— Kamla Bolanos (via thoughtkick)

my dumbass decides to give people chances after chances, benefit of the doubt, just because “it’ll be different this time” but every fucking time I’m stuck picking up pieces of my broken heart and shattered self esteem because I’m the piece of shit who wants to see the best in people but never once have I been treated the way I fucking deserve

Giving your parents participation trophies for every mental illnesses you have

every night I think of you

You’re really really great (via quotesandotherrandomstuff)

I’ve seen this a couple times on Facebook and no no no no. This is borderline abusive. Maybe a father would send this, but a boyfriend???

“It’s hard because I’ve always been a tremendously good person” What are you implying about your girlfriend there, pal?

“When I text you, you are to answer” Okay mom. Seriously. She’s your girlfriend, let her have fun instead of having to check her phone constantly.

Don’t patronize your partner and act like they’re your child. Going to a party doesn’t mean they value parties over you. And if you have to remind your girlfriend not to cheat multiple times maybe you should reevaluate your trust issues. Don’t give your girlfriend a fucking curfew. If you can’t trust her to be reasonable at a party to the point that you send her a fucking book of rules, then maybe you shouldn’t be together.

Seriously. Significant others aren’t your possessions/children.

The sad part is that shit like this really happens there are men out there that think this is normal. And if you don’t stop it early on it just gets worse, talking from experience..really messes you up when you still get haunted by this behavior years later

^^ Possessiveness =\= cute and usually doesn’t end innocently

this is so gross

be careful, stay safe, don’t drink too much, text me when you get home etc is one thing but this… this is just fucked up

^If you see behavior like this in a boy run away as fast as you can

Implying moral superiority, using how much he supposedly cares about the girl to justify being controlling, checking in on her and bossing her around, and making her feel bad for going to a party with other people which can be the first step in isolating someone from their friends and family.

These are all huge red flags. Do not ignore them. Do not justify them. Leave him.

“The sad part is that shit like this really happens there are men out there that think this is normal.”

No, no, the saddest part is that there are women and particularly young girls that think this is normal AND CUTE.

Listen, sisters, if some dude has the audacity to tell you that HE allows you to do anything,  

Originally posted by ambiancescandale

Originally posted by lesfillespensent

If he has to repeatedly say that he’s a good person and only doing this bc he loves you… He’s probably lying

“Please don’t do anything to ruin us.” - implies the relationship health is entirely dependent on her. Abusers frequently always lay the blame for everything at your feet so you start thinking If only I didn’t say that If only I didn’t wear that If I do this he won’t get mad If only If only If only… It’s an endless cycle.

I had a boyfriend like this. When I didn’t text him he told me I had to assume I was cheating on him. Apparently any sane man would break my jaw for that (with his foot on my face) and I was supposed to be grateful that he didn’t.

If you get messages like this, run. Run far, run fast and with no regrets.

I’m far from perfect but I will care for you so deeply and I will love you with my whole heart.

not killing myself is a personal achievement but you cant really brag about that at dinner parties