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Dear Society

I can’t help but observe 

the sharp words 

“Don’t be a little bitch, you’re such a little girl,” 

to a guy 

who is crying 

when he is 10 

and has skinned his knee, 

and it is ingrained 

in his brain 

that for a male to cry 

isn’t sane.

“You’re such a tomboy.” 

to a girl 

who doesn’t curl her hair 

when she is 13 

and doesn’t smile invitingly 

and she’s not ladylike 

and has no “soft feminine charm” 

and is told she’s unappealing 

for not wearing things that are revealing. 

A man 

should take charge, 

be intimidating and large, 

and to have vulnerabilities 

is considered a disability,

and this 

is the definition

of society’s “masculinity”.  

A woman 

should be dainty, 

and live her life 

as if she’s sitting still for a painting

a pretty picture of society’s “femininity.” 

She can’t play sports, 

girls are bad at that, 

go easy on her, 

she’ll be a ditz, 

and probably fall on her ass. 

Guys can’t like ballet, 

man that’s fucking gay, 

letting your son wear pink because he likes it,

and it’s a girl color,

is considered a bold display. 

Walking in heels should be a natural talent for our young females, 

it’s okay if he’s being gross, he’s just being a typical guy.  

A woman doesn’t smile and is rude, 

she puts on a dress, 

slaps lipstick on,

tears that outfit off

and wears a shorter dress, 

because she’s been called a prude.

A hand slips up her dress, 

the suspect doesn’t get arrested, 

because people are questioning her attire. 

A man gets backed up against a wall, 

a woman’s hand slowly crawls, 

when he tells, 

people laugh

“Guys can’t get raped.”

and

“What a liar.” 

I have a question, society, 

when will these ideas expire?