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I'll be your Romeo but I'm Juliette.

@fuvkjulie

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Try to find someone with a sense of humor. That’s an important thing to have because when you get into an argument, one of the best ways to diffuse it is to be funny. You don’t want to hide away from a point, because some points are serious, but you’d rather have a discussion that was a discussion, rather than an argument.

After you get cheated on

It literally fucks you up. You think about every single thing someone says to you twice, shit maybe even three times trying to figure out if they were just lying to you too or if they really mean what they say. You have this constant fucking anxiety they are hiding something or that they’re going to just randomly leave and you over think when they short text you or take a while to reply. So please if you’re dating someone that’s been cheated on understand it’s not you it’s the piece of shit that came before you and we’re sorry you have to clean up their mess but we really are trying to trust again so prove to us that we can.

Sometimes you’re 23 and standing in the kitchen of your house making breakfast and brewing coffee and listening to music that for some reason is really getting to your heart. You’re just standing there thinking about going to work and picking up your dry cleaning. And also more exciting things like books you’re reading and trips you plan on taking and relationships that are springing into existence. Or fading from your memory, which is far less exciting. And suddenly you just don’t feel at home in your skin or in your house and you just want home but ‘Mom’s’ probably wouldn’t feel like home anymore either. There used to be the comfort of a number in your phone and ears that listened everyday and arms that were never for anyone else. But just to calm you down when you started feeling trapped in a five-minute period where nostalgia is too much and thoughts of this person you are feel foreign. When you realize that you’ll never be this young again but this is the first time you’ve ever been this old. When you can’t remember how you got from sixteen to here and all the same feel like sixteen is just as much of a stranger to you now. The song is over. The coffee’s done. You’re going to breathe in and out. You’re going to be fine in about five minutes.
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