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Multi-fandom, no idea what I’m doing here. Too old for this apparently.
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i hope oceangate gets sued to hell for violating basic safety principles in pursuit of profit, i hope a teenager doesn’t die a horrible death, and i hope the world pays much more attention to the fact that 500 migrants died that same horrible death last week in a completely preventable sinking that was engineered by bureaucratic racism and cruelty. where were their millions of dollars and manpower hours in rescue efforts?

Yup, and sadly, we now know that everyone onboard the vessel is dead, and the only small mercy is that they likely died instantaneously.  Meanwhile, the Oceangate is talking about what true explorerers they were and what a loss it is to the explorer community.  No, you guys are not explorers, you are fools with too much money playing Indiana Jones.  I take no joy in their deaths and I feel for their families, but they, with the exception of the teenager, were victims of their own hubris and brought it on themselves.

Finally, I cannot be credited with this observation, but they were going on some touristy trip to the mass grave of a bunch of poor people who had no lifeboats.  Billions of dollars have been spent trying to recover them, while refugees were shipwrecked off the coast of Greece, with scarcely an iota of all those resources going to help them. 

This may be a common knowledge to others...

but it was a bit of a revelation for me.

I’ve always felt ambivalent about phrases like “love your body” and “body positivity” (and I would hear a lot about ‘loving your body; in yoga).  It’s always been like, “well, that’s a very nice sentiment, but it’s not that simple”.  You want me to love my chronically tight hamstrings or my jiggly thighs?  Ok.  Plus, many people have a variety of health conditions that make even body neutrality difficult on a given day.   

I was also raised to be a cerebral person, our bodies could very easily be indecent, your mind was more important.

 Then, when I was going down an internet rabbit hole reading about the immune system and being sort of in awed about what our bodies can do to protect themselves, a thought occurred to me.  I think real “body positivity” or whatever you want to call it is not about loving the way your body looks or every aspect of it, but about appreciating what your body can DO (whatever it can do, and not in comparison to anyone else).  Appreciating what my body can do, in ways that have nothing do to with how it looks, made the concept a lot more palatable to me.  My body fights disease, it can sing, it can dance, and my mind is not separate from it, the brain can’t exist without the rest of it.  That shit’s pretty wild 

My unsolicited opinion on Queen Charlotte...

 a Bridgerton Story.  

    The main love story was overall entertaining, and quite poignant at times.  Some of the subplots??  Um, not so much.  I’m not equipped to tackle the “Great Experiment” stuff.   All the discussions of paper birthday hats Lady Danbury and Violet Bridgerton’s “gardens being in bloom” were really too much for me. Floral imagery was very much a poetic euphemism of the time for female sexuality, so I will give the writers that.  

In short, it’s an entertaining watch if you don’t take it that seriously.  The cast is very good, and young Lady Danbury was gorgeous. 

If you were a young person who loved socializing, living in Sir John Middleton's neighborhood must have been the dream.

"[Sir John] delighted in collecting about him more young people than his house would hold, and the noisier they were the better was he pleased. He was a blessing to all the juvenile part of the neighbourhood, for in summer he was for ever forming parties to eat cold ham and chicken out of doors, and in winter his private balls were numerous enough for any young lady who was not suffering under the unsatiable appetite of fifteen."

His wife cares about doing fine elegant gatherings the right way but he's just like THE MORE THE MERRIER! CRAM EM ALL IN! STAY THE MONTH! WE HAVE TO HAVE ANOTHER PARTY!!!

Considering how much it must have cost and the importance of social networking for future marriages and future financial stability, his generosity is really a blessing to his community. He's not even doing it out of selfless sacrifice. HE JUST LOVES HAVING PEOPLE OVER!

I also love the note from Austen/the narrator: every young lady was satisfied by the tons of balls he held, except for fifteen-year-olds whose desire for dancing is black hole.

I will finish season 2 of Shadow and Bone for completion’s sake, but I’ve watched all but episode 8 and am thinking “WTF is this?” Did they really leave Matthais in prison for all of this season and send the other Crows characters on this new, not in the book hunt? I feel like they just gave up on this show in the middle of production.

Season 1 was not very good, season 2 is bad.

Please don’t @ me. I’m talking specifically about the show, not the books, and if you’ve enjoyed this season for some reason, good.

Because I’m one of the two people still watching Call the Midwife apparently

Much as I’ve enjoyed this show, and still continue to enjoy it,  I really hope they wrap it up soon.  The cast changes are out of control, because the show has just gone on too long.  I really don’t like the way Lucille’s storyline was handled.   Barely a year after she’s married (if that) she miscarries, experiences more horrible racism, and has an actual nervous breakdown.  Her visit home to Jamaica turns into her just staying there, leaving her husband and the show?  I support the actress moving on if she wants to, I support the character taking care of her mental health, it’s a problem with the writing and these sudden cast departures.  Already we have people like Sister Winifred gone with barely an explanation, and I still miss Nurse Dwyer, Cynthia, and Chummy.  Now Nancy is thinking of leaving and I’m just like “NO!!!”.

I also feel like the show’s been on so long they’re running out of ideas and there’s a lot of needless drama, including in this last episode.   The freaking out about the tiara seemed really unnecessary and not completely in character for Trixie or Matthew, but it was nice to have all of Trixie’s colleagues come to the rescue with the hat, ribbon, etc.   Mainly, I really didn’t think the car accidental and maternal death scene was at all necessary.  It was just gruesome and because they felt like they had to give the Turners something else to do, which they didn’t, it was Trixie’s episode, and maybe not have the patients’ facing tragedy be an interracial couple?

 Have to say I loved Trixie’s brother, and her wedding was overall moving.  Trixie has been my favorite character, style icon, and I’d riot if she was written off.   I kind of wish she could have had a posh reception *and* a Poplar reception, but all the citizens of Poplar, whom Trixie has served for years, rallying at the last minute to throw a wedding reception together for her had me verklempt.

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For the longest time my parents were all “You are named after the last Tszarina of Russia!! She is a saint in the Orthodox Church! We are going to get oddly defensive every time you point out that the Russian monarchy created the circumstances that led to the communist revolution” and then recently my dad was like “well, we’d run out of family Slavic names by the time we got to you.”

Ok, Dad, thanks…..

I can listen no longer in silence. I must speak to you by such means as are within my reach. You pierce my soul. I am half agony, half hope. Tell me not that I am too late, that such precious feelings are gone for ever. I offer myself to you again with a heart even more your own than when you almost broke it, eight years and a half ago. Dare not say that man forgets sooner than woman, that his love has an earlier death. I have loved none but you. Unjust I may have been, weak and resentful I have been, but never inconstant. You alone have brought me to Bath. For you alone, I think and plan. Have you not seen this? Can you fail to have understood my wishes? I had not waited even these ten days, could I have read your feelings, as I think you must have penetrated mine. I can hardly write. I am every instant hearing something which overpowers me. You sink your voice, but I can distinguish the tones of that voice when they would be lost on others. Too good, too excellent creature! You do us justice, indeed. You do believe that there is true attachment and constancy among men. Believe it to be most fervent, most undeviating, in F. W.

I must go, uncertain of my fate; but I shall return hither, or follow your party, as soon as possible. A word, a look, will be enough to decide whether I enter your father’s house this evening or never.

Captain Wentworth’s love letter to Anne Elliot

You know, in my checklist of Jane Austen tropes in the last season, Persuasion didn’t occur to me, but yeah, there’s a bit of that there too, with the heartbreaks and Charlotte being convinced she missed her window.