Anonymous asked:

a word of advice to any worried aces or aros:

One experience or one exception (or really even a couple) to your usual lack of attraction does not automatically cancel out your identity. You're allowed to continue to identify the way you have and have that one case that's different. The only time you "need" to reconsider your label is when it no longer comforts you. Attraction is a weird and nebulous thing, and it could randomly decide it wants to bug you when it never has before. You're not a bad ace/aro for continuing to identify with it if you experience some attraction. You are not using the rest of us. You are with us, just as you had been.

Submitted May 26, 2023

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Jun Mochizuki really said asexual exists.

"Of course, conversely, there are some individuals who don't like the taste of blood, even though they are vampires."

In Vanitas no carte the act of drinking blood is heavily linked to the act of sex, hence all of the moaning and the allusion. The first time I read this I giggle for like 10 minuts from happiness!

Demisexuality: Type of sexuality where a person experiences sexual attraction only after establishing a strong bond with someone. This strong bond can consist of either a romantic relationship or a strong friendship.

It is one of the many shades of asexuality. It lies in the middle between asexuality and allosexuality. It should not be confused with chastity or sexual abstinence, and therefore IT'S NOT A CHOICE.

A demisexual person can be gay, lesbian, straight, bi, etc. but many people struggle to understand this.

Months ago I was defined by a TERF as a "spicy straight woman who wants to pretend to be discriminated against" when she herself was discriminating against me and it is a fact that people on the asexual spectrum are discriminated against both inside and out the LGBTQIA+ community itself.

We exist, and we will not stand down.

asexuals gather for I have a question

does anyone know what I mean when I say some people make me nonsexually awooga? like you're hot but not in a "I wanna fuck you" way. please tell me someone gets it

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Already 3.3 million hectares of land in Canada has been burning because of the extreme heat and dryness and it’s not even halfway through wildfires season. They’re actually predicting this will be the most destructive wildfire season in Canadian history. But most of what I’ve seen posted about these fires has to do with air quality. So I’ve decided to try and compile a list of resources to donate to help Canadians being affected at this time.

Alberta

Atlantic Canada

  • The Red Cross which if you donate to both the Canadian and the Nova Scotia government will match each dollar of your donation.

British Columbia

  • United Way BC supporting communities by giving them things such as food, mental health support, and shelter.
  • Food banks BC helping to feed those affected.

Canada as a whole

  • Unite for Change not directly donating to the fires but is working to make changes at a provincial and federal level to help fix the climate crisis which is directly making the fires worse.

Please tell me if you know of any other places taking donations to help either put out the fires or help the people affected. If any of these donation links are also donating to discriminatory policies or such like anti-trans legislation's please inform me so I can remove the link!

Quebec and Ontario links are especially wanted as I couldn't find anything for there and neither could my friend.

Anonymous asked:

I’m also joining the ‘I’m ace and support you’ train! Anon shoving all ace people into a tiny box of their opinion and saying “THIS is the only thing they can be!!!” Is so gross and that anon needs to realise that it’s harmful! Also they are obsessed and should probably recognise it’s not healthy to obsess so hard over smth they claim to hate lmao.

Anyway Jon has 2 hands one for holding an ace flag and the other to hold martins boob he can do both it’s fine.

he can also hold the flag in his mouth while groping both tits. He contains multitudes

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Gender Euphoria 🏳️‍⚧️✌️

Pumped to share this set with yall, this dress has been in the works for a long time and @parkin.beth truly NAILED it. Also super excited to share that this whole shoot with @vsanchorstudio has been picked up for publication by @pumpmagazine for their Pride Edition this month. 🏳️‍⚧️

As many of you may know the trans community is under attack from many avenues and by many means at the moment, and for noone is that more true than for trans kids - so if you're reading this caption, please consider donating to @mermaidsgender at this IG link 🏳️‍⚧️

What follows is the shoot description from the upcoming publication; 🏳️‍⚧️

"This shoot looked at celebrating the expression of gender while still trying to convey the bittersweetness of what it means to be trans in the current climate. The dress is one-of-a-kind and made in the colours of the trans pride flag, covering the model head to toe to in form-fitting latex to symbolise the all encompasing nature of being trans and the role of embracing and living with that identifier as both protection and statement" 🏳️‍⚧️

📷/editing: @vsanchorstudio

MUA: @makeup_with_emmac

Outfit: @parkin.beth

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Reminder if you'd like to contribute to the charity fundraiser please check out this link:

BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOST

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Just some of the flags for sale here at Pride... in case you feel too obscure to express it here, it's worth doing! You might be surprised!

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Also these were being sold by a greymuzzle bear (and what seemed to be his partner) who were also selling leather gear, so great reminder that bears are here for everyone and deserve your respect.