more complete surrender by the Japanese government than the one already being negotiated.

And, of course, in service of flexing on Russia.

"it feels disingenuous if not blatantly antisemitic to post callouts about Oppenheimer" this is the post anon is referring to. if you click that link and read the post, you'll notice that it is not, in fact, a callout post of Oppenheimer. It's a post about how much it sucks that the movie, "Oppenheimer", does not include or mention at any point the people (particularly indigenous people) injured or otherwise affected by the bomb's testing.

"-without acknowledging that he was Jewish." Sorry. is your argument that it's antisemitic not to mention that Oppenheimer is Jewish when discussing the ethics of doing genocide against Japanese people?

Like this whole argument is that it is actually antisemitic if you don't bring up that Oppenheimer was Jewish any time the bombing of Japan is mentioned, because- and I'm working on inferred meaning now- it's actually okay to do genocide on Japanese civilians, so long as their government is in a political alliance with nazis, and the person "doing" the genocide is Jewish.

And you are arguing this in defense not only of a guy who is in no way being attacked here in the first place, but who also did not actually do a genocide personally so much as, like, work on nuclear technology for the US military (and there are some moral nuances there as well, don't get me wrong, but... woof.)

With the added assumption that Oppenheimer worked on the bomb because Japan was allied with Germany and that he, personally, actively, wanted to genocide Japanese civilians. A thing that, to my knowledge, he has never actually stated- and in fact, it seems that a significant part of the plot of Oppenheimer is that he regretted and attempted to rein in the atomic bomb.

Hey.

Buddy.

I think it's time to learn more about social justice and world history than the little "it's okay to be mad at your oppressors" platitudes that were circulated on Tumblr back in 2014.

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A bird explaining to a hedgehog crossing so it doesn’t die.

!!! ok but that’s legitimately what it’s doing!! That’s a corvid right there (looks like a hooded crow, to be precise), which means it’s intelligent enough to recognize, a) cars are dangerous and streets should be treated with a certain degree of caution, b) this car’s slowing down for them–cars do that sometimes–which means they’re not in imminent danger, so it doesn’t have to fly away just yet, c) that hedgehog’s still gonna get killed if it doesn’t MOVE, FAST (cars can change speed very quickly and the hedgehog’s still in the way), and almost certainly also d) if the bird does nothing it gets a free lunch.

Y’all, Y’ALL. This bird is consciously deciding to put itself in danger in order to save the life of a very stupid creature. A creature which, if the bird did nothing, could be free food

i can’t - look if you follow me you know I have a thing for corvids, but this is - like!!! People are always saying “ah yes they have sub-human intelligence and don’t consider anything that isn’t immediately necessary for their own survival/pleasure,” but! Whether or not it can do philosophy, this crow is clearly demonstrating compassion. Even if it’s just the kind of compassion a toddler shows to a snail, a social creature that instinctively recognizes the potential for emotion in other beings, that’s still huge and cool and important and corvids!!! are! neat!!! 

They’re incredibly smart! And kind!!!

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This blog is unapologetically pro sex-workers

No matter whether they stroll or strip, do camwork or full service

Their voices are the ones I listen to on the subject

Anyone who has a problem with that, please find the unfollow button

was talking to my gf about my fear of dying young for being trans and my mom putting my deadname on my gravestone, and she said "i hope that never happens, but if it does, i will carve your name into your grave myself if i have to." and i think theres something extremely raw about that sentiment and trans community in general. you can kill only our bodies, but you cant kill transsexuality

APPOINT SOMEONE ELSE AS YOUR NEXT OF KIN

If you are over 18 and do not want your parents to have control over your body after you die or if you go into a coma or something, take that power away from them. They are your automatic next of kin unless you get married which is why they have control over those things. But getting married isn’t the only way to change that, an advanced directive can do the same. This video has more information