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@funkyfreshfailure

hii im ro (any/all) I AM A MINOR this is for fandom stuff mostly

no tv show will ever be able to resolve a m/m/f love triangle as perfectly and as weirdly as Hannibal, in which the woman kisses one of the guys, sleeps with the other one, then decides "actually, never mind, you're both awful!" and marries a rich lesbian instead - and, while this is all going on, the guys develop a weird homoerotic obsession with each other culminating in them going off a cliff together. truly unhinged and unmatched

Learning to delete/mute/block before a negative comment takes root in your mind is a modern survival skill. If you're going to wander the overgrown countryside of the internet, you need to develop a quick eye for ticks.

It's deeply tempting to respond to the "well, actually," to the cruel assumption, to the unjust accusation, to the odious viewpoint. It's tempting because you're defaulting to the etiquette of dinner conversation. This isn't a dinner conversation. Someone is shouting at you from a moving car. Turn away.

This is an extremely good and helpful sentiment, and one I’ve subscribed to for a long time. Delete the message quickly and permanently. Last time I got a nasty anon ask I skimmed it, realized what it was, and deleted it. Did one or two phrases sit with me for a while? Sure, maybe 20, 30 minutes. I really wanted to respond. But if I had, that cannonball would still be hanging around my neck and present on my blog, and as it is I don’t remember what it was about or even those two phrases that I thought I would. 

I also am of the opinion that it INFURIATES the commenter/sender not to get a response, because why would they be a dickhead if they didn’t want a response, so the longer time passes without one, the healthier I am and the angrier and more anxious they are. It’s good for your mental health AND the healthiest form of vengeance! 

Bugs Bunny vs. Jessie & James (Round 4)

And before you vote, let's learn about our competitors!

Bugs Bunny

  • queer icon back in the 70’s
  • if you haven’t seen Bugs as a woman, it’s really not hard to find, my goodness this rabbit dresses up so much
  • confirmed as outside of the gender binary by creator Chuck Jones
  • apparently inspired by Norse trickster deities, I’m sure you know the ones ;)
  • come on just look at him though

Jessie & James

  • the og 90's gender norm crushing duo
  • I literally cannot count how many times in their disguises James has worn the dress/more feminine outfit, while Jessie’s worn the suit/more masculine outfit
  • their gender is just whatever fits the other best
  • come on just look at them though

So I was watching this YouTuber's review of Space Jam: A New Legacy and decided to scroll down the comment section to see what people were saying and I come across this one comment that had me cackling for a minute straight just because of how true it felt to me.

"A New Legacy is the Looney Tunes Fandom's collective punishment for not watching Looney Tunes: Back in Action when it first came out"